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You're allowed to say you're gay on Xbox Live now! photo

Xbox Live just got a little bit more progressive this morning, with Microsoft proudly announcing that gamers are now allowed to share their sexual orientation in their profiles. Previously, you were not allowed to express sexuality in your Xbox Live profile, but Xbox Live head of policy Stephen Toulouse has revealed that a number of terms have now been permitted. 

Gamers will be able to use Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered and Straight to denote their sexuality, if they so desire. Microsoft had been working with GLAAD and "Microsoft's LGBT community" to narrow down the terms. 

Note that those are the only terms allowed. Use of those words in an insulting manner won't be tolerated either, so it seems as if Microsoft has retracted its scorched earth policy and will now be reviewing the use of these words on a case-by-case basis. That, of course, is very good news for our many gay readers. 

It may not seem like a big deal to many of you, but it was certainly a big deal to some, and it's very cool that Microsoft has taken the stick out of its arse and decided to judge the use of these words on their own merits. Microsoft doesn't do everything right, but this was definitely a good thing. Well done!

[Via Stephen Toulouse's Twitter]








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HoodedMiracle's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:44
HoodedMiracle
Lesbians make everything better. 8D
Fear No Darkness's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:44
Fear No Darkness
What is the purpose of doing so? XBL isn't a dating site. I don't care if another gamer is gay or not, this is pointless.
stalinshake's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:46
stalinshake
FREEDOM
volatilis's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:47
volatilis
Burgled.
Kryptinite's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:48
Kryptinite
I hope they don't attempt to talk to the NAACP to try and get clearance for the word ni**er.

....That word makes Kryp cry and Hulk Smash.

Also, when was saying Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgendered and Straight not okay? Microsoft needs to chill the fuck out.
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:48
Xzyliac
This is great to hear. From what I've been hearing from the XBL community of the last few years pretty much everybody is gay and everybody knows everyone is gay because everyone calls everyone gay.
TheJesusNinja26's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:48
TheJesusNinja26
Whats funny about that header image, is that you think Obama supports Gay marriage, but doesn't.
Strandli's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:49
Strandli
@FearNoDarkness:
And I guess people won't be using it as a dating site either. But it's about being able to express yourself, and not get banned because you say you're gay or lesbian, which is just stupid.
Xbox live isn't a phonebook either, but should you get banned for saying your phone number?
psycho terror2's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:49
psycho terror2
so we can say straight, but not bent...
CrocBox's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:50
CrocBox
This totally effects how good you are at the vidya.
Sexualchocolate's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:51
Sexualchocolate
Will I be allowed a LIVE profile called XBOXUSERSAREGAY?

What about Homo? That's a fairly unoffensive term, i want a profile called Homo-Panda or something.

there's someone on the toid with a wicked username, snatch something. Can't remember, but I love it.

I've got a PSN firend with the coolest username I've ever seen....




Butthymen

I literally laughed out loud just typing it.
Jesus H Christ's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:52
Jesus H Christ
Microsoft has delivered this thrust to homophobes, who will no doubt be feeling the blow for years to come.
Jim Sterling's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:52
Jim Sterling
Fear No Darkness:

I think the point is that Microsoft really has nothing to lose by allowing the terms, and can only stand to gain a bit of respect from the LGBT community. The point is, it was such a needless and silly thing to ban, just as you think it's a needless and silly thing to allow. I'd rather have a silly thing allowed than a silly thing banned, at any rate.

TheJesusNinja26:

You fail to appreciate irony. I didn't use Obama because I think he's pro-gay, I used Obama because the idea of him giving a thumbs-up to Microsoft allowing gay terms on Xbox Live is amusing.
andycadaver's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:53
andycadaver
Was it really that hard to do, and did it really have to take this long to be revised? I mean, of course it's respectful, though unprecedented (since I thought it was dropped a while ago and they were just gonna be douchebags about it, something I was ready to not put past them), but it honestly doesn't take effort, or counseling, or community input, or polls, or whatever the fuck they did, to figure out it's a good idea. It should have just been "Oh shit, we fucked up, I'm sorry about that, here's a revision. We're cool now, right?" instead of "Oh shit, we made a mistake somewhere and now we have to figure out what we did wrong. Okay, done, I think we're cool now."
Rekai's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:53
Rekai
Ah. GLEAM Gay and Lesbian Employees at Microsoft. They're some great people. I met a few of them at a corporate GLBT conference in Washington DC and Austin, TX the past few years. I work for another corporation that attends those conferences as well. It was always odd to me, this Xbox Live mess. Microsoft is such a gay-friendly company. I love when the Evangelicals are like "We're going to boycott MS because they support gay rights!" Good luck telling your boss at work that you refuse to use Windows. Oh and don't think getting a Mac is anymore heterosexual >.>
Deadeight's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:53
Deadeight
Wahoo! People can now put that they're gay on XBL!

I might go tell people all about my girlfriend and how my parents met and the diameter of my ear canal. This stuff is important, especially when video gaming.
Davidfoundation's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:54
Davidfoundation
Xzyliac you get a +1 for that joke haha
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:54
Xzyliac
@Strandli
If I saw somebody giving out their phone number on XBL I would have mighty high suspicions of that person and if not a ban I'd definitely call for some kind of investigation. I get your point but that was a terrible example.

@Jesus H Christ
lulz
Genebeef's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:55
Genebeef
finally i can have a gamertag of: greasy sterling
Uther's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:56
Uther
Well, it's a win for the gay community.
And for preteens everywhere.
Adam11's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:58
Adam11
@Fear No Darkness - Just think about it in a different way. So Mario identifies as a plumber, right? It's part of his identity and how he thinks about himself. So Mario goes to set up his x-box live profile and puts that he's a plumber, cuz hey, he likes plumbing and to him it's important. Samus doesn't give a shit if Mario's a plumber and neither does Sonic but to Mario it's important. But when Mario puts in that he's a plumber on his profile, the Xblox live gods tell him he can't say that he is a plumber. So now Mario is sad, very very sad. Luckily now he can say he's a plumber, play games with plumbers and non-plumbers alike and he's happy.

OK that analogy went a little far and I personally I'm not about to emblazon my profile with gay-ness cuz that's not at all my style. But I'm glad I could if I wanted to.
TheJesusNinja26's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:58
TheJesusNinja26
@ Jim - Ok irony appreciated. I will go play more Heavy Rain now.
Rammstein's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:58
Rammstein
Not to spoil the lovefest but everyone is glossing over one important fact here:

This is teaching Gays that they can puff their chest enough and get their way.

You shouldn't reward a child who is being a BRAT just because you want them to shut up, it sends the wrong message.

And that's not a knock against gays at all, its against the people who bent over(oop) and took it from the few gays making a big stink(hurr).
Strandli's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:58
Strandli
Xzyliac:
Yeaaah... I noticed that right after posting. Let's try something again:
XBL isn't a cooking show, but would you be banned for giving tips on how to cook a meal?

There, better? Hope it is, although slightly irrelevant. Meh, can't please everyone.
Sean Daisy's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 09:59
Sean Daisy
"What is the purpose of doing so? XBL isn't a dating site. I don't care if another gamer is gay or not, this is pointless."

I agree that I don't care how adults choose to couple while I'm playing videogames, but I also agree that if LIVE users want to tell us whether or not they're SLGB or T they should be freely allowed to.

That's all these new terms permit, which sounds fair enough to me.
emptythecache's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:00
emptythecache
Did they unban users with "gay" in their gamertag? because it would be incredibly duplicitous if they didn't.
Volgin13's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:00
Volgin13
Tax dollars at work. Truly this man has delivered change.
Misstawnii's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:05
Misstawnii
That's pretty cool. :3
Gimic300's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:06
Gimic300
Yay! We can finally have gamertags with the word "Radiohead" in them!
Deadeight's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:07
Deadeight
@Adam11

I don't see why someone would feel the need to announce that they're either a plumber or gay. You don't know people through xbox live, and any that you do know on it you know outside of it. I really like rowing, like it's my life, but if microsoft said they didn't want personal stuff like that and to keep it more impersonal or about gaming then I wouldn't be bothered.

On top of that I can completely see why they did it. Having stuff like that on your profile is just going to mark you as a target for homophobes or whatever, and next thing we know Fox/Daily Mail/whatever has another article on cyber bullying.
tkyy's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:09
tkyy
YES
Balaamsafe's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:14
Balaamsafe
Progress is good
Sean Daisy's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:14
Sean Daisy
@Sexualchocolate
"Will I be allowed a LIVE profile called XBOXUSERSAREGAY?"

That depends. If you were asked what this name represents, would it be:

A) A statement of homosexual pride in the XBox user community?

or

B) A childish affront to XBox users?


Clue: It's what most of your comments on Destructoid represent.

Another clue: It's not A.
Xanthene's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:15
Xanthene
I could careless is someone prefers sausage or tacos but why do the sausage lovers feel the need to throw it my face constantly? You mind your own business and I'll mind mine.
necrozen's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:16
necrozen
Wow, I'm actually genuinely proud of Microsoft for this. It's little steps like this that work toward widespread progress. Good way to start out the day!
socialnorms's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:16
socialnorms
Oh yeah, this will make a huge fucking difference in the level of tolerance and openness on Xbox Live. Also, there will be assless chaps for your avatar.
Shadowiii's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:17
Shadowiii
This is good progress, but it should have just been this way in the first place.
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:17
Xzyliac
@Strandli
Just say it's like representing your favorite band or your favorite sandwich.
KwikPwn's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:19
KwikPwn
I wonder if Gaylord Focker has been taken yet?

:)
Markusdragon's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:19
Markusdragon
The old policy was basically the equivalent of Don't Ask, Don't Tell. About time the world was rid of that blemish too.
Sexualchocolate's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:20
Sexualchocolate
@Captainbus

B B B B B B B!

Did i get it right? Can I haz homophobic anti Microshaft gamertagz?

Reminds me of when a buddy made me go back to MW2 for an evening so i changed my clan tag to [MAG>] - you wouldn't beleive the shit i got off people. Almost as much as when it was just [RAPE] - people loved that one.
sewerraccoon's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:20
sewerraccoon
open this post. read and say "that's cool". notice "gaydar.net" ad on the side. Laugh
zer0faults's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:20
zer0faults
100% Support this move, kudos to MS.
Jim Sterling's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:21
Jim Sterling
People here are right: They don't need to know that somebody is gay. The point is, however, that they don't need to not know, either.
TheToiletDuck's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:22
TheToiletDuck
Tried to link to the bit where Sealab is watching Will and Grace and it just says "gay gay gay gay gay gay gay" but this is appropriate too.

Actually, i'm not sure how i feel about this. Although the draconian system of simply banning sexuality outright does seem kind of fucked, it kind of works. But then so does communism.

I imagine we're going to see an influx of homophobic xbl videos being posted.
Icehearted's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:25
Icehearted
Yay tolerance! Boo-urns XBox Live players! So many of them are so friggin' obnoxious.

@HoodedMiracle
If you're a male and hang out with real lesbians... no, you know, keep thinking a lesbian is just a girl that makes out with other girls to get guys to notice them. Who am I to spoil your fantasy?
Roek's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:27
Roek
Fantastic news. I just fear about the community backlash from Xbox Live's largely insincere, internet-anonymous population, and how these fuckwads are going to start treating clearly-labeled gay gamers.
indigit4l's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:27
indigit4l
@ TheJesusNinja26: Obama is pro gay rights. It's just not popular for him to say so right now. Liberals are pro gay rights, because they tend to not be imbeciles that actually give a crap what other people do with their lives.

@Jim: And I think it's a great contrast and homage to the soon to be repealed "don't ask don't tell policy", so our gay men and woman who serve for us who equal rights as everyone else. I guess you weren't going for that though.
Xanthene's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:28
Xanthene
Roek, shouldn't they be called gay-mers?
socialnorms's Avatar - Comment posted on 03/05/2010 10:28
socialnorms
I really fail to see how this is going to bring about any kind of tolerance. It's a big PR move for MS, and nothing else. Why on earth would a legitimately gay/lesbian/transgender/bisexual/pomo "other" person want to hang out with the 16 year-old, southern pseudomasculine bros in the first place?

I usually just tell them I'm gay to piss them off. Now I don't have to verbally antagonize them - my profile will do it for me.

This is a pointless move. Nobody has ever accomplished positive results by beating somebody over the head with their point of view. The XBL punks won't tolerate or appreciate anybody different unless they actually live with them. And XBL is about the farthest venue from reality.
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