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11:29 AM on 05.14.2012

Bear with me here. I'm not the best writer when it comes to blogs. I've never written one so that should at least give you my qualifications but nothing says I can't give it a shot.
I have been part of Destructoid for a little over a year but not really an active member until last fall. During the past few months I've come to know a few of they people on the site (mainly Chillybilly and Andy Dixon), either through the forums or on Friday Night Fights, that, like me, have a full time job as well as a family. Now, I don't know what their situation is like for the most part (hell, Chillybilly seems to have an endless supply of funds to spend on non-official Mario figures-ha!) but for the most part, I have to have a delicate balance between work, family time and games. I'm writing this blog not so much as to vent but just put it out there what some of you younger gamers might have to deal with in a few years or something older gamers with kids might be able to relate to. Every now and then I'll pick a topic to write about that would relate to gaming as a dad that I think would make a good article. I'm also open to suggestions or conversation in the comments, if anyone is interested.
For today-it's time and money. As I write this I have to leave in about twenty-five minutes to pick up my four year old from school. People with kids know that they take almost all the time in the day up, leaving very little to games, movies or just to sit and stare at a wall. My son goes to bed around 8 PM and I have to go to bed about an hour and a half later just to get enough sleep to get up at 4:45 AM the following day. So that leaves little time to play games on the days I work. My weekends are better but only when I don't have to work extra duty on my days off. The time I do get to play games I tend to drift more towards multiplayer games (At over 70 hours Battlefield 3 is probably the longest I've spent on a game...ever) due to the social aspect of it.
Now, have you ever heard the saying, "Time is money?" Sure you have. I try to spread my $60 game investment over a long period of time. An eight hour FPS will last me about two months while Mass Effect 1 and 2 took me about a year to push all the way through. I get some of the people's argument about spending the money on a game and getting through a 70 hour RPG in less than a week. Obviously you have a lot of time on your hand and feel you need a game that is 300 hours long to justify $60. Great. I can't do that. As I've grown up and time has become more and more rare I've taken to quality games that may be shorter but I still get enough of the game out of it that it justifies my purchase. I personally don't care whether the game I have will last me until I'm 60 years old, as is the case with games like Skyrim, I just want to finish a game and get something out of it. Case in point: Red Dead Redemption. I think I finished that in about 20 hours. To some people they may have felt scammed out of that time compared to previous Rockstar games but from the characters or the story I feel my $60 was more than justified. That 20 hour game play took me about two months to beat.
Now, I could go on and on about it but I'm trying to keep it brief. That and I have to leave 5 minutes ago. My future blogs, if anyone is interested in this one, will be a little more concise as I learn how to write a better blog and give myself a little more time to do it in. I'm open to suggestions, comments and CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. Thanks for reading!



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As a fellow dad, great blog. I look forward to more from you.
Ahhhh SCIELD!!

Nice to see you on the blogs man! Wanna know my secret? It's a couple different things.

1. I pre-order everything that I am interested in buying. If there is something I want I head in to GameStop and drop 5 bucks on it. Then once a week I go in to my local GameStop and put some money down on whatever I have on hold. Sometimes it's an extra 5 bucks, other times it's more (20-40). By doing this I can pay off, over time all of the games that I want. Most of the time when I put something on pre-order there's a 5+ month wait until the game finally launches, by sticking to my once a week money down method I typically have everything paid off early.

2. I am a HUGE bargain hunter. Target, GoodWill, used CD shops, online sales, etc. Target is my favorite hotspot. If you go once a week and check out your local Target clearance rack you will eventually find some gems for cheap. Example, two weeks ago I stopped in to Target, went to the clearance rack and found a copy of Ace Combat: Assault Horizon for the Xbox 360 brand new for 19.99. That game STILL sells for 30 bucks used at GameStop. So not only did I save money I also got it cheaper and new.

Also, cheap ass gamer. Seriously, follow that site. Last week they posted an article about Best Buy having a buy two get one free sale on used games online. They had a TON of new and older games for CHEAP and if you can get one for free even better!

As far as time goes well, that's a tough one. My daughter goes to bed between 8:00pm and 9:00pm each night. I typically never get on before that. I almost never game on the weekends until this time as well because we're always out doing something instead of sitting at home.

Being a full time parent with a family as well as a gamer is tough. You have to try to find that perfect balance of family time, kid time, game time and money.

Not sure if any of that helps, and sorry for making such a long comment. Anyway, can't wait to shoot you again in Battlefield! =)
Hear hear!

Glad to see I'm not the only one in this situation. According to Raptr, I played games between 6 and 7 hours last week. That's about one hour per day, INCLUDING weekends. Far cry from my hayday, that's for sure!

Anyway, glad to get to know you better, buddy :)
haha, thanks for the tips, Chilly. Glad y'all liked it so far.
I've often said that it's difficult to find time to game while in that "busy" time of life - but just wait till the kids are gone, the mortgage is paid, retirement is there... and you have all the time and money you'll need to game as a retirement hobby - it's awesome!

... even when the kids get older you'll have more time... while waiting up late for them to get home. :)

... and welcome to Dtoid!

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