BitLife has all kinds of chaotic trials you can tackle, with unique featured ones rotating on a weekly basis. One of the more complex and hectic ones you’ll face is the Crazy Ex challenge.
In this weekly challenge, your goal is to stir up a whole lot of drama with your exes. You’ll need to push some boundaries and engage with all kinds of gameplay features you likely don’t use all that often, which can make getting it done a pretty daunting task. Here’s how to complete the Crazy Ex challenge in BitLife.
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BitLife Crazy Ex challenge walkthrough

There are five key goals you need to complete in the Crazy Ex challenge, which are:
- Stalk 4+ exes.
- Violate restraining orders 4+ times.
- Kill an ex’s new lover.
- Arrange booty calls with 3+ exes.
- Marry an ex who had put a restraining order on you.
Stalk 4+ exes in BitLife
To stalk an ex, click on the Relationships page near the middle of the screen, look in the Love category, locate the Exes tab, find any character listed there, and choose the Stalk option. Repeat this step on at least four different exes to check off this objective. If you don’t have four exes listed, you’ll need to find, date, and break up with some new people so you have enough past relationships to choose from.

Violate restraining orders 4+ times in BitLife
Your next goal is to violate some restraining orders at least four times. To get going with this one, you’ll first need to get some restraining orders taken out against you. The best way to get exes to file one on you is to continuously stalk, call, and message them. If you keep at it, you’ll eventually get a pop-up letting you know a restraining order has been filed against you.
Once an order is in place, locate the ex who filed it under the Relationships page. Interact with them in any way, like stalking, calling, or texting, to break the terms of the restraining order. Repeat this process a total of four times to complete this goal. You can break the terms on the same ex each time, or do so with multiple different exes if a few of them have restraining orders against you.

Kill an ex’s new lover in BitLife
Next up, you need to kill an ex’s new lover. The first step in this process is finding an ex who is in a new relationship and learning the name of the person they’re dating. Locate an ex under the Relationships page, then click on their name near the top of the screen to see if they’re dating anyone.
If they are, the name of the person they’re with will be displayed here. Now that you know their name, open the Activities tab in the bottom right corner, scroll down to Crime, and select Murder. In the pop-up that follows, choose the victim, who needs to be your ex’s new lover, and the method in which you want to kill them. Select the Commit the murder option to proceed with it.
Arrange booty calls with 3+ exes in BitLife
You now need to try to woo some of your exes as you attempt to arrange some booty calls with three different exes. This will be quite tough to do with any exes you’re on bad terms with, so try to be friendly with them first or choose ones you haven’t been stalking or otherwise messing with to make the process easier.
To arrange a booty call, open the Relationships page, find the Exes tab, click on any character listed under it, and select either the Call or Message option. In the pop-up that follows, select the booty call objective. Repeat this process on three different exes to complete this quest. You must have a successful booty call with each one, meaning they must accept your advances, to get this one done.

Marry an ex who had put a restraining order on you in BitLife
Your final goal in this challenge is also the toughest one, as you must now marry an ex who had put a restraining order on you. This is more of a long-term goal, as getting back in good graces with an ex who had an order on you takes a lot of time and effort.
To win them back over, give them lots of fancy, expensive gifts, call and message them with nice things to say very often, and otherwise do your best to be as kind and friendly as possible. It’ll take some time, but eventually, you should be able to win them over, at which point you can rekindle the relationship and work up to marriage. As soon as you manage to marry them, you’ll officially be done with the Crazy Ex challenge.
If you’re looking for more trials to tackle, there are plenty of other tricky ones worth attempting next, like the Gatsby challenge, the Babes in Bitland challenge, and the Bad Teacher challenge. You also may need to know how to tackle particularly tough tasks throughout these challenges, like becoming a famous author and buying a Lamborghini.