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Xbox Live: Society's sewer, or society's mirror? photo

To say that gamers don't have the greatest of reputations is putting it mildly. We're portrayed as violent-minded, introverted, disturbed malefactors and a lot of the perception is, to be fair, quite justified. The release of the Halo 3 homophobia video proved to highlight a very real problem on Xbox Live, that of classless, brainless individuals who have found a home for their hateful and bigoted opinions.

However, does the abuse, chauvanism, homophobia and racism of Xbox Live expose a problem with "gamer culture," or does it rather serve as a magnifying glass for culture at large? While many people choose to use the likes of those found on Xbox Live to mock and chastise the gaming community, how many of them are willing to turn those accusing fingers back to the sector of society that they believe they exclusively belong to?

Is Xbox Live really society's sewer, or is it rather society's mirror? Hit the jump to find the answer.

It's a fact -- if you play on Xbox Live with any degree of regularity, you will hear the term "n*gger" spouted by a number of individuals. Likewise, expect to hear "f*ggot" plenty of times as well. These aren't jokingly said, either, as the infamous xxx GayBoy xxx found out when he used that gamertag to sign into Live and found himself the subject of vitriolic hatred hidden amongst the gags. That video, and the prolonged knowledge of what happens over Live has, for a long time, served to portray gamers in a bad light, and rightfully so.

While not the most prominent online gamer, I will happily sink a few hours into Gears of War or Call of Duty 4. However, unless I'm playing with people from Destructoid, I won't go anywhere near my headset. Why? Because the people on Live are idiots. They're abusive, they have nothing worthwhile to say and when they're not talking about "qu*ers," they're throwing racial slurs at one another. Yes, it's true -- most gamers are absolutely appalling people. 

However, many would erect a fence around the problem, claim it's a defect in "gamer culture" and leave it at that. I instead propose that this is an issue that's far greater than gaming, it's just that Xbox Live happens to bring us closer to the heart of the situation than we're comfortable with.

At the end of the day, we gamers are people as well. When the Xbox 360 is switched off, most of us go out and have lives, go to work, socialize, etcetera. We do not inhabit a subterranean netherworld below the cities of the "normal people." When a gamer steps away from the keboard and the controller, he's not a part of this mythical gamer community -- he's a member of the community, period.

Turning that on its head, it's been a long-held belief that the average person who plays Halo online is the stereotypical male known as the "frat boy," the partying, drinking, pink shirt-wearing college guy -- in short, about as diametrically opposed to the hardcore gamer as you can get. These people, while imbeciles, are also people. They are people playing Xbox Live -- not gamers, regular joes with regular lives.

However, when you put the Internet in the hands of a regular person, you do an amazing thing. You give that person anonymity, and a realm where opinions can be expressed without consequence. In short, you grant diplomatic immunity to everyone, and what is the one thing that humans have proven when they're free from consequence? They let their true, sour, corrupt little selves be known.

What I'm trying to say is that the racism, homophobia and misogyny that you see on Xbox Live has never been, nor ever will be, exclusive to Xbox Live. It's just that Live is a realm without fear of reprisal, where every vile aspect of human nature can be let loose from the cage of societal moral sensibilities. In a sense, Xbox Live is one of the few places where you can see the truth about our civilisation and how far we really haven't come. 

We like to believe that racism has been stamped out, that gay people are more accepted and that sexism is a thing of the past, but it's not like that and it won't ever be. The only thing that's changed is the level of fear that people with such bigoted opinions now possess. I live in South East London and I work night shifts -- I can tell you from my own experiences that the problems we think have been all but eradicated still flourish behind closed doors and on the streets under cover of dark. I've worked and dealt with sexists, racists and homophobes for years, but the only place where such vileness is being immortalized on a large and public scale is -- you guessed it -- online haunts such as Xbox Live. Places without fear.

It is this fear that also drives society at large to pretend that these problems are exclusive to subsects of people rather than humanity as a whole. We're scared to admit that most of us haven't really evolved since the dark ages, and so it's easier to find something else to blame, someone else to look down upon, rather than accept what human beings are actually like. It's easier to call the mass murderers and serial killers of history "monsters," view them as boogiemen and freaks until we forget that, yes, these so-called monsters were human too. More than that, they were a reflection of humanity's darkest capabilities.

Just like Xbox Live -- a reflection not of gamers, but of people, and of their potential for hatred, for bigotry and for ignorance.

As gamers, there is little we can do to resolve this issue as Xbox Live is, due to it being an extension of the Internet, too large and active a place to properly tame. Rather than just sit back and complain about it, however, Destructoid encourages you to take a stand. If you don't like being reflected poorly by the miscreants and morons who infest Live, report them. Nobody likes being a snitch, but then no decent human being, rare as they may be, likes a racist either. I certainly will enjoy reporting each and every moron to Major Nelson and his banhammer-wielding cohorts from now on. Will it truly cleanse the root of the problem? Of course not, but one less bigot on Live is a good thing.

To answer the question posed at the beginning of this article, Xbox Live serves as neither society's sewer nor its mirror. It is society itself, and it's perhaps time that someone grabbed a plunger.


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Mongrel's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 21:23
Mongrel
Good stuff jim, I don't find too often on here a read that was as good as this. The sooner the end of the world, the better off EVERYONE is.
Poopface Morty's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 21:38
Poopface Morty
I generally don't agree with everything you post on here Jim, but I think this one is obvious. Pretty much hit it on the head here. This kind of douchebaggery (not to mention an excessive amount of lag) is what caused me to ditch Live the first time...I even cited that as my reason when the Micro$oft rep asked me why I was canceling my account after the first year. I basically flat out said that 90% of my matches (which wasn't too much if any of an exaggeration at the time) were with raging idiots like that, and that it wasn't fun.
DrNutt's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 21:41
DrNutt
Ok sloganpwns, I get your point, but I'm guessing that there are greasy haired, acne covered, fat, "traditional" gamers who are just as ill-mannered as the "frat boys" out there. Generalizing just doesn't help anyone. I stand by my hypothesis that Halo gets the majority of grief because people want to hate on something with such mainstream appeal. Look at the first Halo. It didn't have online play, but was tremendously successful; enough to warrant two sequels, one of which broke damn near every sales record seen since.

And regarding accessibility, I'd rather there be accessible games out there pulling the "normals" into gaming. Then I don't have to get funny looks when I tell people I'm into games.
braulio09's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 21:42
braulio09
Necros, it'd be better if we could be Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles

also, great read. looks like you remembered to use your smart monocle, amirite?

*crickets*

:(
Mxyzptlk's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 22:11
Mxyzptlk
I thought anonymous bigotry was part of the Xbox Live package by design? What am I paying them for if not to have my self-esteem raised by realizing I'm not as sad as those pathetic sub-humans?
brainpower4's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 22:25
brainpower4
This is exactly the reason i join a clan as soon as i get a new game, while bad clan members certainly exist, they are far fewer since many get kicked.
Velt's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/04/2007 23:37
Velt
Come on... is Halo, what do you expect guys?
Is like the travesty of gaming, is the very mainstream for idiots.

Now PC gaming is not a lot better.

So maybe is just the people, maybe they are just a few rotten apples since we do not speak about the good people.
So, i have nothing.
Fading Star's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 00:50
Fading Star
"To answer the question posed at the beginning of this article, Xbox Live serves as neither society's sewer nor its mirror. It is society itself, and it's perhaps time that someone grabbed a plunger."

Speak the truth brother.
Bas's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 01:11
Bas
As a violent-minded, introverted and disturbed malefactor, I find this post insulting. Good day to you sir.
ToxinMongoose's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 02:00
ToxinMongoose
You know, Racism ticks me off... And shi~ It's not the racism. It's the fact that people are cruel enough to be unkind and unaccepting to someone who's 'not liek them'. It sickens me. I mean, come on, I got kicked out of a damn game, because I wasn't Emo! WTF IS UP WITH THAT?

People are pitiful. That's quite all there is to it.
p0windah's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 02:33
p0windah
I think the article does raise some interesting points, but I think some of the source material is incomplete.

Yes this is the way gamers behave on xbox live, in some games, but it is not the way gamers behave in all games and on ts/vent servers for larger MMO's.

Furthermore, the language and behavior varies, depending on the type of game you are playing and the role of community.

Games with limited community functionality built into the gameplay, that reward and allow solo griefing are more likely to attract obnoxious players, compared to games that require a concerted group effort to achieve any level of success.

I wouldn't conclude that simply being anonymous online is the cause of these problems, since it's not always the case. In my experience it is more closely related to community dynamics built into the gameplay and the attention span required from the individual and collective gamer.

In a nutshell, the shorter an attention span a game requires to yield a measurable result, the more juvenile it's players are likely to be.
KamikazeTutor's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 05:03
KamikazeTutor
I kicked a small child and stole his internet just to be able reply on how much I agree with you.

Off with the joke now, I tried to be as civilized on the internet as I am outside it. Normally I do get angry and whine, mostly when I'm being pushed around by those types of degenerates.

One thing that's funny is that I think I swear less on the internet than in real life.

When I play online, I'm usually something of a referee when it comes to appeal some civism out of everyone. Unfortunately this only seems to work when I play with portuguese people, as foreign ones mock me for my english accent.
brad drac's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 06:06
brad drac
No time to read the comments(even though they look pretty good), but a great article. While we can probably no more destroy the perception that gamers are the mouthbreathing, murderous scum some would make us out to be than stamp out those very scum from our communities, the effort to do so should still be made. One less fucktard we have to deal with is one less fucktard we have to deal with.
Noah's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 07:11
Noah
Well written Jim. I can't believe that it's taken this long for people to start talking about it, I first noticed it when Halo 2 came out.

I wish there were "trash talking" and "non trash talking" serching options for matchmaking.
Kryptinite's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 08:44
Kryptinite
this is why there should be a mic/no mic option when playing online.
LKM's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 09:28
LKM
Friend codes FTW.
MarginalMeaning's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 12:33
MarginalMeaning
Xbox live is a dark dark place, but so is the internet in general.
The only thing between xbox live that makes it lesser than online pc gaming, is administration and punishment. When I used to play CS way back in the day, we never had problems with dickbags coming into our server, because once they acted up we would drop the banhammer on their ass and that was the end of it. The problem with Xbox live is that there is a gap of control. I've been in good and bad games... definitely more bad than good though.
If there were more consequences for inappropriate behavior on XBL, I know it would get better.
Mega Comrade's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 14:10
Mega Comrade
The whole Internet is like this, these children (-18) haven't learn to control their behaviour without social restraints. the internet and things that run through it such as Xbox live do not have these restraints, the seemingly anonymity allows people to not only say what they think but to exaggerate their own ignorant beliefs to make their personalities stand out more. I would say that the majority of culprits are Americans though, people may not like to admit it but America still has issues with racism and homophobia on a scale that Europe does not suffer from.

This sort of behaviour will eventually die out, as people get older they grow out of such puerile behaviour, as the Internet becomes more and more popular within society, societies rules will begin to apply to it also.
wardrox's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 16:51
wardrox
Jim said erect, he is also completely right (for a change).
CryingTheAnnualKingo's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 17:24
CryingTheAnnualKingo
"chauvanism, homophobia and racism of Xbox Live"

This coming from Destructoid? Oh, the irony...

Do you even read your headlines?
mistic's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/05/2007 17:42
mistic
I regularly just put my wireless headset next to me while playing so that it doesn't spew all that shit over my speakers without me having to switch settings everytime I wanna play with my clan-mates...

also wireless headsets are great for throwing away in rage since they are virtually indestructible ( contrary to the default ones :-) )
SyntaxError's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/06/2007 06:28
SyntaxError
I'm restricted to playing online games only in my country, and I don't have an X360 but I can relate to this. Seems like no matter the online community, there will always be people who think that anonymity is a license to act like a douchebag. I've seen my fair share of griefers on DotA games through battle.net.

On a lighter note, I like the community here on Dtoid. Everyone gets along (at least almost everyone) and I haven't seen an all-out flame war (unlike in GamePro) just yet. And on another message board that I used to frequent, people tend to bash newbies to the boards just because they're n00bz.
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