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Name's Ozz, I'm 23 and hail from Southern Ontario, Canada. Tetris broke my gaming cherry back in '89, thanks to Game Boy, and I've been obsessed with gaming since '98.
My favourite console would be the Nintendo 64, and favourite game is Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time. Aside from Zeldas, my favourite genre is First Person Shooters (Specifically old-school, DOOM, Duke Nukem 3D).
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I remember a time when being a gamer just labeled you as such, a "Gamer". Then came along the divider for girls, "Girl Gamer". Don't forget the casual crowd, forcing the term "Gamer" to be divided into "Casual" and "Core".



Well it appears there's been another divider introduced into the equation. "Gaymer", a gay gamer. This is a serious thing, and these "Gaymers" are trying to get their own convention about it to. The GaymerCon is a convention that celebrates gaming, which is good, but singles out the LGBT community, which is bad. I'm not saying LGBT people are bad, but act of singling out a specific group of people is bad. Instead of having a convention centered around one community, have one centered around all communities, otherwise you end up reinforcing a barrier you're trying to break down, and that's stupid.

I understand that some people feel like other conventions like E3, Gamescom, PAX, etc. are centered around straight males, but they're not, you only feel that way. You're putting up that mental barrier that you feel left out, that you're not getting specific attention, when that's the farthest from the truth. There are always games being displayed that target all kinds of gamers, straight, gay, girl, guy, young, old, black, white, asian, whatever. No matter what race, sex, sexuality, you are, no matter what preferences you have, you will find games you'll enjoy at these conventions.

Now if the GaymerCon goes through, why not have a BlackGameCon, where it's centered around black gamers? Lord knows the vast majority of protagonists are white, so that means blacks are being left out, and not getting specific attention towards them, so they should benefit from having their own convention, right? If you disagree, yet think GaymerCon is a good idea, than you're a racist muddafukka.

Seriously though, between Cores, Casuals, Girls, Gaymers, this is getting retarded. When someone says to me "I'm a gamer", I'll now have to ask them to be more specific about it, because "Gamer" is no longer good enough, it's just too broad of a term, and doesn't mean shit anymore.

I am a white-male-hetero-bearded-tattooed-core gamer, that wishes he was just a gamer.

But seriously, where's my convention based around straight white dudes with tattoos and beards that play video games...
...Oh wait
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The gamer label has changed quite a bit in the last few years, at this point even someone who plays angry birds on their phone is a gamer and or a geek.

I pay no mind to such things, gaming isn't inclusive and it was never meant to be.
Actually, it IS inclusive. That's why there is a huge multi million dollar mainstream market for it.

The label was too broad to be useful in the first place since it has NEVER had a proper definition. It never meant anything except to people who created their own definitions. And being a gamer alone doesn't speak too much about someones personality; the types of people who have played and enjoyed games have always covered a broad spectrum.
Don't call me a gamer. Call me a resplendent black grandmother.
"Gaymer" is by no means a recent development. GayGamer.net has been around for years, and I'm sure the term existed before then.

I'm not sure how singling out and bringing attention to a minority is a bad thing? If people aren't aware of the problems faced by individuals in certain minorities, then those problems will never be resolved.

A black gamer con sounds like a wonderful idea; why the hell not?

"When someone says to me "I'm a gamer", I'll now have to ask them to be more specific about it" No, you won't. That would be ridiculous. If I met you, I might tell you that I was a gamer (if the topic of games came up). If other topics came up, I might mention that I was gay. You could then deduce that I am a gay gamer. It's not a label I would want you to call me though, it's just two important aspects of who I am. Casual and Core are very different terms in this regard.

And I realize that your last sentence is probably rhetorical, but... E3 and PAX and almost any other gaming convention fits that description. Those conventions are NOT based around gays though.
I saw the title and got excited because I thought you had wiped out the nerd scum. :(
Honestly, I hate the idea of division like this. I hate it when I see it in the world around me... when somehow we are not all part of the community, but dividing up the community basically into clicks based on a few features of ourselves (physical or otherwise)... and maybe it's not new, but I hate seeing it in the gaming community to.

Sorry, but screw you. You are GAMERS! Not Hard core... not Casual... not Gaymers... GAMERS. You play games... and to hell with everything else. It doesn't matter, especially not behind the screen, controller, and/or mic.

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