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Study shows that gamers are not shy nerds photo

Though you all were already totally aware, it seems that the rest of the world is finally finding out that their image of the stereotypical gamer is mostly incorrect. Gamers aren't the shy, lonely geeks they think us to be.

An Australian study helps out our image. It says that only one percent of polled gamers in this study appeared to have poor social skills, specifically shyness.

"Our findings strongly suggest that gaming doesn't cause social problems, and social problems are not driving people to gaming," says psychology graduate Daniel Loton, from Victoria University.

Even though 15 percent of the polled adult gamers were identified as "problem gamers" who spend more than 50 hours a week playing games (mostly MMO players), even they weren't shy nerds. It's just that they'd rather be gaming!

"What is important to note is that even problem gamers did not exhibit significant signs of poor social skills or low self-esteem," said Loton.

Loton, who admitted that he has always played video games, spent the last two years conducting the study, which was based on mainly Australian and mainly male respondents, says Reuters.

I know that I'm not a shy, introverted geek that can't communicate with the outside world, even though I game about 30 hours a week. My co-workers here at Destructoid are the same way, as are most of the Destructoid community members I've met. Some of us are geeky, but we're defintely not shy! Why do you think the non-gaming world sees us as shy, lonely people?


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van's Avatar
van at 06/15/2008 08:53
"You know, when you were a baby laying in your crib, your father looked down at you and said to himself, 'One day, my son will grow to be a man.' Well, look at you now. You just got yer asses whipped - by a bunch of goddamned nerds."
"NERDS!"
SyntaxError's Avatar
SyntaxError at 06/15/2008 08:55
It's all part of the scaremongering to ban videogames. We all know that people tend to stereotype others. So when an image of a gamer (who has legitimate problems0 come up, suddenly, all gamers are like that.
Static Jak's Avatar
Static Jak at 06/15/2008 08:56
Am I shy? No
Am I a geek? Yes
Am I proud to be a geek? Hell yes!
Wexx's Avatar
Wexx at 06/15/2008 09:04
*shuffles off*

Seriously though, my 'gamer' (for lack of a better word) friends and myself are some of the most animated and awesome people that I know. I don't really get how people say that gamers are bad with talking to people or anything of that nature.
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The-Excel at 06/15/2008 09:07
57% of me has social anxiety.
Dale North's Avatar
Dale North at 06/15/2008 09:10
van: well played
SWE3tMadness's Avatar
SWE3tMadness at 06/15/2008 09:48
Seriously, if anything, video games have helped me become more social. It's a common interest with other people I meet and gives me a way to start conversations and discussions. Guys in my class that I've never met I'm now very good friends with because we all enjoy video games.

It's also helped boost my self-esteem, it makes me feel more confident talking to someone if I know I can probably kick their ass in Guitar Hero. :3
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ajaxender at 06/15/2008 09:49
Stereotypes, duh... blondes are stupid. Black people are good at basketball. Asians are super smart. Lawyers are blood-sucking assholes. And gamers are shy people with no social life. When you have little knowledge and few (if any) experiences with a group in society, stereotypes tend to be what you go with.
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Blarg the Destroyer at 06/15/2008 10:08
Ugh.

Yet another "study" using surveys to poll individuals (because people never lie, right) put out by a self-serving, self-aggrandizing "scientist" with a self-interest in the subject matter doesn't mean that the results are accurate.

I really don't care if the results are accurate or not. What I do care about is people taking this kind of crap science as accurate when it fits their needs or agenda.
Eschatos's Avatar
Eschatos at 06/15/2008 10:10
Can I get a "DURKADURKADURK"?
Stealthy Robot's Avatar
Stealthy Robot at 06/15/2008 10:12
Its because they would rather not talk to us.
They pretend we are shy so they dont have to talk to us.

or not.

i dont know.
Spartacus's Avatar
Spartacus at 06/15/2008 10:35
Someone just show them pictures from a NARP or something.
Wry Guy's Avatar
Wry Guy at 06/15/2008 10:53
Because gamers are often nerds, and the negative nerd stereotype was previously handled by, like, Trekkies and shit?
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SnakeDude4Life at 06/15/2008 11:02
@Spartacus


That reminds me, When the hell are any of you gonna have a NARP in Miami or at least South Florida? Just saying.
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monkeyspoon5 at 06/15/2008 11:05
Gamers were shy nerds. Ten years ago. Since then people who would have turned out to be jocks now sit around and play online FPS. Same thing with MMOs. Gaming has changed, but more often than not society as a whole doesn't see this. However, this has also changed the people who would have been shy nerd, they now do have people to talk to about gaming, but its different now. More likely than not, this stereotype is perpetrated by the people who don't game at all.
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CaptainApocalypse at 06/15/2008 11:13
Movies portray us as shy, bumbling idiots. Usually this is for comic relief, but the label still sticks. This, like all stereotypes, is largely untrue of the people it is supposed to represent.
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Brahms at 06/15/2008 11:38
Unfortunately I am part of that stereotype. I'm mostly reclusive, just shy of being an honors student, and I could really care less about much of television, popular culture, and sports et al. However, I'm also great with children, and haven't had any trouble finding a date for a while.

Personally, I'm more worried about the stereotype that gamers may "snap" and engage in the violent behavior from the games they play.
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fetusmilk at 06/15/2008 11:43
NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRDDDDDDDDDSSSSSSS
Knives's Avatar
Knives at 06/15/2008 11:47
Nerds fucking rock, best candy ever!
ConsummateK's Avatar
ConsummateK at 06/15/2008 11:49
Meh.

It's hard to say "Yeah I'm a stud that gets lots of chicks, loves sports, parties like a rock star AND will drop your jaw with my list of PSO rares" and not sound like a douche.

That being said:
I'm a stud that gets lots of chicks, loves sports, parties like a rock star AND will drop your jaw with my list of PSO rares.
DrNutt's Avatar
DrNutt at 06/15/2008 11:56
Yeah dude, I don't know about any of these other geeks but I get laid ALL the time.
ConsummateK's Avatar
ConsummateK at 06/15/2008 12:04
Right? RIGHT?

*fist bump*
foxhound009's Avatar
foxhound009 at 06/15/2008 12:24
hmmmmmmmmmmm... so they asked gamers if they are shy?

hmm ofcourse they said no..

:P
Velt's Avatar
Velt at 06/15/2008 12:29
I know that NOBODY cares, but
I allready posted the news at my c blog.
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Peronthious at 06/15/2008 12:32
This an many other points were made in the recently hyped novel Grand Theft Childhood, which everyone should read. In fact, Drs. Kutner and Olsen heavily press the fact that gaming is a social activity, and all these stories of the kid sitting up in his room all day constantly playing a game are myths, or at the very least, abnormal circumstances that could be signs of trouble.
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Alexradl at 06/15/2008 12:53
I have no friends.
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atheistium at 06/15/2008 13:37
I'm not shy :D I like to take off my wizard cape & hat ...
Sharpless's Avatar
Sharpless at 06/15/2008 13:39
I do not personally support the results of this study. :(
Blue Ryd3r's Avatar
Blue Ryd3r at 06/15/2008 13:51
Yeah I guess I fall into the 1 percent catagory.
Basic human connections fill me with intense anxiety.
I feel uncomfortable grouping up in MMO's sometimes too.
I can't make a phone call without going through 15 minutes of hell before hand as I'm just to scared to even call someone I know.

Alas it seems that I am a walking stereotype, luckily no one in the outside world ever sees it so I guess I'm doing the community a service by staying inside.
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Shinu at 06/15/2008 14:12
i dont get alone easily outside. i dont play either that much time on my games... well maybe.

anyway, i never did fit in. im like mental.
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Tekoa at 06/15/2008 14:12
@Blue Ryd3r: you pretty much described me right there also.
but i usually do ok talking with someone 1 on 1. but i dread ever going to the store or talking on the phone. i hate paying for gas because it requires that i actually "say" something to the clerk.

thank god for online shopping! am i right? lawl.
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CypherVR at 06/15/2008 14:20
NNNEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDSSSSSSSSSSSS!
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Rifter01 at 06/15/2008 14:28
LOL Reaprar! I want to comment more, but I'm feeling a little shy today.. hehe
Mxyzptlk's Avatar
Mxyzptlk at 06/15/2008 14:51


Nerds get all the hot chicks, especially if they're David Carradine's half-brother.
Cheeburga's Avatar
Cheeburga at 06/15/2008 15:09
I DONT LIEK BEING SOCIAL
vonrichter's Avatar
vonrichter at 06/15/2008 15:12
What do you have against shy people?

Also, "shy" and "lonely" are two very different things.
nintendoll's Avatar
nintendoll at 06/15/2008 15:17
Self Esteem: I haz it.
van's Avatar
van at 06/15/2008 15:19
All jocks think about are sports; all nerds think about is sex.
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F Whipple at 06/15/2008 18:04
I'm actually pretty shy. But I love sports (although being a runner doesn't really detract from the skinny, reclusive stereotype) and I was a member of a fraternity (so sue me).
SWE3tMadness's Avatar
SWE3tMadness at 06/15/2008 19:06
Peronthious, my younger brother did a research project for his English class this past year on violence and video games, so we bought that book for it.

It's actually written very well, makes lots of good points about studies like these in general, and provides more practical advice than what you normally hear from mass media outlets. I'd highly recommend it to any worried parents of gamers. :3
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Inuboy1000 at 10/23/2009 15:02
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Inuboy1000 at 10/23/2009 15:03
I am shy but I have always been like that. I am not shy to talk to fellow guys, but I act like an idiot when I talk to girls, I am extremely shy towards girls.
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