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[Editor's note: Sadie G is one tough girl. But there's a softer side to her and she reveals that side to us as part of April's Monthly Musings. -- CTZ

We could sit here and debate the girl gaming phenomenon for a few days or you could just bypass everything you think and know of the subject and just focus on the fact that as "tough" as I might be, I enjoy a lot of games that are typically marketed towards girls. Must be because of the whole having a vagina thing, I don't know.

But it's a flaw that I don't proudly advertise all of the time. But what the hell, guilty pleasures are all about revealing a side of yourself you would consider a little embarrassing. Mine happens to be that I love games that include words like cooking and fashion. Everyone knows this side of me that loves shooting people in the face, but you might not know that behind the gun, there's a girly girl.

Let me let you in on the softer side of Sadie after the jump.



Let's take it back to what started it all for me. The first game I can clearly remember playing is this Barbie game for the Commodore 64. I had to be about three or four and all I would do was play this game. I'm pretty sure the object of this game was to dress Barbie up according to whatever the date was that she was going out on. I think there was a small portion where you drove the car to the store avoiding some potholes or something along the way. Whatever the case, this game had me hooked onto fashion and creating the perfect outfit for Barbie so she could impress Ken. I don't know why she had to impress Ken but dammit she was going to! Instead of my dad showing me the proper ways of gaming with Operation Wolf, he gave me Barbie and thus my life of girly games began.



I'm a bit of a Fashionista. I love everything about Fashion and had aspirations of being a designer one day until I realized that I sucked at sewing and measuring. So I live out those dreams in videogames. There seems to be an good foundation of fashion flash games that I've found around the net to satisfy my thirst for making the perfect outfit. One such game that I really hate admitting that I love is Jojo's Fashion Show.

This game has me addicted to the point where I've played through it in its entirety about 20 times. Every time I play it, it's practically the same game but I keep challenging myself to make different combinations or to not start a new level until I've uncovered all the unlocked items. Every single outfit I make has to reach a certain point level.



I think the reason why I love cooking games so much is that it allows me to enjoy cooking without cleaning up afterwards. I think that's the worst part of cooking: dishes and cleaning up.

Cooking Mama seems like a stupid game at first but it's actually really enjoyable. I own every iteration of the game for the DS and Wii. When Mama tells me I did better than her, it makes me giggly and happy. There’s nothing more satisfying than cooking a great meal and scoring a perfect 100. Cooking Mama 2 was even better because when I finished making something yummy it rewarded me with new wallpaper and new outfits. It was like they combined all of my favorite elements into one game!



The reasons why these are guilty pleasures for me is because I’ve been perceived by a lot of you as this girl who just shoots people’s faces off. Granted I am that girl but there's also a large part of me that enjoys simple games with no real meaning or objective. I'm not always trying to shoot and stab people. Sometimes it's just nice to relax with a game that doesn't have any blood or bombs in it.

So when I’m not shooting people’s faces off, you can find me mixing and matching fabric or combining quiche and custards. But don’t let this new image of me fool you … I’ll still shoot your face off and laugh while doing it.

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Conrad Zimmerman's Avatar
Conrad Zimmerman at 04/22/2008 15:57
Barbie looks like she's going to work at the Playboy Club in that screencap. Great piece, Sadie.
balth's Avatar
balth at 04/22/2008 16:04
What a pleasant and well-written read. Kudos to you, Bill and Ted.
I think everyone has several games like these that are guilty pleasures.

Also, after reading your profile blurb, I tend to think you are of the Hume family of philosophy, and I pose a simple question.

Are you the idea of Sadie, or merely an instance of the idea?

Also, I laugh when you mistakenly put custard on Barbie and throw a dress in the blender. Those moments are priceless.

That is all.
Wexx's Avatar
Wexx at 04/22/2008 16:05
Huh. Killing machines have a soft side. Good read, ya girly girl :P.
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JoshDunford at 04/22/2008 16:08
Girls have cooties and shouldnt be playing games.

GROSS

-JD
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shipero at 04/22/2008 16:13
My biggest disappointment in gaming came in Cooking Mama 2 when I found out that there was a "Cooking Papa". At least there was before I slipped some cyanide into his Oden. Mwahahahahaha!
Y0j1mb0's Avatar
Y0j1mb0 at 04/22/2008 16:15
Don't believe her....IT'S A TRAP!!!
McSnow's Avatar
McSnow at 04/22/2008 16:28
Good read, I think there are too many gamer girls who, in order to try and gain respect from male gamers (Jebus knows why), act like they enjoy only action games.
Theres nothing wrong with a bit of fashion and cooking after a good frag-fest.
Hell even I have Cooking Mama on my not-R4.
I Love Viva Pinata too.
And I kiss men.

@Y0j1mb0:
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Y0j1mb0 at 04/22/2008 16:30
Don't Believe her..It's a TRAP I tell you!!


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pheonix-blood at 04/22/2008 16:32
saide i love you even if you do play Barbie games. i love you more when your machine gunning my face though.
Danmartigan's Avatar
Danmartigan at 04/22/2008 16:33
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pheonix-blood at 04/22/2008 16:39
@ Mcsnow. so it wasn't just me who seeing a trend of hardcore girl gamers = shoot em ups.
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Rockvillian at 04/22/2008 16:41
I played that American Girls game where you set up plays and do text-to-speech for each character...

Granted everyone died at the end of every play, I was STILL playing an American Girls game.

WHAT?

Nice write up.
Scary Womanizing Pig Mask's Avatar
Scary Womanizing Pig Mask at 04/22/2008 16:46
@Rockvillian
I remember that! It would always crash on me though :(
Gameboi's Avatar
Gameboi at 04/22/2008 16:48
I'm no chick, but I do dig me some Viva Pinata every so often.
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Danmartigan at 04/22/2008 16:48
What about the Sims? That was a good girl game. Once upon a time I created a love nest with two women, made them fall in love and if I remember correctly, trapped them inside and removed their bathroom until they slowly went insane. Ah the good ol' days.
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MATTFOO at 04/22/2008 16:51
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Cowzilla3 at 04/22/2008 16:58
Reaprar without an image....world..ending..everything is going black.
MATTFOO's Avatar
MATTFOO at 04/22/2008 17:05
Mattfoo to the rescue


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Ashley Davis at 04/22/2008 17:06
@MATTFOO: Oh, I love that game!

As a card-carrying owner of a vagina, I can sympathize with the guilty pleasure of "girly" and "cute" games. I never got into any fashion games, though. I had 'em, and played 'em a little, but they just bored me to tears.
MATTFOO's Avatar
MATTFOO at 04/22/2008 17:13
The vagina card is expired, and smells like old milk.
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-PL- at 04/22/2008 17:15
I prefer real cooking because I get to eat afterwards. And eating = awesome.
Rockvillian's Avatar
Rockvillian at 04/22/2008 17:21
Now I'm hungry.
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ceark at 04/22/2008 17:29
Ha, good read Sadie. If it makes you feel better, I have the same guilty pleasure and I'm a guy, so that's just embarrassing apparently. But yeah, I turned in my man card a long time ago -_-.

True fact: I played through that fashion designer ds game and spent countless hours making custom clothing for sims 2 >.>.

@matfoo
I wish I had kitchen half that nice.
naib's Avatar
naib at 04/22/2008 17:37
I've been known to play Halo every now and then.

=D
brainderailment's Avatar
brainderailment at 04/22/2008 17:47
lol kitchens.
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king3vbo at 04/22/2008 17:47
Bah ha ha Yojimbo, thats awesome
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MaxVest at 04/22/2008 17:49
I like some girly, no-objective games, but usually the ones that appeal to my buried compulsive completist side and not my non-existent inner fashionista.

As for food, I've taken a lot of flak for saying that if I had no need to eat, I wouldn't miss food. But I stand by that remark. Is it tasty? Yes. But it's annoying to spend so much time and money, when all I have to show for it is poop.
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Sadie G at 04/22/2008 17:52
I definitely don't feel like I have to play action type games like some of the other girls. Yeah I play UT3 but the truth of the matter is I actually don't even really like FPS/Shooters. I'll play them because I'm a gamer and I'll play anything but I prefer other genres over them.

I think the sims is gender neutral. I've seen a TON of guys who play as well as girls. It's a game that has so much to it that any sex can enjoy.

My list was really more games that were specifically targeted towards girls.

Those kitchens aren't really my style either, I prefer more modern looking things and those are a bit old school.

Also, Hollie, I love you too!!
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DJDuffy at 04/22/2008 18:24
I say, anything goes...it doesn't matter what games you play, girl or boy. But hey, that's just me.
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kaciesaurus at 04/22/2008 18:37
I have enjoyed a makeover style game sometime during my life.
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vexed alex at 04/22/2008 18:52
I played a Barbie adventure game once on the Playstation. It was my sister's.



...Honest.
mistic's Avatar
mistic at 04/22/2008 19:08
my GF is crazy about Cooking Mama whereas I find the controls to be too unresponsive and such :p but its a fun game!

We also had a blast while playing Boogie :-)
Steel Squirrel's Avatar
Steel Squirrel at 04/22/2008 19:39
Hmm.....

Nice work Sadie. =)
liam2015's Avatar
liam2015 at 04/22/2008 20:29
Psh, girls don't play videogames, sadistic told me so.
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superflossy at 04/22/2008 20:55
Sadie, I have to confess something as well. One of the first games I played was the Barbie game for NES. My parents bought it for me and it was horrible. But it was the only game I had for a while after I beat Super Mario so I had to play it. One of the many reasons I don't get a long with my parents...

And I'm a total fashion whore too. Although I don't play fashion games, every game where there are multiple outfits for the characters, I'm always obsessed with unlocking all of them and wearing the outfit I like best... I'm such a fucking girl sometimes when it comes to stuff like that, but then again I've been told that it's an endearing quality.
Sadie G's Avatar
Sadie G at 04/22/2008 21:18
@Superflossy
You should totally play Jojo's Fashion Show, it's addicting and there are SO many outfits you can create.
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MrSadistic at 04/22/2008 21:36
I hate Cooking Mama. Stupid bitch can't even boil water without someone helping her.
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atheistium at 04/23/2008 01:37
I must say, sometimes I am put off of a game if you can't be female in it. I like the choice. Mass Effect was awesome because I could still be BAD ASS but be female and gentle looking or butch looking or whatever.

This is prolly why I like tomb raider games. I just relate to the character easier. Not to say that I don't like being a male character. I'm so used to it after all.
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Sadie G at 04/23/2008 06:44
Lauren I pretty much only pick female characters if I have a choice. I liked Tomb Raider for the same reasons. Even with adventure games, some of my favorites had female leads: Still LIfe, Dreamfall, Siberia...etc..
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Senisan82 at 04/23/2008 14:13
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Senisan82 at 04/23/2008 14:14
^ nice comment buddy ^....what i meant to say was beyond good and evil :)
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BlackSheep at 04/23/2008 14:17
i heard this actually was fun, but i don't have a vagina to enjoy it.

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loki d20 at 04/23/2008 14:18
I wish my wife played girlie games. Whenever my wife plays games all she likes to do is kill everyone else or she likes to play (or watch someone else play) scary games while telling them what to do the whole time. The 'girliest' game I've gotten her to play is the Star Wars Lego games, in which she spends more than half her time trying to kill me while making it look like she was aiming at a storm trooper.
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Cheeburga at 04/23/2008 14:23
@Matt

I lol'd, hard.
Haxan's Avatar
Haxan at 04/23/2008 14:37
KyleGamgee's Avatar
KyleGamgee at 04/23/2008 14:39
Gamer Girl games...
*points and laughs*
*gets face shot off*
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Diverse at 04/23/2008 14:40
"Everyone knows this side of me that loves shooting people in the face"

and this is why I hate gamer girls

they're all a bunch of attention whores
MrSadistic's Avatar
MrSadistic at 04/23/2008 14:41
I like shooting people's faces off too. Does that make me a whore? (please say yes)
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geekjutsu at 04/23/2008 14:41
I was at Target the other day and some little girl wanted Layton but here parents convinced her Hannah Montana was a better choice.
I always tell my girlfriend that if I have a daughter, then she will be introduced to good games and not "games for girls". Though I will admit that Cooking Mama is fun, and I play as a female Shepherd in Mass Effect.
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exodus1925 at 04/23/2008 14:51
When my sister brought home the Pop Idol game for ps2 I couldn't help but play it all the way through getting more and more infuriated and obsessed as I refused to get beaten by a 'girly' game. Oh dear.
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