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i'm a 27 year old half breed asian american with a ps3, and too much time on my hands.

here's some stuff i like off the dome.

my favorite authors are Robert Anton Wilson, Hunter S. Thompson, Henry Miller, Tony Millionaire, and Chris Ware.

my favorite music to listen to comes from The Smiths, Mount Eerie/microphones, Boards of Canada, The Fucking Champs, The Fucking Beatles, and Ennio Morricone.

Games I still replay to this day are Ninja Gaiden (nes), devil may cry series, metal gear solid series, ZOE: the 2nd Runner, Dead Space, Demon's Souls, Most of the Silent Hills, Resident Evil 4, Killer 7, Katamari, and the God of War games.

I own a PS3, PS2, XBOX, NES, and PSP.
My roomies have a XBOX360, Super NES, and SEGA Genesis.
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This picture basically sums up what I expected meeting up with all the old high school faces would be like, or at least how I had hoped it would end up.

Here are a few key details to paint you a picture of the town I grew up in. There's a thirteen story abandoned hotel downtown that has been invaded by bored teens for decades, and now it's being turned into condos. Some of my best friends in high school were Brea and Zane Grant, and well we don't talk very much these days.(I'm sure that's more my fault than their's btw.) A lot of people who you could never imagine being fathers and mothers now have huge families to feed. There are still far more churches than our small city has ever needed. Finally, The kids that were wealthy in high school are still wealthy and still don't have anything to worry about, but now they have snot-nosed contented little clones of themselves running around to deal with.

I'm mentioning all these things really just to illustrate how things can, and in most cases will, change drastically as we get older and larger expanses of time pass.

These are the circumstances I was faced with as I walked into the OS lounge. The OS is one of two bars located in Marshall and the other being a bar called "Chances" located in a hotel called something like "Special Guest Inn" made the choice a lot easier for us. We did end up at "Chances" one night too and it was about as hilarious as we had expected, but this story is about the OS lounge.

I had expected to run into a couple of familiar faces, but what I was facing was a full on reunion. It went about how you would expect. I didn't recognize some people, some people didn't recognize me, some people recognized me and didn't talk to me, and likewise I didn't talk to them either. Most of all, there was this all encompassing feeling of dread and awkwardness as people were telling me about their jobs, introducing me to husbands and wives and telling me about their kids. One guy even asked me what I had been up to since I had dropped out of high school, at which point I had to remind him I graduated with honors. Eventually, I settled in with some of the more familiar faces and the questions were finally asked, " So what have you guys been playing? What systems have you got? What system do you think is better?" That's when I realized that all the kids that I knew that grew up gaming were still gamers, and although gaming itself had changed a lot in ten years that only gave us more to talk about. Our generation had grown up with the original nintendo entertainment system, and it's an infatuation that has remained a constant amongst most of us whether we've gotten real jobs, have kids, or not.

On a final note, if you're ever in Marshall and looking for some killer karaoke Chances is located at the intersection of HWY 59 and I-20.
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Gaming is a great icebreaker!
Not as much for myself I'm afraid... there aren't as many people my age that game (I'm 47) but many do have kids that game so often I'll broach the topic and either end up in avid conversation with any kids present, or alternatively end up trying to explain why gaming isn't "bad" for their kids to people my age (or occasionally advising on games for those that do let their kids game).

One thing that I've noticed and do find ironic though is that some parents think their kids don't game... at all. They've always discouraged this time wasting hobby and think that their kids aren't "into it"... yet invariably when you talk to the kids you find out that their angelic 14 year old son is playing Modern Warfare 2 at his friend's place and loves it! Of course, a key part of that conversation usually starts with "don't tell my parents"! (and it's worth it so that I can at least have one interesting conversation at a party without discussing the stock market, politics, kids or recipes!)
Soooo I have a 10 year reunion tonight. It's technically the year my older brother graduated but it's grades 7-12 for that year because I went to a very small school in Billings MT when I was growing up. If it was just my brothers class there would only be 6 people there so the school does a reunion for middle through high school so that it's for about 40 to 50 people total. I'm gonna see a lot of chicks I made out with and introduce them to my beautiful fiancee and tell them about my amazing job. It should be pretty exciting! ha ha ha. Your blog actually got me really excited for tonight's reunion! Can't wait to get off of work and head over there. :)
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@Holyetheline... I hate talking stocks! My brother and father are brokers and myself and most of my friends are at that "retirement" concern age where savings, how they're invested, what is needed to retire... it so often comes up in conversation - and I avoid it like the plague!!

... which is why at parties you'll often find me in a corner talking to any kids present... about games! :)

(though my father and brother are apparently good brokers as our investments are doing quite well judging by the only part of the statement that I read - the "last month" "this month" total value. My husband should be able to retire any time... though one or both of us may look for some part-time work just to keep the "play money' portion going! - gotta support that gaming addiction!)
@holyetheline: sounds fantastic buddy!
When I walked to OS with John and Chris Y. last year around the holiday, we walked in saw a bunch of weirdies and turned around and walked out. Then, when walking back to my dad's house, some sh*theads threw a glass beer bottle at us from a truck. What a town! 12 years and nothing's changed.

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