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So who am I? Well, some call me RivaOni, some call me Duane, depends how you know me. I'm a early 23 year old male from the United Kingdom, currently residing in boring Bedford. I own numerous systems, and a filing cabinet full of games for them. I also run a website called "bitparade" to which you can find a link to below.

I'm the father of a 3 year old little girl, so have to balance my gaming around her, i.e. no violent games until she goes to bed unless shes out for the day.





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Proud to be a gamer!
RivaOni | 4:36 PM on 11.26.2007 15 comments


With gaming now become much more mainstream, its suprising that as dedicated gamers, we're still seen as geeks, nerds or generally uncool. Why is this? Personally I have no idea, but I do know one thing. We're never going to be taken seriously if we shy away from our culture whilst out in public. Every other "way of life" so to speak, shoves itselfs in our faces whilst we're out and about, let alone on the internet. Hip hop culture is huge, the current "Emo" phase today's teenagers appear to be going through (or has that moved on yet?) is up and in our faces when out shopping. So why don't we, as gamers, stand proud and decalre that we wont be ignored, laughed out, or generally treated as people that "need to grow up".

I';ve rambled enough, and I've kind of forgotten my point here for one reason or another. But, I think, its about time we stopped disguising ourselves as "normal members of society", worried that we may be labled as some psychopath thats ready to go on a gun rampage. How do I intend on doing this on a personal level? I have no idea, but surely, wearing say, a gaming T-Shirt wouldn't harm matters. After all, its culturally acceptible to wear a band t-shirt, why not show off your favourite game by doing the same? So I say to you, members of Destructoid, get out there and declare your passion for videogames in whatever way you can (within your countries/states laws obviously) and declare "I'm a gamer, respect me".


Be warned though, you may get thrown into the looney bin if you actually stand on something high and shout that, although don't let me stop you if you really want to!



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13 comments | showing # 1 to 13
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MrSadistic's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 16:50
MrSadistic
I went the way of getting a video game tattoo to show my gamer pride. Well it wasn't gamer pride as much as to show how fucking awesome Nemesis from Resident Evil 3 is. I know it sounds stupid and trendy, but yeah I'm not really ashamed to admit or show that I'm a gamer, unless it's some trendy Nintendo t-shirt. That's where I draw the line.
king3vbo's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 16:57
king3vbo
I have lots of nerdy shirts, including 2 dtoid shirts, and I wear them with pride. I actually got a few people to join in on the win that is dtoid starting by them asking me what my shirt was about
thedarksideofgaming's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 17:05
thedarksideofgaming
I know I am hated by many on here, but I am so asking my wife to get me a Dtoid shirt.

BTW, thanks for giving a second(probably actuallt 5th) chance on here king
RivaOni's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 17:07
RivaOni
Cool stuffs!

I suppose (and I'm guessing your from America here) that gaming is much more accepted in America, despite the likes of a certain Mr. Thompson, than it is here in the UK. I have a T-Shirt with a NES on the front surrounded by the text "Classically Trained", during the summer I recieved taunts from the local teenagers whilst wearing it. I was also pushing my daughter in her pushchair at the time, and was kind of sickened by some of the insults thrown my way, yet I reckon if asked, most of them had a PS2 or 360 themselves.

@MrSadistic,

Nemesis is indeed a great design for a videogames character. I've been wanting a gaming tat for a while now, but either can't settle on an idea, or don't trust the developers to ruin the reputation of what I choose. Basically, I was gonna have an all blacked out tatoo of NiGHTS in the pose with the moon from the Saturn games cover, but with SEGA's recent output and the fact their developing a new NiGHTS, I'm holding out to see if its good enough to not tarnish the original games reputation.
thedarksideofgaming's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 17:34
thedarksideofgaming
Nothing wrong with being a gamer. Why? Because games rule.
Samit Sarkar's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 18:42
Samit Sarkar
Yeah, people ask me what the hell ‘STFUAJPG’ means whenever I wear that t-shirt, and when I explain it to them, they look at me like I’m nuts. Fuck ’em.
Xenophilius's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 18:56
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@Heretic

man thats exactly what the dumbass jocks at my school are like, god damn i hate it.
BS3 Owner's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 19:54
BS3 Owner
I need some moar DTOID stickers too!
( Only One Left... = Epic Fail on my Part! )
crackity jones's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/26/2007 21:02
crackity jones
I know its not a game but I go to school (college) with a Samurai Champloo messenger bag, I thought that was kinda ballsy it also has a halo 3 button on it but jocks like that game too. I have a Phoenix Ace Wright key chain ... so yeah I guess I'm doing my part, even if I'm wearing a band t-shirt right now (Electric Six if you were wondering)
Knivy's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/27/2007 01:07
Knivy
I've always been proud to be a gamer, I wear gaming shirts and even hang out at "The geekplace" (part of the cafeteria filled with guys playing on laptops or playing Yu-Gi-Oh cards [Oh yeah, I'm in college BTW]).

I need some dtoid shirts (a retroforce go! one would rule!)
Aaron Mxy Yost's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/27/2007 03:11
Aaron Mxy Yost
Coolness is relative, who cares how you're perceived. I already wear gaming shirts in public, but not as some sort of symbol of pride. It's because I like wearing gaming shirts.
McSnow's Avatar - Comment posted on 12/02/2007 15:20
McSnow
I'm glad to see so many people are starting to accept themselves as who they are, no matter how society judges us.

POWER TO THE PEOPLE!
Luigi takes over's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/12/2008 22:22
Luigi takes over
Some of the local university kids and I started a group on campus called bluntly, The Campus Nerds. It exploded over night into the largest group on campus, so large that we have committees inside the group for special interests.

I myself have been the Liaison for the Electronic Gaming Committee for the entirety of our existence(almost 2 years and running strong!). Almost everything in my wardrobe screams "GAMER!" and I'm very outgoing and social about it.

We've successfully held two small, free to the public conventions dubbed NerdaCon with over 1000 people attending the first and over 1300 attending the second. After that we're kind of a big deal on campus and other groups, even frats/sororities respect us.

We've managed to change a few opinions about geeks and gamers down here in Columbus, GA. It's a start.

I salute you and my fellow gamers who stand proud in the face of adversity, and I encourage you to group with your locals and get your name out there in a positive light. It could help change the face of the stereotypical gamer everywhere.
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