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Appearing on Attack of the Show via webcam was the coolest moment in this little geek's life, so imagine the uncontrollable happy dance I did when a local Canadian TV station contacted me to appear as an expert (shows what they know) on a segment about videogame addiction. Let's just say that there was a long and merry jig performed after I hung up the phone.

CHCH Hamilton or E! has a small debate show called Live at 5:30pm where two hosts Mark and Donna talk about the latest issues with a few experts on the subject. Friday's show covered the subject of videogame addiction and I was one of three experts asked to appear on the show.

The other two guests were Mark Ouellette, an assistant professor teaching pop culture at McMaster University and Liz Woolley, the founder of Online Gamers Anonymous and mother to a son who committed suicide in front of his computer after a year long struggle with an Everquest addiction.

I really wish the segment had been longer but the show covers a couple of topics at once and they only have half an hour to cover them. It really bothers me that the con side of the conversation got more air time than the two pro sides, especially when I had the academic on my side. I felt like Adam Sessler when he debated Jack Thompson, in that I was cut off before I got a chance to rip the misinformed game-hater a new one. Don't get me wrong... I feel bad that her son took his own life, but blaming his obviously serious problems on a videogame is a cheap way out of blaming yourself or him for what happened.

Games maybe the stuff of peoples' addictions sometimes, but they are never the cause. If you know anyone who is so badly addicted to videogames or anything else that they have reverted from their family, friends and general life, please get them help before its too late. Addictions are always a serious sign of something really wrong with a person's state of mind.

[Writer's note: Sorry about the watermark. My brother-in-law ripped, edited and uploaded the video for me and the program he had to edit was a trial version. I can't complain cause my computer couldn't even process the 10 minute video. I suck.]


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moominsean's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 09:16
moominsean
excessive gaming was a symptom of the problem, not the cause of the problem. people (particularly parents) really seem to be unable to delve past the obvious when searching for a reason for depression or suicide.
and 'they designed it to be addictive'. well, duh. that's pretty much the goal of every single product ever created. people want to make money and they want to sell lots of EVERYTHING. that's the way the world works. if i killed myself while eating really delicious hybrid tomatoes, and i loved those tomatoes and ate them every day because they were so damn good...we can't blame the tomatoes for my problems because someone designed them to be really good so i would want to keep eating them.
and as soon i heard that gamers org name and saw the lady, i thought, 'yep, older mother'. bad that her son killed himself, but depression is incredibly common, and withdrawing is a symptom. if she has this organization, i would hope she uses it not to keep companies from making games, or to keep people from buying games, but to help parents look for signs that maybe their children might be having problems, and possible solutions or resources to help these kids, instead of just fingerpointing.
RestingSound's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 09:22
RestingSound
I thought this was Destructoid not "For the girl gamers .blogspot .com".
blu3steel's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 10:04
blu3steel
Hey, I've been taught by that professor. I didn't know he played video games. I didn't like the class too much, but that brings him up a few notches in my book.
Justin Villasenor's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 10:05
Justin Villasenor
Nice job Faith!

Also, it seemed a little odd that while Everquest was specifically being referenced there was gameplay from Halo 3 being shown. It was probably just because their studio didn't have any footage, though.
king3vbo's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 10:47
king3vbo
Great job Faith!

I hate these bullshit "news stories" its all about scaring people just like every other fucking story on the news
thunderleg's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 10:52
thunderleg
There should be a rule that when the interviewer mentions memories of Pong they get an instant fail as an interviewer.

Other than that, nice work!
SaraAB87's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 11:07
SaraAB87
Parents are just so superficial these days that they actually do not bother to take into consideration how their child or young adult feels about their living situation. I have seen very few parents that take a genuine interest in their children and their children's interests, most just try to act interested to appease their children while they go off doing their own things. Its VERY important that parents take an interest in whatever their child is doing, being it video games or any other hobby. I REALLY hate parents who just say, I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT VIDEO GAMES AND I DON'T CARE! and those parents who refuse to play video games with their children and who refuse to know whats actually going on with their children. This is what leads to depressed kids.

Addiction is also a part of personality, and there is such a thing as an addictive personality, where even if you quit one addiction you just naturally move onto something else, possibly something even worse than video games. There are people that are addicted to food, shopping, gambling etc.. In theory someone with an addictive personality can get addicted to anything. I am not sure if there is a cure for this but there is likely help, its better to figure out if your kid has this personality disorder early on so you can try to prevent things like suicide from occuring.

I do not have kids but even I understand that if you sign up to be a parent you have to take an interest in whatever your kid is interested in, so if your 3 year old is interested in Dora you have to watch and like it instead of plopping them in front of the TV by themselves to watch it and constantly ignoring them.
Rosseh's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 11:11
Rosseh
If I were addicted to Everquest I'd want to kill myself too.
Rpg_Worshiper's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 11:12
Rpg_Worshiper
Christina made it seem like the only people who get into games are people who need to fill a hole in their lives. What BS.
JohnnyWadd's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 11:15
JohnnyWadd
The dude killed himself over EVERQUEST, nuff said.
CelicaCrazed's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 12:17
CelicaCrazed
I don't like the 2 hosts. They do nothing but complain about people younger than them. And they're usually way off the mark when it comes to their arguments.
konchu's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 13:19
konchu
I wish that could have been a little longer. I think is a bit funny when the lady said the EQ guys had psychologist on board to make the game more addictive. To be fair she did say he son had played games for 10 years before EQ without issues. I think MMO's in general have more addictive potential for multiple reasons. The investment in community and character and the ability to live a double life. But I think its silly to try to clump all games in this they are addictive camp. I don't think support groups are bad and I will not deny there are people that need the help. But if they are going to go on a banning witch hunt they would need to ban Gambling, Alcohol, Food, shopping, Sex, Masturbation etc too.
Faith's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 15:49
Faith
I did the best I could to defend our favorite hobby. The lady was full of it and needs to pull her head out of her @ss.

I wish they would have mentioned Destructoid as well as my own site. Destructoid.com sounds more professional than a crummy blog address. Christ, they didn't even get my site's name right. It's "The Girl Gamer" not the web address title.

Gaming is a great hobby for all. It works your finger muscles, your brain muscle and Wii sports works the rest of your muscles. What's not to love?
MasterMS's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 17:20
MasterMS
You were awsome
ToxinMongoose's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 19:28
ToxinMongoose
You know, it's amazing how clueless parents can be. Did she ever consider the fact that her son may have been having an online relationship through Everquest?

I have to highly doubt he would commit suicide over just a video game. But, I have heard wilder stories. Anyone remember the incident with Korean Gang and Gunbound?
Edco's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 20:46
Edco
Way to represent, Faith.

The debate itself was as expected, taking a polarized viewpoint and inflaming it, because "videogames are pretty damn fun and have an amazing community" apparently doesn't make for good talking heads. I can only assume the mother is still in denial, because Everquest must have been a fraction of the man's downfall that lead him to suicide. It's disheartening to see games used as a scapegoat, with a need to even debate the so-called dangers.
Sharpless's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 21:02
Sharpless
That woman is batshit nuts. I understand her grief and that she went through a lot, and I can even understand her lashing out at what "helped" kill him, but she's completely skewed. No game is designed to be addictive, unless she means they're designed to be fun and entertaining.

You did a good job, Faith, but they pretty well shorted you, there. I don't think you were given the time to be effective.
Necros's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 21:32
Necros
Wow, that show was biased as hell. I saw you trying to make your point, but you got one chance to talk and then the hosts and that woman practically ganged up on you and that other guy. It's a shame.
Sharpless's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/08/2008 22:22
Sharpless
Well, they're uninformed and out-of-touch with the industry. What else would you expect? We're never going to be properly covered and represented until our generation moves up and takes over their positions.
Chad Concelmo's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/09/2008 00:47
Chad Concelmo
Great job, Faith! :)
Fading Star's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/17/2008 01:25
Fading Star
Congratulations Faith.
monkeyspoon5's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/24/2008 01:14
monkeyspoon5
You did a good job in this article.

I mean, at least you had some people on your side. After watching the FOX debacle I have to say this is relatively tame in the ignorance department.

But yeah, good job and such. Also, yay Canada and our one day off release dates at the local EB. >_>
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