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Why Intimidation Can Kiss My Ass
The GHost | 6:51 AM on 02.15.2009 32 comments




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Ever hear someone tell you that they won’t play a game because they don’t think they can handle the pressure? Maybe you went to hand someone the controller and that person told you that he/she wasn’t interested because he/she didn’t think that he/she was smart enough or had enough coordination to handle the game? I know I certainly have. And it isn’t always my non-gaming friends that I get it from either. There are plenty of people that I would consider to be fairly well seasoned gamers that refuse to play certain titles because they see someone else play and think to themselves “I’ll never be able to do that”.

All together now: YES YOU CAN!



Of course thinking like that is complete crap. But more times than I care to count I’ve had to really insist that someone play a game, because whenever I hear the old excuses about not being able to handle the pressure or whatever I get pissed off. I really hate it when people assume that they’re no good at something before they try it. Years ago I let my intimidation get the best of me and I was denied many great games because of it. These days I walk into the arcade and proudly fail at DDR with crowds looking on, I push myself to play difficult games that I know will be great fun once I get over the hump and understand the game, I also try genres that I used to assume were “too complex for me to understand”. The only difference between the average gamer and some gaming virtuoso is practice.



The take-home message is to not be intimidated by any genre or game. Whatever it is; you can play it, and you’ll probably find that it takes a lot less time than you thought to get into it. Those 90 hours spent playing Persona 3 or even the 20-30 hours playing something like God of War (or whatever game/genre you’re already comfy with) could just as easily be used to test out something different that may very well catch your attention. Those guys and girls (lol becuz gurlz dun play gaemz!!!11! lolololol!!!1) that play professional Starcraft using seemingly inhuman speed just practiced a whole bunch until they could do it. Maybe you might take longer to get to that point (if that’s what you want to do), but you could be that good/crazy too.

Remember kids: don’t let intimidation happen to you! Or anyone else that you know for that matter. Encourage non-gamers to stretch out and play stuff that normally intimidates them and test your own boundaries while you’re at it. You may just find something you really enjoy! :D



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LukienAkeela's Destructoid Blog
Good subject, good read. This actually hit pretty close to home for me. Back in the day I would refuse to play/borrow RPG's cause it seemed too complicated. I was more willing play a crappy Batman Forever because I was more comfortable with those game mechanics. I missed out on Final Fantasy III and Chrono Trigger as a result. It's true kids; broaden your horizons early and gaming can much more enjoyable.
Y0j1mb0's Destructoid Blog
Why the Ghost Kicks Ass.

This blog right here.
Qraze's Destructoid Blog
my little nephew is like that, saying a game is too hard and gives up before even trying. i tell him "its just a game, its meant to be played and beat, you can never give up on a game" (unless its ddr) and he gives it a try, he's only 5 years old and just got his first nintendo ds (with lego star wars complete saga and iron man, i got him the phantom hourglass last week and he can't read too well just yet so he really can't enjoy it yet) so he's in his gaming infantcy. he's gonna love that zelda game here soon, its a pretty good game. he also now loves magic ball.

but i have to remind him its just a game when he thinks he can't do something.
The GHost's Destructoid Blog
Thanks for the great comments guys! I just wanted to put something out there before I head to bed:

Games are not a dick waving competition. They're fun and challenging, but there's no reason for someone to feel superior or inferior because of their gaming skills. :)

Albeit competitive gaming takes a different bent...
EternalDeathSlayer's Destructoid Blog
You should blog more often. Good read.
Jesus H Christ's Destructoid Blog
True. I was pretty intimidated by Mega Man 9 but I still played the hell out of it.

On the other hand I had to put down Dead Space because the psychological pressure was too much for me. Yes, I am a total puss.
SilverDragon1979's Destructoid Blog
Great read Mr The GHost. I used to go to the arcade when I was a kid and waste a ton of money just to get my ass totally kicked in Stret Fighter 2. I never got embaressed though, or ashamed. I just kept on playing because it was fun, and the only way to get better was to get my ass kicked.

Unfortunately I still suck at SF2 even today. :-(
RiotMonster's Destructoid Blog
I still feel that way about certain games.. For some reason I never pick em up because I feel that I'm going to fail.

Good job GHost =]
Intimidation can go suck a big one.
EarthbounderNess's Destructoid Blog
I'm with Silver on this one, although I STILL go to the arcade and get my ass kicked (Although in this age it's at BlazBlue and Street Fighter IV). Awesome read though GHost!

We shall never let intimidation persevere!
BulletMagnet's Destructoid Blog
Heh, this definitely resonated with this shmupper, whose genre considers ridiculous amounts of punishment as part of the core experience. People see a screen full of neon bullets and slowly back away, heh heh.
eternalplayer2345's Destructoid Blog
Excellent article Ghost. I think the only time if feel intimidation is when I play something like Street fighter. I know I can do it but playing online I would be embarrassed to play and lose really bad in front of dtoid.
TheToiletDuck's Destructoid Blog
Actually this is exactly why i played Ninja Gaiden. I wasn't really that interested in it but everybody told me how gruelling it was so i decided to challenge myself.

I get intimidated whenever i go into a new online game (like right now Left4Dead) because i suck. But yeah, like you say you can't let it spoil your fun.
:)
Naim Master's Destructoid Blog
Well , I'm still intimidated at RTSs , dunno , I think that the genre isn't too much appealing to me ...
OBS: Good write style
Solgrim's Destructoid Blog
Ah, nice topic!

It all boils down to:

PRACTICE! PRACTICE! PRACTICE!
Daxelman's Destructoid Blog
I get intimidated with horror games that actually do a good job of scaring me, ala Dead Space or FEAR 2.

Thank god for demo's. I won't have to spend 60 bucks to shit my pants over and over again.
Takeshi's Destructoid Blog
I echo the comments here. Blog more often. Good read. And those booster packs... I love 'em!
Spartacus's Destructoid Blog
I have been learning Dwarf Fortress this weekend. YES I CAN!
Necros's Destructoid Blog
Great points! I still play Halo from time to time, not because I'm good or anything - I'm actually quite bad - but because it's fun to play and helps exercise gaming skills I don't always use. I hopped on Street Fighter II once with some Dtoiders, and even though I sucked and lost every time, I still enjoyed myself a bit.
Samit Sarkar's Destructoid Blog
ZOMG The GHost sighting!

Great write-up, man -- I'm definitely guilty of this. I bought Super Street Fighter II Turbo HD Remix but haven't bothered with it much because, well, I suck at Street Fighter. But I think I'll hop back in!
Artemus's Destructoid Blog
You're "that" guy that sucks at DDR!
Ha! ha!
So do I... I actually don't play it, to tell the truth...
I also suck at fighting games, but I still play 'em and give 'em my best!
It's funny, I'm not any good at SF, but SF IV is still gonna take my money! And I did buy Super Street Fighter II Turbo HD Remix! Looks so damn good...
Aziel13's Destructoid Blog
thats what I'm talking about
hence why I'm not afraid to play DDR at my local casino arcade anymore
F u pinoy,jap,kor kids
Puppy Licks's Destructoid Blog
Intimidation is great, it helps me get extra info out of NPC's in role playing games :P
The GHost's Destructoid Blog
Again, thanks for all the stupendous comments everyone! I'd like to blog more often, but I'm writing stuff for Negative Gamer and med school has hit with a vengeance so my time is fairly limited. I'll still pop in whenever I can.
Ali D's Destructoid Blog
"Games are not a dick waving competition." Heh, wish the Killzone 2 fanboys knew that.

You're totally right, I let intimidation stop me from playing so many games, like RTS, Shoot-em-ups and so forth. But I'll need to shake that off with Dawn Of War 2 coming up.
CountingConflict's Destructoid Blog
lol @ puppylicks

Also, great write up Ghost!
A New Challenger's Destructoid Blog
I like how you used Persona 3 as an example of something run-of-the-mill or "safe." That really indicates your audience :P

I hate when my sister won't try some new game and then goes back to play Star Fox Adventures for the 20th time. She knows she's a horrible person for doing it. I've been nagging her to play Super Metroid.

I nag everyone to play Super Metroid.
Knives's Destructoid Blog
Intimidation can suck an aerox!!
Anus Mcphanus's Destructoid Blog
haha I'm *that* guy when playing DDR as well. Great write up but I think sometimes you just know that you won't enjoy a game even if you haven't played it. I agree that you should still give it a try but I just know I'll never get into WoW and have zero interest in trying.

Forcing people to play Rock Band is always great though :-)
16bitmonster's Destructoid Blog
i have had "that" moment many times with DDR.. being 6'3 and whiter then most doesn't really help either but you know what? i think the next time i'm at Sunsplash i am going to bust a groove or fall on my lanky ass because of this article. thank you mr. ghost.

also, screw those hot topic kids with there anime inspired apparel and glancing eyes that scream of judging. i don't care if i'm almost 25. I want to listen to some Jpop while i move my legs like a crazy person.
Sam Spectre's Destructoid Blog
[i]
Games are not a dick waving competition. They're fun and challenging, but there's no reason for someone to feel superior or inferior because of their gaming skills. :)[/i]

Well said my friend! Great blog, I'm glad I stumbled on in here today.
Sam Spectre's Destructoid Blog
....BBcode fail.
Sept's Destructoid Blog
Dun gude. But games are a dick waiving Competition, Im gonna stroke some mad Epeen til' i Diezlolz


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