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Man falls in love with ten-year-old videogame girl photo

A 37-year-old man is currently enjoying what he believes to be a loving relationship with a 10-year-old videogame character. By that, I mean the character herself is supposed to be a ten-year-old girl. Carrying around a stuffed pillowcase depicting his fictional girlfriend, the man known only as Nisan once had a real girlfriend ... she left him, unsurprisingly.

Nisan's new "girlfriend" goes by the name of Nemutan, and she stars in the 2D PC game Da Capo. They first "met" at a comic book convention in Tokyo, where it was love at first sight. Nisan named himself after the nickname that Nemu gives her brother in the game (it literally means "big brother"), and now won't accept any statement that argues the reality of his relationship. 

"Of course she’s my girlfriend," he says, when questioned. "I have real feelings for her."

Nisan (who refuses to be called by whatever his real name is) knows that Nemu is not real, but he treats her like a proper lady all the same. He takes her out at weekends, sings karaoke with her, and takes photo booth pictures. He doesn't take her to work, but has a spare pillow case with her likeness at the office, just in case he needs to work late. Apparently, "She’s great for falling asleep with on an office chair."

This is a growing culture (read: concern) in Japan, where people indulge in fantasy relationships with fictional characters. Of course, just because more than one person that's doing it, that doesn't make it any less peculiar or frightening. 

As for Nisan, he's happy, and that's the main thing: "When I die, I want to be buried with her in my arms," he explains. That's romantic.


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DaedHead8's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:23
DaedHead8
This article just briefly stopped my brain from functioning. That was a trip.
Xhumation's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:24
Xhumation
As a psychologist something tells me that I should go to Japan.

There's a lot of work there
Topher Cantler's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:25
Topher Cantler
I don't see what's so weird about it. I've shared a similar relationship with Hatsune Miku for going on two years now. I plan to propose soon.
Electro Lemon's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:25
Electro Lemon
I feel like everyone's just skipping over the whole "10 year old" thing, so I'll just go ahead and run it through the old Dead Joke Machine™.

MJ's back, and yellower than ever!

Okay, I'm done.
Havoc Fang's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:26
Havoc Fang
In other news, Japan.
Grimspoon's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:29
Grimspoon
I'm just glad he isn't engaging in a psychotic fantasy relationship with a real life 10 year old.
Topher Cantler's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:30
Topher Cantler
Also, with the way most women act nowadays, you kinda can't blame the guy.
liam12360's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:31
liam12360
ditto, Grimspoon
Magnalon's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:33
Magnalon
@Xhumation
Agreed.

This guy is just channeling his inner pedophile, if I had to guess. He'll get over it in a matter of months.
JiR INC's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:34
JiR INC
if he's happy and aint hurting anyone leave him be ^^
eternalplayer2345's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:35
eternalplayer2345
I agree that you can't blame the guy but can't he just be like the rest of us and only imagine his girlfriend into every situation? No one ever knows and you still get the benefit of a pretend relationship! I recommend it!
JamRok's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:35
JamRok
God alone knows what he did to that pillow.

Poor pillow...
Black Nexus's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:36
Black Nexus
does not compute.
CBunn's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:37
CBunn
Well that's healthy, carry on

*slowly backs away, looking for an exit*
phantomile's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:39
phantomile
Hey, back off Topher. She's mine!
Dexter345's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:42
Dexter345
Eh, he's not hurting anybody. Let him do what he wants.
Corak's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:43
Corak
Weird indeed. I saw this on Gizmodo earlier and sometimes I think its bad I've been single for a while now, but then I see this and think it could be worse. I thought I read in that article that there are a quite a number of older virgins in Japan and I guess stuff like this isn't that unheard of.
manasteel88's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:43
manasteel88
good luck on your proposal Topher. Hope she says yes!

at least its a character from a good game that he is in love with. it could have been from a lame game and that would have been embarrassing.
Diverse's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:46
Diverse
Nothing wrong with having a waifu.
CrocBox's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:48
CrocBox
Amazing and Horrifying at the same time! :D
Sharpless's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:52
Sharpless
I don't think Japanese culture is fit for human consumption anymore. My 14-year relationship with my hand is healthier than this.
wanderingpixel's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:52
wanderingpixel
Wow, this reminds me of a movie I saw called Lars, and the Real Girl. You guys should check it out, great film.
Wan Sum Dung's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 19:58
Wan Sum Dung
Why the hell is 10 year old girl dressed up like that, anyway?
mrsatan's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:03
mrsatan
Poor bastard, probably had his heart ripped out by some crazy woman and now the only thing that comforts him is a dirty pillow with a child on it. Better then him running around kidnapping real ones though, so let him have his pillow.
Sentry's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:04
Sentry
Huh.
Grimspoon's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:07
Grimspoon
@Wan Sum Dung

Nothing wrong with a 10 year old girl wearing a bra and panties. That isn't really creepy. It's just underwear.

Put an image of a 10 year old (in her underwear) on a pillow, sell it to middle aged Japanese men and suddenly things are well past being creepy.
EternalDeathSlayer's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:08
EternalDeathSlayer
He's not hurting anybody, yes, but this doesn't change the fact that this is pathetic and really strange.
Caffeine Knight's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:10
Caffeine Knight
@Wan Sum Dung - In Japan, that's how they dress all of their ten year old girls, real or fake.

....the more you know.
mrsatan's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:13
mrsatan
You wonder about the falling birthrate there....................until you see this picture.
the GAMEGOBLIN's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:13
the GAMEGOBLIN
As long as he's happy right? It isn't hurting anyone so why should I care, even though it IS weird

And in a way I envy him; he actually believes in her so he's got his perfect dream girl in his life (and I mean girl in every sense of the word, she IS 10 and all) and he's happy

If only I could imagine my perfect girlfriend like him, lucky fucker :(
Topher Cantler's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:13
Topher Cantler
@Phantomile: You're too late, she already said Yes.
Frohike's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:20
Frohike
It's been done before:

http://www.alma-mahler.com/engl/almas_life/puppet.html
393924's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:22
393924
First of all it is Niisan, he isn't a car company. Second of all, Nemu isn't 10 years old in Da Capo. I don't remember how old she was, but the series takes place in high school so she is a minimum of 16.

I don't want to look like I'm defending the guy, because it is still creepy as hell. But making up facts to make the story more outrageous makes you no better than Fox News.
HammerShark's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:31
HammerShark
@JiR INC & Dexter345
- agreed.

I'm laughing at the chick who left him. Replaced by a piece of cloth (probably stained by now..) and foam/feathers. Some ppl seem upset when the last person they dated turns out to be some other sexual orientation. And this guy rebounds w/ an inanimate object... LOL.

*thank goodness I don't get out much, things like this scare me... and I LIKE horror movies*
bleep's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:45
bleep
THIS JUST IN
There are a LOT of idiots out there...
phantomile's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:45
phantomile
@Topher: I'll be at your wedding, ready to yell "Objection!"
Kraid's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 20:49
Kraid
Mister Barclay please step away from the Holodeck!
HammerShark's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 21:03
HammerShark
@Kraid

We'd be a doomed species if we had holodecks (removes safety protocols: for NSFW)... Just imagine: Lucy Lawless, Jeri Ryan etc. hotties all in one room...

- Thanks goodness we've invented artificial insemination first.
Biff to the Future's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 21:12
Biff to the Future
Dude's a non-practicing pedo, how can you guys be on-board. So is 90% of all that weeabo anime shit
MellowBunny's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 21:36
MellowBunny
To me this is not shocking at all. Because in America we have something called "Real Dolls" and some guys pretend that sex doll is their girlfriend.

So this is nothing new.
F Whipple's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 21:39
F Whipple
*head asplode*

I can't even comprehend this
HiddenAHB's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 21:45
HiddenAHB
@Topher

How do you fuck her?
Harris Hatsworth's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 21:45
Harris Hatsworth
I think he'd probably just kill himself if you took away his pillow rather than go after real kids.
TheRedScorpion's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 22:02
TheRedScorpion
Goddamn it, Japan! Where's your psychologists to fix this?!
Johnny Justice's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 22:19
Johnny Justice
"Nisan (who refuses to be called by whatever his real name is) knows that Nemu is not real, but he treats her like a proper lady all the same."

At least it's better than a real girl being treated like shit. Bless his sweet little weirdo heart.
ShadowKirby's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 22:27
ShadowKirby
The NY Time article is great "As Nisan and I talked, Nemutan stared demurely at her pumpkin soup. It was a national holiday, and the restaurant was packed with young families. Several mothers gave Nemutan inquisitive looks, but the majority seemed not to notice her."
I lol'd hard.
Zodiac Eclipse's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 22:44
Zodiac Eclipse
Soooo he's dating a pillow? I mean that's what this amounts to right? Occasionally he throws the pillow case in the wash and for all intensive purposes he might as well have spongebob on there to keep him company.
Shadowiii's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 23:14
Shadowiii
I can't believe people defend this. The only defense I've seen is "well, at least he isn't molesting REAL girls."
That doesn't make this any less messed up and downright insane. The guy should be treated. They talk about children who play video games not being able to discern the real world from the fantasy world...look at this. A full grown adult unable to tell the difference between the anime world and our own.
Seriously, he needs to see a doctor.
Trowble's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/23/2009 23:50
Trowble
I wonder what the kids will look like...
Jack Maverick's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2009 00:00
Jack Maverick
"She’s great for falling asleep with on an office chair."

I actually have a feeling that the guy actually tried doing this with his old girlfriend, she thought the guy was weird, and it eventually led to where he is now.
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