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Another BitLife challenge is here; this time, it’s all about supporting one another. You’ll find yourself getting into a few marriages, having children, and showing appreciation and support for them throughout the Love is Love challenge.

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Like most weekly trials, this one comes with an array of tough tasks to work through. If any part of the process has you stumped, here’s how to complete the Love is Love challenge in BitLife.

BitLife Love is Love challenge guide

Love is love challenge goals in bitlife
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BitLife’s Love is Love challenge has five key tasks for you to complete:

  • Be born in Arizona.
  • Marry a man.
  • Marry a woman.
  • Have 3+ children with each spouse.
  • Unconditionally accept a child who comes out to you.

You won’t need any expansion or special career packs for this challenge. The only requirement is choosing the right starting country and city, having children, and having at least one child come out to you at some point during their life.

Be born in Arizona in BitLife

To start the Love is Love challenge, you’ll need to create a character whose starting country is the United States and whose starting place is somewhere in Arizona. When making a new character in BitLife, you’ll be given a selection of random places to choose from, so make sure you select an area within Arizona to begin.

Anywhere in Arizona works, but the location that seems to pop up within this state most frequently is Phoenix, so this is a good one to look for and a solid starting spot for your character. Your starting gender is entirely up to personal preference for this challenge.

BitLife Phoenix Arizona starting place
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From here, focus on aging up your character until they’re old enough to date. To make things easier for this trial, it’s a good idea to set their sexuality to bisexual by heading into Activities and Identity. While not required, it’ll give you both men and women as dating options, making it easier to marry both later in this challenge.

Marry a man and woman in BitLife

Once your character is old enough to date, find a male or female character to pursue romantically. You can initially do this by talking to a school classmate or coworker or heading into the Love menu under Activities. Either way, date someone and keep your relationship stats high until they propose or you propose so you can hold a wedding, arrange any prenups if needed, and get married.

BitLife dating menu under Activities
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Unfortunately, this love won’t last forever, as you’ll need to marry at least two people during this challenge. Before you move on to a new spouse, though, make sure you have three children with your first one, as this is a crucial mission within the trial.

As soon as you have, you can repeat this process with a second spouse. If you married a man the first time, seek out a woman the second time, or vice versa, as you must marry both a man and a woman at some point during this challenge to get it done.

Have children with each spouse in BitLife

Once you’re married, your next goal is to have three children. You need to have three with each spouse, so in total, you’ll have to have at least six kids to progress. To initiate the process of having children, click on your spouse under the Relationships tab, then choose the Make Love option. Repeat this process frequently to have the best chances of having children.

Once you have three children with one spouse, you’ll have to initiate a divorce, marry your second person, and have three more with them. For your same-sex marriage, you can go for someone who already has children, or adopt three through the game’s adoption menu. You’ll need to have at least six in total, so be prepared to have a lot of monthly expenses for a while. Having a high-paying job is key for survival here, but BitLife offers numerous ways to make money, such as parent inheritances, marriage funds, and even crime in dire situations.

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Unconditionally accept a child who comes out to you in BitLife

At some point during your children’s lives, there’s a chance they’ll come out to you. You’ll find a pop-up telling you this, and you can unconditionally support or ridicule them. Choose to support them unconditionally to complete the final task of the Love is Love challenge in BitLife.

BitLife has plenty of other trials you can tackle after finishing this one. If you’re unsure what to dive into next, consider tackling the Rainbow Widower challenge, the Manic Mother challenge, the Real Housewife challenge, the Attack Titan challenge, and the Kahlo My World challenge.

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