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I empathize with your plight. Not too long ago I was forced to sever ties with people who were a total drain on me/society. Good for you for letting it go. Your friends have to grow up sometime.
Personal responsibility is something a lot of people don't want to deal with. It sickens me to watch it sometimes. Kudos to standing up to your friend.
I agree with topgeargorilla.
Either drop them or call them out on the spot. If they try to do something to you, you put your foot down and say no. That's all it takes. If they don't have enough for the bill, tell them it's their own damn fault.
If they want to get high, shove a foot up their ass and kick them out of your place.
If they drop their kid off to get laid, tell them to go somewhere else to have a babysitter.
All you have to do is say no. It takes alot of guts to do it, but you just have to and need to say no.
You have to watch out for yourself. They'll never learn by leeching off you like as if you're their parent.
Either drop them or call them out on the spot. If they try to do something to you, you put your foot down and say no. That's all it takes. If they don't have enough for the bill, tell them it's their own damn fault.
If they want to get high, shove a foot up their ass and kick them out of your place.
If they drop their kid off to get laid, tell them to go somewhere else to have a babysitter.
All you have to do is say no. It takes alot of guts to do it, but you just have to and need to say no.
You have to watch out for yourself. They'll never learn by leeching off you like as if you're their parent.
Lending a helping hand is always good. My fiance and I have a friend who had lots of troubles here, so she went to Texas to get away from bad friends, get some money, and go to rehab.
Well she cheated on her last rehab test (someone else's urine) after being clean for months, got kicked out of her moms place cause she found a bag of weed, got a speeding ticket, got kicked out of her friends house, and after ALL that, she still says "WTF?".
Sometimes, people have to learn the hard way. So, I feel you man, but don't lost hope!
Well she cheated on her last rehab test (someone else's urine) after being clean for months, got kicked out of her moms place cause she found a bag of weed, got a speeding ticket, got kicked out of her friends house, and after ALL that, she still says "WTF?".
Sometimes, people have to learn the hard way. So, I feel you man, but don't lost hope!
"When I was a child, I thought as a child, acted as a child... but when I became a man, I put away childish things."
-St. Paul
That's the biblical reference for those who don't want to look it up. Probably my favorite St. Paul quote... well, right after the one where he tells the men of a church to "Suffer not a woman to teach."
Good ol' St. Paul, keepin them bitches n' hos in check. What a pimp.
-St. Paul
That's the biblical reference for those who don't want to look it up. Probably my favorite St. Paul quote... well, right after the one where he tells the men of a church to "Suffer not a woman to teach."
Good ol' St. Paul, keepin them bitches n' hos in check. What a pimp.
