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[Editor's note: Community member Coonskin05 contributed a piece to our Weekly Musing subject on how to make gaming communities suck less. Please post your own over on the Community blogs. It may get read during our panel at PAX this Friday! -- CTZ

The term "gaming community" is a very loose term. In the most basic sense, it means the members of a videogame Web site.

To me, this is a very cheap use of the word. By this standard, every gaming Web site has a community. But how those "communities" interact is often not very community-like. At other Web site, these communities comment on their Web site's articles, and it pretty much ends there. The members are only known by their handles, and usually don't know each other unless a certain member comments on everything and is constantly involved in discussion.

Destructoid took it a step farther in 2007 by introducing the Community Blogs, where members could post their own articles and comment on each other's blogs, further advancing how we interacted with each other. But to stop here would still restrict what community means. That version of a community would still just be avatars and online handles talking to each other over the internet, which for many people would be enough, but not good enough for Destructoid.

I'm unsure when the first actual NARP was, but the first two notable ones were in 2007, starting with PAX 2007 and the Cincinnati NARP. Here, a bunch of Destructoid members got together, face-to-face, and drank, gamed, and enjoyed each other's real life company. In October of 2007, I was lucky enough to organize the first Texas NARP. There were only six of us, but we entered Austin, Texas as friends and left as damn near brothers. Shortly after, the Destructoid city groups were formed, and regional NARPs were a way of life for the Destructoid community.



Face-to-face interaction, to me, is what defines the Destructoid community, and boosts it above all other videogame  communities. Emotions and fellowship can only be expressed to a certain extent via online text. Hugging my fellow Dtoiders is something that one can't experience through years of commenting and blogging. Since the city groups were created, people have done things that no other site would dream of doing.

A community member was flown out to Cancun for the second anniversary of Destructoid. Macca took out a personal bank loan to get money to come to PAX 2008. Jim Sterling ditched his job covering the ScrewAttack Gaming Convention so he could drink beers with us. Dtoiders from the UK, Netherlands, Australia, and New Zealand have flown across the world to come to PAX for a weekend of bliss spent around their Dtoid brothers and sisters. Somehow I doubt many members of other sites have that level of dedication and love.

A site is enough for a person to register and interact with others. A close knit videogame community is enough for someone to log on everyday and talk to their peers. But it's not until people join together and physically spend time with each other that it's enough to devote yourself to a community, which is what Destructoid has accomplished.








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nukka jdav's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/28/2009 22:06
nukka jdav
I've met people through Destructoid that I consider legitimate friends. AWESOME.
Nic128's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/28/2009 22:53
Nic128
I'd love to go meet Dtoiders. But how can I know who lives near my city?
Coonskin05's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/28/2009 22:56
Coonskin05
@NIC28:

Magic.
Knivy's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/28/2009 23:05
Knivy
Three of us went to cancun :), tazar, bahamut zero and me. It was awesome getting to most of the editors, one of the best weekends ever.
Nic128's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/28/2009 23:08
Nic128
Thanks. I found Dtoid Toronto. It's a bit far, but who knows, I might make the trip someday.
blehman's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 01:04
blehman
<3 coon
WarZombie's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 01:39
WarZombie
I'll finally get to meet some of my fellow Dtoiders when I go to Infinite Bits. Anyone from out of Florida coming?
Usedtabe's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 02:27
Usedtabe
The Captain has spoken.
PanOpticon's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 02:30
PanOpticon
I always felt that what made a strong global community is intelligent and thoughtful discussion. The science community isn't a strong community just because of the various gatherings they do every year. They're a strong community because of publications and open debate over their community's issues. In fact most scientists have little dealings with the science community outside of publications, and yet few would accuse their community of not being "community-like".

I suppose it all depends on what you expect to get out of a given community.
Hollie Bennett's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 02:34
Hollie Bennett
I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUU!
Krow's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 03:05
Krow
I want to. I want to hard.
Technophile's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:25
Technophile
Coon is right. This is what makes Dtoid stand above and beyond most others. Sure, some communities can be pretty tight but that's all it is. Just a collection of usernames. Getting to meet the person behind the name is a big deal.

Hell, I got to meet some new people, ScottyG and FooLiz tonight and it was fucking awesome. I'm going to meet many many many more of you at PAX and I'm looking forward to it.

As a community person, this kind of stuff is my mecca.
Aaron Mxy Yost's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 05:15
Aaron Mxy Yost
I still haven't met anyone from Destructoid in real life. I'm not completely sure you people actually exist.
Steel Squirrel's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 11:27
Steel Squirrel
I just met Tactix and Ben last night. It was really, really rad. :)
Gave me some beer, showed me the rape closet, played some fighting games with me, and offered me a place to stay if need be.

That was my first time meeting Dtoiders in real life. I don't know why I waited so long to try it. That was the cool thing, I knew them somewhat, talked with them before online and when I got there they made me feel at home just like I do here.

If you haven't tried it yet, I recommend it!
Wexx's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/30/2009 14:13
Wexx
I can dig it.
Darren Nakamura's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/30/2009 22:03
Darren Nakamura
Totally.
Los255's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:23
Los255
This is probably my favorite way of actually building familiarity in the Community and having it more than a website.

Awesome post.
krysys's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:24
krysys
Is there a dtoid Ireland, or indeed northern ireland? That would be awesome!
Justice's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:26
Justice
Meet-ups definitely extend the reach of Destructoid beyond virtual means, which brings us even closer I think.
Takeshi's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:28
Takeshi
So true. I'm planning a trip to the US to meet up. Probably next year.
Bob Muir's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:37
Bob Muir
How many times in the span of one week can a picture with me in it appear on the front page?
H4RDC0RP5's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:37
H4RDC0RP5
Who are the people in the picture? Staff or community members?
Justice's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:39
Justice
@H4RDC0RP5
Both.
Detry's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:42
Detry
3=====D~~~

PEW PEW PEW
CrocBox's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:46
CrocBox
Wow Coon, I am touched. I didn't think you could write like this, awesome job! <3
Evil Cheese's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:52
Evil Cheese
@Nic128

It's worth it.
Evil Cheese's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:53
Evil Cheese
@Nic128

It's worth it.
Tubatic's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:55
Tubatic
Yes.

NARPS really make this community stand out. I've seen other sites do similar, but nothing on such a regional/global scale.

Its great, and I can't wait to hit up another one here in the B-More/DC area.
JReaper617's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 18:57
JReaper617
Good write up and it is indeed the closet game community i've ever seen good stuff
shogunu's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 19:18
shogunu
Ok, i got the perfect solution to improve gaming communities:
MORE CUTE READHEADS (girls, of course :D)
Artemus's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 19:23
Artemus
Damn, I've never been to a DTOID NARP...
At least I was lucky enough to attend the E3 Brass Monkey bar bash, that was awesome fun!
BluDesign's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 20:00
BluDesign
How the hell did I end up in a story on the front page?

/pro-BluDesign bias!!!

Yeah, NARP's are awesome and memorable, even if Coon can't the next day.
And guaranteed at every TX NARP? Coon getting hammered as fuck.

I wish I could hang out with you guys at PAX again this year.
Patters's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 20:39
Patters
there are people on this website???
pbrand's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 20:40
pbrand
Chicago apparently doesn't exist...
vonneuton's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 20:42
vonneuton
While late, I have to agree... It was pretty damn awesome to be able to meet everyone at the anniversary party. Not only were the people I met there awesome (Much love to GuitarAtomik!), the staff of Dtoid are just great to hang out with.
Bango Skank's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 20:53
Bango Skank
I didn't get any hugs at SGC, Coon. I am disappoint. :(
SuitcoatAvenger's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 22:27
SuitcoatAvenger
Does anybody even come close to living in Cincinnati? Because, seriously, there's nothing to do here. Maybe we could get together and chestbump.
ran24's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 23:01
ran24
Where the heck are the Boston people?
Matthew Blake's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 23:02
Matthew Blake
I wanna attend a NARP someday. Someday....
portastad's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/02/2009 23:27
portastad
I <3 you coon and all the other Texas dtoiders! Also, many of you I've never met. Man, I wish I could go to Pax. Maybe the rest of this year will finally equal landing a good job for me so I can save for the next one.
akathatoneguy's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 00:20
akathatoneguy
There has to be enough Dtoiders in the midwest to make a Chicago NARP a worthwhile endeavor. I'm sad that no gaming conventions ever come out here, either.
Cypher5235's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 01:53
Cypher5235
Not to be nosy, but who is that guy in the middle, right above the destructoid mask? I think I knew him in high school. Which is weird.
Danzflor's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 02:09
Danzflor
Where I live it's really complicated to do stuff like that. I ean, yeah, a have a small group of gamers and friends and sometimes we play, drank and do weird stuff, but the feeling isn't the same... I mean, it's sad when videogames are the excuse to have a drink and that's it. But Destructoid has proven wrong that, at least where you are. im gonna blog about this by the weekend.
inque's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 02:48
inque
Somone start a Destructoid Asia faction 8(

I feel so left out that you guys are enjoying community stuff online (FNF, contests and etc)

and offline (NARP, PAX Meetups) events as well

;___;
ceark's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 04:37
ceark
still somewhat bummed I can't see all of ya non dtoid LAers at pax this year. maybe next year people will stop getting married and I can have some vacation days.
whormongr's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 09:47
whormongr
I still haven't met anyone on Dtoid- though I am sure that there are a buch of you here in san francisco
Detry's Avatar - Comment posted on 09/03/2009 14:41
Detry
penus
fastfeherrupt28's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/14/2011 17:34
fastfeherrupt28
worth seeing, of every museum, of every hall, sacred to art or caverta online
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