The title is actually quoted from a large woman who walked into my store yesterday purchasing 'Cooking Mama' and some Pony or Puppy game for her daughter.
Basically I was talking to James about COD4 and it's epic awesomeness online, he was have problems getting online and generally sorting out a fix.
Pinkie (as I've named this lady) asked what kind of games I play online. I replied with 'shooting games, fighting games etc' and she looked at me blankly and said "But your a girl..."
Oh Gawd, for some reason I didn't really take too much offence. This is the woman who prides herself in spending over £300
each on her spoilt children and stated that I should be into lots of "pink and ribbons" (
oh yeah she said that).
However she was the perfect target to get rid of those god awful
Girls Guide to Gaming books (those things radiate pink) and I tried to sell it to her.
And that was my random rant :p
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My fiance plays alsorts of games, from Cooking Mama (which shes currently loving) through to Rainbow Six, and I know of many other girls/women who don't result to the stereotype. In fact the only girl I know who fits into the old stereotype of girl gaming is probably my niece, who admittedly only wanted a DS for Nintendogs as the house my sister rents the owners say they can't have a real dog...
FINISH THE STORY LAUREN.
also pink and ribbons
I just tell them to piss off.
Btw...I believe that in your title and quote you were meaning to say "you're" (the contraction of you and are) instead of "your". Sorry to go grammar-police on you...but it's a peeve of mine.
Anyway, the woman did no harm really, and you can't blame her for being surprised. Like I said earlier, while many girls are gamers, the industry is still dominated by men, both by physically playing games and in the minds of non-gamers. After all, walk into a GameStop and notice the myriad of shooters and the like, and how can you expect an old man or woman to think girls actually play such things? You're talking about people who still believe a woman belongs in the kitchen and nowhere else. So let's be nice to old people. They're pretty nice themselves. Usually.
and the pink ribbons.
You, you, GIRL you! ;)
I still struggle to believe that people like this exist until I meet them myself. We had a catchphrase that we used to use at work for a long time because we had heard it from so many people in one way or another.
"Do you do dem games, do ya? For that there GameBox?"
*sigh*
The problem was not that this lady was stupid or old fashioned (she was buying her kids DS after all) it was the general disbelief that girls cannot play action games or survive with wearing pink ribbons in their pig-tails.
My own mother, who is much older, who I would call old-fashioned would not have made that remark. For all her traditional family values, she is not ignorant.
Which is why people get frustrated at such comments. Ignorance.
Unless you've been locked in a cupboard for the last century there is no excuse why people could still be so ignorant.
random girl comes in we chat about any game
Resident Evil, Silent Hill, Virtual fighter, Tekken, Manhunt, Oblivion
and then some random douche customers comes out from some crack in the wall and hey your a girl i though girls only play like cooking mama and bratz and hana montana games
You're one of the most not-girly-but-still-a-girl I know. Inappropriate, you should've kicked that woman out da stoh.
And I don't know if she brought it, i left by then. THE MYSTERY
Sorry Lauren. Next time, really market that book. That should make for a great cblog.