For a lot of people, retail will be the first job you have. For some its a career either by choice or general comfort. It could be a decent living, until those customers that ruin your day and make you wonder why you aren't paid significantly more to deal with those times.
I was turned on to
this article earlier this week, which states two phrases that destroy American society – the first, and the one I'm focusing on, is “The customer is always right.” In case you don't feel like clicking the link, this woman has a theory - that customers only treat retail employees poorly because they get away with being rude and obnoxious undeterred. (The article really is brilliant, more brilliant than anything I write, so read it anyway.)
Sloth; The deadly sin associated with apathy. Looking the other way when something needs to be addressed. (see; Boondock Saints...just don't kill anybody.)
Apathy; Lack of interest or concern, especially regarding matters of general importance or appeal; indifference.
After about six years of off-and-on part time and full time retail jobs, I have once again liberated myself from the dredges, only this time I have been enlightened. It isn't just personally behaving in a retail environment, this time I vow to take it a step further and crusade for the retail slaves of the greater Denver area and beyond.
A personal example;
Around the holidays I was in a gamestop, when an already-angry mother came into the store looking for a Wii – which were sold out nationwide the entire season. She was told they didn't have any at that store, and snapped very loudly with a “Well, Wal-mart carries them, so why don't YOU?”
Of course, working retail at the time, I was still in the mindset that I couldn't/shouldn't say anything – though even something as simple as “thats not
his fault”or “there is a Wal-mart across the street...” might have shut her up, or at least made the poor guy behind the counter feel a little better about the whole thing.
I have been in that situation before – sometimes its just a nasty comment, sometimes I was nervous books were about to become blunt weapons, sometimes I felt police should have been involved with verbal assault charges. I have been written up multiple times for standing up for myself, and its really not fair that customers get away with so much.
As a customer, my pledge to all retail employees;
If I am ever witness to anything belittling, obnoxious, or otherwise rude from a customer – I will stand up for the employees as best I can without becoming one of those obnoxious, belittling, or rude individuals.
After all, my job isn't on the line anymore, so why wouldn't I stand up for those that really can't?
A.Rednecks
B.GThugs
I personally don't take shit from people either way. I'm nice and helpfull untill your rude to me, and then I will tell it like it is.
the reason people let themselves be treated like this is because of money. Managers let their employees be mistreated and then reward the assholes because they want their money. In a capitalist society, this will always hold true because if you act in a noble way, there will always be another store that won't, which just results in the rightly behaved losing money.
Yep.
Sorry about that, good write up.
Really - money is life in this society. My job has been threatened by standing up for myself, 3 writeups in 6 months is termination, I've acquired 2 in that timespan at once - and really, in my state, no job = no money. Bills + no money = homeless.
Really, who wants that?
I don't know if there is a point to that story other than I hate the general public, but I needed an excuse to post that story so thank you.
I have seen every type of retail atrocity you can think of. I once had a man, who was returning a stereo system that was broken, complain that I should refund him extra money to pay for the gas he had to spend to drive to the store to return the item (back when gas was $1 a gallon). Another time I had a women yell me out on X-mas Eve because for some reason it was my fault there were no Gameboys Advances in stock.
Customers are morons. Unfortunately a majority of the sales people behind the counter are also morons. In my opinion you can't win. Why try?
Your job, whatever other responsibities it may carry, should always be first and foremost that of taking care of that customer. It doesn't matter that they are rude otr cross with you. Excercise your personal feelings and be courteous and respectful. Typically when emplying this most customers reflect on their behavior and apologize.
If not, then there is always the option of calling your supervisor to handle it accordingly.
I'm not saying you are wrong in your view, I'm just saying work is not the place for you to take a stand.
I don't actually work retail anymore - I did stand up for myself, very politely - asking people to please stop doing something, or whatever. But people feel entitled to complain regardless.
Since I don't work retail anymore, I feel I SHOULD stand up for those who can't.
His problem?
He bought a football game for the PS2 eight months earlier.
He said the game was the defective and wanted a new one.
Among the list of failures this guy accomplished:
No reciept.
The disc itself scratched to oblivion. It looked
like he spun it around over gravel...
And this was the aggressive type, i spent 15 minutes
debating with this guy before resorting to getting
my boss..
But customers like that is 1/100, so mostly you'll deal with... well, non-retarded people.