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In the latest edition of Adam Sessler's soapbox, the X-Play host laments the lack of parents who actually take the time to play (and understand) videogames with their children. He references the recent study that indicated that 43% of parents think that the entertainment form is a waste of time, which didn't surprise us one bit

Sessler wants parents to play games with their kids, and he thinks that it would give them a better understanding and a better appreciation for the rich, but young, medium. Fair enough. But have you seen some of the crap "kids" are playing these days? Having a son, I've been subjected to more television/film-licensed drivel than SeanBaby, and it's enough to make me not want to play videogames ever again. Period.

Maybe a better idea would be for non-gaming parents to do some research first, before making that tough decision between Super Mario Galaxy and High School Musical for the PlayStation 2. Around our house, the foot is down now -- we're not playing the digital disaster known as Sonic the Hedgehog on the Xbox 360, because we have a copy of Ratchet and Clank Future: Tools of Destruction for the PS3. Requests for Dance Dance Mario Mix are shut down (and cause for a grounding) because "The Mighty Chesters" are on our way to Rock Band world tour domination, so why bother?

Parents, before you even consider sitting down and playing a game with your child, make sure it's a rich, quality gaming experience. Nothing could be more damaging to the credibility of the industry than an inexperienced gamer having Teen Titans as their only frame of reference.








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Dale North's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:06
Dale North
I'll never have kids, but I'm glad there's some gamer parents like Nick out there. My parents didn't game, but were very supportive of the hobby and its culture. I'm still glad for that.
ShadowXOR's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:10
ShadowXOR
You have a kid? Crazy. How old are you? You look young in your tiny avatar.
ShadowXOR's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:11
ShadowXOR
I'm with Dale, I'll never have kids.
Oni's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:13
Oni
My parent's didn't game. My mother played puzzle games like Yoshi's Cookie and Tetris, and my dad played baseball with me once or twice and kinda liked Super Mario World, but in the end I think that they were both just relatively uninterested in the medium, and probably thought that I would eventually grow out of it.

Well, I didn't.

My dad and his girlfriend will play Wii Sports with me. My dad thinks Excite Truck might be a little too fast-paced for him, and he's probably right. His girlfriend played Double Dash with me a few times. Perhaps my dad is coming around to the medium as he gets older (he's really just in the last 10 years or so started to embrace the computer).

I'm going to take my Wii with me up to his new digs in Bum Fuck Nowhere, Ontario this holiday, so perhaps I can coerce them into playing a bit.
KBeat's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:14
KBeat
Nick I feel you. I had to drop the hammer on game selection with my seven year old son. He can no longer pick his own games after he secured a copy of "Transformers the Game" for the 360 with a birthday Best Buy card. Kids gravitate to movie licensed titles and anything with a superhero. Spiderman 3 and Superman were two other debacles, and he never ends up playing them for long because they absolutely suck. His only successful selection to date was the Star Wars lego trilogy. Otherwise, all his favorite games are the ones I've picked for him. Jack Thompson had it right in that kids should not be allowed to pick their own games. But he was right for the wrong reason!!
king3vbo's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:18
king3vbo
Sessler is right, hands down. Especially about the hate that gaming gets from "old folks" the same way that Rap, Rock, Movies, and other new entertainment did
Nick Chester's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:23
Nick Chester
I'm 29, but I play videogames so it keeps my skin looking fresh.
akathatoneguy's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:27
akathatoneguy
I'm sure Sessler makes good points, but uh...isn't he preaching to the choir, here? How many non-gaming parents are likely to see such a message?
JDevL's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:41
JDevL
@aka - That's exactly what I was thinking while watching it. Adam puts out a good message but what non-gaming parent is checking out G4. I'm a gamer and I don't even check out G4.

But oh well, I'll whore out the video anyway and maybe some parent I know will actually get some info.
Holyetheline's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:46
Holyetheline
My dad and I used to play Turok: Dinosaur Hunter together on N64. Those were fun times.
SlavedHeart's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:47
SlavedHeart
I've played video games since I was 10, and played things like Diablo and FF with my kids (one 22, the other 20 now) as well as a lot of other games through the years (the youngest and I now play rockband together, and I wonder why he won't move out...), but I don't need to be told this... so why am I commenting...

Who's shoes are these? Martha? Did you leave these shoes here? I think I'll get some juice? Where was I? oh yes....

This message is in the wrong venue Sessler... tell someone on Good Morning America... the Today Show... anywhere that people need to be told this, not on a show that caters to gamers, that's like telling me to take viagra on the 'ahem' adult chanel, totally the wrong place and time.
galagabug 's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 12:48
galagabug
good message, poor medium. i don't think any of the non-gaming ignorant parents are watching G4.

i can picture you ruling the gaming purchases of the household with an iron fist, and it cracks me up.
rubadub's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 13:06
rubadub
I had a 2600 when I was a kid but it was my dad who really pushed me into the gaming world by buying me an Atari XL 600. About that same time he would take me to arcades and hand me a roll of quarters to run wild with. Unfortunately all of that considered, he was still a shitty father who I havent talked to in over 10 years.
Rainbowblack's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 13:18
Rainbowblack
I like the message and luckily once "WE" grow up "WERE" going to play games with our kids because unlike our parents WERE going to know better

We won't fail our children the way ours did us. not that our parents are paranoid tin-foil hat wearing bible thumpers or anything.

so until that days comes, games are going to continue to be misunderstood. The future of gaming is in our hands not theirs.
Fading Star's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 13:32
Fading Star
Think of the children!
Chad Concelmo's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 13:52
Chad Concelmo
The fact that your family Rock Band name is "The Mighty Chesters" makes me love you even more. Amazing.
Daniel Husky Lingen's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 14:14
Daniel Husky Lingen
What the hell

RockToidBandToid all the way!
Cheeburga's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 14:16
Cheeburga
I would never let Sess play with my kids.
Sharpless's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 14:27
Sharpless
My dad and I used to play Goldeneye, Mario Kart 64, and various Tetrisian games together. They're fond memories. I'll definitely do it with my hypothetical kids, but probably not until they're a little older.
hexfix93's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 14:35
hexfix93
Sessler and Web need to disappear like i do. Long over due, they are idiots. they gave ass creed a 5 out of 5..
bleep's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 15:04
bleep
My dad once bought me a Chess game where I could play against the computer...I never played it much and it was sold at a garage sale.
oc1's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 15:38
oc1
The only problem that I have with these soap box posts is that the Sess is preaching to the choir. We, that are in the so-called minority, already know or feel the way that he does. Something like this needs to indeed be said, just on a different and more mainstream forum to reach the masses.
JayVander's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 16:07
JayVander
I love how he bought the Darth Vader piece from the Crazy 4 Cult art show. Same place where the I AM 8-BIT show was held. One of only two available I believe. Each selling for about 450 dollahz.


The man has cash to spend on stuff for his desk.
Andrew5329's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 16:08
Andrew5329
Does the same 43% of parents that think the entertainment is a waste of time also think that their watching General Hospital in the middle of the day in their PJs while eating icecream straight from the gallon is a good use of time then? Because i know a lot of people who do just that...
itemforty's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 16:23
itemforty
Sessler <3
Samit Sarkar's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 17:32
Samit Sarkar
My favorite part of the video was when it zoomed onto Colette’s story about the study, “O RLY” image and all.

Otherwise, I agree with many of the commenters on here...my parents have no idea what G4 is, and if they did, they wouldn’t watch it. I’m sure that the same can be said for any parents who don’t play games. Go on the 10 o’clock news, maybe that’ll do something.
Bob Muir's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 17:35
Bob Muir
If I ever have kids, you can be sure I'm not going to stand for buying them complete crap. In the end, they'll only be disappointed. I'm going to rule their initial purchases with an iron-fist.
PrinceofCannedPeaches's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 18:20
PrinceofCannedPeaches
Yeah, I introduced my father to Call of Duty once. That was probably the wrong section of the pool to drop him off in. Like, the one with fucking sea serpents.

Still, I do wish I could have gotten him more immersed - played a few LAN games in Deathmatch. Console games are much more casual and would have given him the opportunity to be much more exposed to the medium, seeing as it would have been hooked to the TV.

And it's true that most kids would be willing to at least explain the premise of an addicting game to a parent, and let them play, if it would offer them a little perspective. In my opinion, it would actually be kind of fun.
Sharpless's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 18:40
Sharpless
I love Sessler, by the way.

I'm raising my kids on WarioWare, until they're 18.
Z3R0Sleep's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/29/2007 23:29
Z3R0Sleep
i'm 25, and i bought my dad the Wii because he absolutely loves the Legend of Zelda...and The Adventures of Lolo 1, 2 and of course 3. He banged out 120 hours on Twilight Princess, and hasn't picked it up since. Gave him a copy of Half-Life 2 and he loved it, but he beat it in 3 days. This guy used to fall asleep while playing Super Mario Bros. on my NES. He grounded me for throwing a controller while playing Little Nemo the Dream Master....He's been a gaming parent for life, and he's the greatest man i know. I'll be gaming with my kids, no doubt, but how many of us really have this point-of-view?
dark_inchworm's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/30/2007 15:07
dark_inchworm
I'm afraid to watch this. I loathe Sessler.
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