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I said the word "gay". Please don't convict me of a hate crime.
savagesaladin | 7:14 PM on 07.24.2007 21 comments


I'm getting pretty sick of PC assholes. Remember back in the day when it was acceptable to say something is gay? Even if it wasn't literally gay, it was fine to say that it was. Oh yes, I remember those times. But now we have gaygamer.com to monitor what everybody says.

Now if I say something or somebody is gay, they say "could you please stop with the hate speech?" Wow, now THATS gay. I don't even have anything against gays. When I say something is gay, quit being such a nanny.

"You're such an asshole conservative!" No, actually, I'm not. But I'm not a pussy liberal either. I have no political affiliation so please get the fuck out of my face before I cut your lips off with a steak knife.

If you're gay, fine, I don't care. Do what you want. Just don't tell me what I can or can't say. Just accept the fact that I'm never going stop saying something because it offends you. "Mother fucker", does THAT offend you? I'm going to fart, is that OK with you? Is that offensive? What, you like that? Thats disgusting, never mind.

Lesbians? Now I can identify with them. Especially the big, manly ones.

I'm going to go play some video games while gay guy call me "fag" or something racist.

Its all fun and games till somebody gets called something racist.


Gay!!



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BlindsideDork's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 19:43
BlindsideDork
Fruit!
Aaron Linde's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 19:50
Aaron Linde
Please, kid, get with the times. Now when something sucks, we say "Man, that's black."

See what I did there? I used a term with which a group of people identify themselves and made it mean "sucks".

When you say something's gay, you don't necessarily sound hateful -- just stupid and of limited vocabulary.
comradetrotskii's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 19:51
comradetrotskii
The problem with using the word gay as an insult is that you are equating something negative (stupidity, annoyance and whatever else). Whether or not you are intending to you are putting a negative connotation not only on the word gay but also on everything it can stand for. Its easy to see why people can get upset.

Why don't you try using actual insults/swear words. Learn some new words/phrases.
comradetrotskii's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 19:53
comradetrotskii
Linde sort of said what I intended to in a much more articulate fashion.
Aaron Linde's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 19:53
Aaron Linde
I'm a big fan of "poppycock".
flameon4444's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 20:04
flameon4444
First let me start of thusly, I am gay. So I can tell you from experience, growing up hearing people use an element of your personality as a slur is a pretty big mindfuck. Aaron and comdradetrorskii hit the nail on the head. Put simply if you mean it to hurt or not, it does.

I do agree with your point that you have complete freedom to say whatever you want, but you might want to just put a little more thought behind what you say. You might have a gay friend that's who's not out yet and you're hurting the shit out of him. Sure you might not care if he's gay or not, but your word usage could be sending him another signal.

You have to remember very few of us are marked with pink stickers, glitter, or blinking neon signs that say "Fabulous!"
flameon4444's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 20:17
flameon4444
As a gay comic book geek, it was a joke that could not be avoided.
Mister Disco's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 20:44
Mister Disco
gomeja said what I was going to say.

Anyway, I don't think I could put it better than what Flameon said. You seem to remember the "good old days" when nobody cared when you used the word "gay" as a negative descriptor. Gee, then, don't you wish we could go back even further when your Dad might tell you to stop being such a n*gger? Them was the good days, right?

People move on. Hopefully, we get smarter when we move on, or at least more tactful. I'm very sorry for your loss, but it's not so much "PC" as it is just respecting other people.
Dufresne's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 21:06
Dufresne
That's a little different. People describe themselves as gay, but you never saw a black person tell someone, "I identify myself as a n*gger." The latter term has its source as hate speech. Blacks appropriating the term themselves is a response to that.

On the other hand, saying "gay" started out as a "nicer" way to say "homosexual," unless I'm mistaken. So when you use it as a derogative term, you're adding negativity to it that wasn't originally there.

It's still offensive of course. It's just in the first case you're using the negative connotations, and in the second case, you're creating them. Some would argue the second case is worse.
Mister Disco's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 21:13
Mister Disco
You have a point (deeply rooted in semanics :P) but my point is that it's hurtful to someone, and it was once accepted speech, not really talking about the severity of it or the meaning. Just it's appropriation as a word a group of people find offensive that was once "acceptable" to most people at one point in time.
Jim Sterling's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 21:17
Jim Sterling
Words are only offensive if you choose to be offended by them. End of story.
Mister Disco's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 21:21
Mister Disco
Well, not belonging to any minorities or being openly targetted by hate groups is a very comfy position, Jim. Try putting yourself in someone else's shoes. It's not so easy to say you have a choice, ya dig?
kawitchate's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 22:38
kawitchate
here here, sir sterling.

words don't kill people, video games kill people.
Arugala9's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 22:59
Arugala9
Flameon..Flameon, isn't that a pokemon. That's still pretty funny though.
christpunchermpls's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/24/2007 23:02
christpunchermpls
i had a gay ol time reading this
Copyright 2008 Agent Chieftain's Avatar - Comment posted on 07/25/2007 00:55
Copyright 2008 Agent Chieftain
I think one of the new editors are from Gay Gamer.

No, I'm not a regular there.
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