"And let me clarify, when I said "you" as in "wanting to fuck kids" that was meant as a general "you", meaning pedophiles, not YOU actually. Sorry if I wasn't clear."

Hey, I'm trying not to make myself look like an ass. It's just that I get really defensive. Rumors are a usual problem for me, so I try to be as careful as possible.

By now, I think we're playing word games with each other. Hell, we have porn sites listing what we mentioned as "fetishes" when others classify them as "turn ons". Don't ask how I know.

But I want to talk about games now. Speaking of which, I like it when a girl kicks my ass in gaming. I don't mean as in "Oops, I 'accidentally' missed when attacking". I mean as in "Holy shit, you handed me my own ass when I tried!"

Just as a side note, most fetishes aren't considered paraphilia until they fall into the realm of interfering with quality of life or normal functioning of an individual. So while there are several sexual behaviors that can become abnormal, just posessing those behaviors isn't particularly abnormal. So even if you need feet or hello kitty to become aroused, it's not till it interferes with quality of life that it becomes a psychological concern.

Hell, other than maybe his parents having an issue with their kid leaving the country, there really isn't anything illegal going on here. No age of consent laws were broken (NC is 16, or less than that if you marry the 12 year old) and at 17 he could probably have gotten married stateside without his parents permission. As to the age difference, its a little strange for a woman in her early 30s to be interested in a young man for a serious relashionship (serious fucking, however, is another matter). As people get older, the difference between them developmentally isn't as great... whereas a year to a teenager is an amount of great physical and mental change, that same increment of time matters less as you get older. Read up on Eriksons stages of life development if your curious.

My mental health public service announcement.

@Ritalin Twitch

Wow. I was born and raised in NC, but that still surprised me. But it looks like you are correct.

It still squicks me out, though.