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Zdravstvuj. My name is Valentin Seleznyov, and i'm a 23 year old self employed kitchen and bathroom designer from London, England. When i'm not making housewives dreams come true, i play guitar and perform vocals in an alternative electronic band, and am currently writing a space ballet.

I drive a Mercedes cabriolet named Bella, and am engaged. Though, for reasons that should be obvious to anyone who has visited this page, i like to keep my doting fiancee out of my online affairs.

My favourite video games of all time are Psycho Fox, Fantastic Dizzy, Road Avenger, Tomcat Alley, Shen-Mue, Star Wars: Knights of the Old Republic, Quantum of Solace and Call of Duty: World at War.

I am also very passionate about Treyarch getting the recognition they deserve.

While i was born in England and currently live here, i was mostly raised in Moscow (i have Russian parents). English is not my first language, so try not to be too harsh on me if i make a spelling mistake or grammatical error. Though by all means point it out, as it will help me to improve.
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Valentin Seleznyov | 4:50 PM on 10.01.2009 39 comments


I started using the forums here a couple of days ago. I made an introductory post and things were going along quite pleasantly. I thought "this seems like a nice, mature community of people who share a similar interest to me". So it was with very little concern that i proceeded to post a thread about my Cosplay Hypothesis. I mean, this is a gaming site, and the implications of my discovery on our great hobby are tremendous. I'm confident that i can revolutionise the way we play games forever. That didn't stop the community from instantly ganging up to cyber-bully me though. While i am self aware enough to acknowledge my idea is a little eccentric, it did not warrant the abuse it garnered. I was called a "c*nt", among other things. It seemed as though the entire forum had sided against me. One man, standing alone, with only his revolutionary idea, wasn't really a match for the lowbrow scorn that ensued. I don't want to dwell on the thread itself as it was locked a while ago. (Though it did get me mentioned on a podcast - they made fun of me too.) The ramifications of that thread on my forum "career" where quite severe. Several posters have adopted an infantile "silent treatment" approach to me, whereas others consider my a self absorbed douchebag, presumably because i drive a nice car and talk about myself a lot. But i'm not self absorbed. I just find me fascinating. When i talk about myself it's like Stephan Hawking talking about physics. Anyway, the cyber-bullying has ensued, and even followed me into the blogging section of this website. Someone posted a blog parodying one of mine. It's fair to say that i'm not being made to feel very welcome. The people on the forum evidently don't want me there, so i have decided to say goodbye. I will continue to maintain this blog though. Some of the commentators have seemed like good people, and i don't want to punish them for the sins of others. Regards Val I look forward to continuing our voyage of scientific discovery together.



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Bulkmailer's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 16:55
Bulkmailer
"But i'm not self absorbed. I just find me fascinating"

Isn't that somewhat contradicting?
Hollie Bennett's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 16:56
Hollie Bennett
I still pitty you.
DJDuffy 's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:02
DJDuffy
"When i talk about myself it's like Stephan Hawking having his computer talk about science."

Yea, that makes perfect sense. What?!
casualweaponry's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:06
casualweaponry
I actually felt bad for you, until I read your sidebar...

"I am also very passionate about Treyarch getting the recognition they deserve."

lolwut?!?

Welcome anyway. Try not to suck.
Kryptinite's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:07
Kryptinite
It's awesome you have such a great self esteem.
Hollie Bennett's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:09
Hollie Bennett
Stephan Hawkings just doesn't appear to be a complete tosser.
CountingConflict's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:10
CountingConflict
Drunkcast made fun of Valentin before it was cool to make fun of Valentin.

Just saying..
itemforty's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:11
itemforty
Ok, stop feeding the troll.
Hollie Bennett's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:14
Hollie Bennett
yes, a supermassive tosser.
MrSadistic's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:15
MrSadistic
I'm up for some "scientific discovery" myself. Um.. yeah.

Anyway, welcome to the 'toid you fruity son of a birch.
Katamaya's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:16
Katamaya
Okay.

I can't help reading your posts with my own nose tilted up slightly and a look of disdain on my face - what I imagine your own expression to be. You're aloof, and thusly you're being met with the reaction of people who feel as though they're being spoken down to.

I hate to say it, but your original idea doesn't seem particularly brilliant in the way you've presented it. Of course dressing up as your character might make you a better player - you've invested more into the situation and thusly you'll get more out. If I just sit down with the mentality that I'm going to dick around on my xbox for thirty minutes, then I'll do just that. But if I set up the room and do some meditation on Halo before I load ODST, I might just get a couple extra kills...it's focus, and the emotional investment in the game. This isn't news. This is logic. I'd be more than willing to entertain a breakthrough discovery on your part if I were to read one. I haven't yet. Take this as neutral feedback.

In something that might be interpreted as defense, I must say that if you're willing to give your love to this community, it will give it back tenfold. While you've been met with hostility, I've gotta say that it doesn't mean you're not welcome in general. Have some humility - you might know who you are, be that genius pianist or victimized forum poster - but know that who you are is going to dictate what your responses will be. Take responsibility for your internet persona. I'm sure you do in the offline world, so do it here too. But a little humble pie goes a long way when you're making first impressions.

Dtoid CAN be hostile. I've been met with some serious flames, but only because I was a total douchebag at the beginning, and then because I chose to be a camwhore. But I knew what I was asking for, and didn't mind when it came to me. Ride the wave. Just don't assume that you should be loved because you love yourself as much as you do.

Anyway. Good times. And we'll see where this goes. Keep posting - especially here - I'll be curious to see what your mind has to say in future blogs, and what the response will be.

Aloha,

-bushofghosts
Tubatic's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:26
Tubatic
aaah drama

So you were banned three years ago and came back? Wow.

Enh, whatever.
phantomile's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:37
phantomile
bushofghosts... Don't take him seriously.

I mean, really everyone. This is funny, it's entertaining, but that's all it is. He's not serious. He's a troll.
Getting worked up over what he says is just going to make him do stupid shit more often.

His cosplay thread was brilliant, and the best troll thread I've ever seen, but it's getting to be annoying now. He has no reason to stop because everyone keeps giving him ammo.

I know I am too, in a way, just by posting this; but I felt this needed to be said.
I'll be ignoring Sleazynose from now on.
Chris Carter's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:44
Chris Carter
Why are you guys still posting here?

He's a great comment troll, but his pieces really need work.

I mean, honestly, your actual posts don't even try to evoke anger, they're just so random people feel the need to trash it, and then you troll them. It's a whole new level of trolling, really.
Katamaya's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:55
Katamaya
Phantomile: not getting worked up, just incredibly curious is all. Won't miss the time I spend on this one. Although that's beginning to look like the point...brilliant.

As for being a foreigner, no way buddy. We're all from all over the world. That's the internet. Not a valid excuse. Definitely a good victim card to play for a troll though.

There are options available other than talking yourself up or putting others down. I'll let you figure out what they are.

Ignore the comments here and blog something of substance - your CoD blog. Do that. Let's see those blogging skillz you've got hiding. Because at the moment I gotta agree with Magnalon...it's like the perfect trap.
Katamaya's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 17:57
Katamaya
FYI - "deleting" posts doesn't happen here. You can hide them, but the link will still work. Just so you know. It's a great feature, makes us all think before posting. ;)

<3
Bat Country's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/01/2009 18:24
Bat Country
Hey Val, how's it going? What games did you play today?
Bat Country's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/02/2009 06:13
Bat Country
Hmm? Oh, I come on this website to talk about video games. A lot of us do. My friend just bought Modern Warfare for my birthday, but I haven't been able to get around to it, since all my friends are either playing Left 4 Dead or Team Fortress 2. I'm also working on finished Arkham Asylum, do you have that game?
Bat Country's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/02/2009 07:36
Bat Country
I think if we stick to video games we should be cool, bro.

Yeah, just don't dress up as Joker. By your theory, that would be counter productive. Halloween is a good time to check it out, though, because the Scarecrow bits eclipse a lot of the other stuff that happens in the game if only for how messed up it gets.

Which zombie game? I've been playing a little of I MAED A GAM3 W1TH ZOMBIES 1N IT!!!1, which is a great indie. Especially for the price of a buck :P

World at War is bad ass. I love calling in the dogs.
Bat Country's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/02/2009 08:16
Bat Country
It's actually a reference to Hunter S. Thompson, but I am a Batman fanatic, nevertheless. Scarecrow is pretty similar to the movie...the voice actor seems to have taken something from Cillian Murphy rather than go the route of the Animated Series. Which is interesting, because the game assumes you watched the cartoon as a kid just by the voice actors and Paul Dini's hand in it.

I love how I MAED A GAM3 goes from zero to wtf why are there snakes here pretty quickly. I wish they'd release it for the PSP or DS so I could play it on the train or in line.

Oh yeah, I heard Zombie Apocalypse isn't terrible. It's from a third person perspective, right? That's interesting...

Agreed. The day I unlocked the flamethrower was like the best day of my life.
itemforty's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/02/2009 11:10
itemforty
THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO HAVE A FUCKING CONVERSATION.

For that, go to IRC.
http://www.destructoid.com/elephant/irc.phtml?t=community&subnav=irc
Bat Country's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/02/2009 11:15
Bat Country
Wow buddy, I was just making a point. Jeez.
itemforty's Avatar - Comment posted on 10/02/2009 11:31
itemforty
Nah, just bored and inviting people into IRC.
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