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In case you don't know a lick about me, I joined Destructoid quite a few sunsets ago in the early Spring of 2008, when someone from the Internet kindly informed me that Destructoid would "eat your unborn babies". Having an insatiable taste for mucus-covered, unborn babies, I knew what I had to do. Plus, people were like "WHAT THE @#$% YOU TALKING BOUT MAN?!1! WE GOT XBOX AND PLAYSTATION BITCH NIGGAH!!1!" Naturally, I was in. Since then I lurke your forums, read your c-blawgs, listen to your podcasts and lul silently. Also, cocks.

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Video Games Linked to Poor Relationships with Others?
RiotMonster | 12:00 AM on 01.23.2009 19 comments



I stumbled upon this news article earlier.
http://www.newswise.com/articles/view/548247/

Here are some key points from this "study" that pissed me off:
---"It may be that young adults remove themselves from important social settings to play video games, or that people who already struggle with relationships are trying to find other ways to spend their time..."
---"The most striking part is that everything we found clustered around video game use is negative..."
---Statistical analyses also revealed that the more young adults play video games, the more frequent their involvement in risky behaviors like drinking and drug abuse.
---For young women, self-worth was low if their video game time was high.

MY THOUGHTS:

Only 17% of college females play games, huh? That's why game usage among females jumped from 50 percent in 2006 to 57 percent in 2008? This rise in female gamers is being attributed to the increasing sales of the Nintendo DS and Wii. It's not hard to find casual gaming females or hardcore, avid gaming females in the video game industry these days. Everyone should know that.

Also, I find it absolutely hard to believe that avid gamers are not social. Excuuuuuuuse me Princess, if some of our parents don't even know how to set the time on a DVD player, much less pick up a video game controller. We spend more time playing video games because it's something we're passionate about and love to do. It's not the video games's fault that we'd rather play Guitar Hero via Xbox Live with our buddies instead of frolicking in the park with grandma or playing Scrabble with our little brothers.

Apparently, playing games every day is the work of the devil. After absuing drugs, I know I love making Miis. Also, don't forget to go shoot up your school and neglect your girlfriend. BECAUSE PLAYING LEFT 4 DEAD IS SO MUCH MORE FUN ALONE RIGHT?!

I was a bit offended by this article. What are your views on this?

[EDIT: Thanks to the Dtoiders out there helping me not make a completely fail blog]



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garison's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 00:51
garison
"For young women, self-worth was low if their video game time was high."

Colette, Stella, Nintendoll, Atheistium, Tiff, Ashley. The most depressed people on Dtoid.

What a load of shit. If videogames really spread you apart from people, why does Dtoid even exist? Why do we come on here everyday to hang out and talk about games we are so antisocial.
Rampancy's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 00:51
Rampancy
I game, thus I must hate interacting with others. Why am I leaving this comment? Oh yeah, because I hate interacting with others. BRB, drugs and violence.
whiteskwirl's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 00:58
whiteskwirl
I don't trust psychological research because it tends to try to attribute outside influences as the cause of internal behaviors or characteristics. People who do_______are more/less likely to________. I think it's the other way around.

People don't have social problems because they play video games, and video games don't cause people to have social problems (unless there's excessive use such as with an addiction, but that's true for everything). Rather, a person already has social problems and chooses video games or something else to do maybe or maybe not to cope with it or replace it. This kind of research never seems to get to the heart of the matter, I think.

Furthermore, the study is on college kids. Not the best at relationships anyway, and college is probably the most social time of a person's life, including loner nerds like me. If it weren't for college, I wouldn't be married right now.

The study found drugs and video game usage popular among college-age males. WOW. Big shock there.

Plus, 813 students is not a large test group and it focused on only one demographic. So it's not a reliable study in my opinion.
Haxan's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 01:16
Haxan
Just as an FYI, you shouldn't copy and paste an entire article verbatim from another site. Give us a heads up and provide a link, then summarize it and give us your take. Take a look and the Community Rules. They might help.
Hamza CTZ Aziz's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 01:26
Hamza CTZ Aziz
Yeahhh, don't title this after a themed article either when it has nothing to do with the theme please
Krow-Kupo's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 01:37
Krow-Kupo
@Hamza

I thought that the Monthly Musings were subjective to the person writing them? Regardless, this isn't a very good example of a Monthly Musing. At least she put a summary at the end though.

I disagree with the article, and I hold little regard for scientific studies on such a small scale. Also, you played Banjo Kazooie last and are now my favorite person ever.
RiotMonster's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 02:10
RiotMonster
@Haxan - Thanks for the tip. I did read the Community Rules before posting anything here, though. Either way, apologies for the copypasta. >_>

@Hamza - Fixed. Although, I felt that it related to the topic a bit, I suppose you're right that it does not COMPLETELY reflect the theme.

@Krow - My gamertag is a bit outdated lol.. I haven't signed onto XBL since getting my new apartment.. XD Banjo-Kazooie is still one of my top favorite games though!!
Vongore's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 06:32
Vongore
the only bad thing related to gaming are bad grades. I hace a gf since 4 years and the only thing i do in my life is play some video games. I don't even go to parties
BS3 Owner's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 08:47
BS3 Owner
Games are there to be experienced. It's no different than watching TV. One watches TV not for family time. But because one's favorite show is on. They set a part of the day aside to enjoy their downtime/entertainment...

On almost every show a little one. ( One that knows how to use the TV Remote. ) Could watch a whole host of unsavory shows. ( For their age. ) Like BET or MTV. Who's responsible for these kids... PARENTS & the obedience they instill in the child.

Most of these movies now a days w/ Guns & Violence are PG-13... I know this because I'm watching these trailers on TV. They look pretty gritty or slick or scandalous. ( You know adult themed. ) Then the final screens of the trailer says... "PG-13" WTF!

Music, ALOT of kids these days are listening to RAP. Awful direct slurs to women, their own race & talking about that "Life is hard so Death must be Easy"... WTF... I don't know many mafia membered 13 year olds. Unless you're the Golden Key, you are not supposed to be listening to that. "Oh, my mom let's me DL from iTunes." Your telling me that this is not the cause of our young society's "MINDS".

There is a lot more than a SIMPLE video game... Or time set aside for video games. That are corrupting the kids in the world.

If your an adult you should have the right to choose. ( You live in America. ) If your a kid, Mom & Dad decide for you.
CelicaCrazed's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 08:53
CelicaCrazed
Moderation is the keyword here. But that goes for all things in life as well.
DF's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 09:56
DF
I'm not sure how well it applies in a high school situation, but in my dorm, it was the complete opposite. Hell, when I was without a roommate for most of one semester, my friends were always over gaming with me (or just there when I was doing homework). And gaming has made my dad and myself closer together than ever, since I can play games with him and know what to get him for gifts and junk.

Sure, I don't have 10,000 friends all over the place, but I like having a few friends that I really care about instead of a packed buddy list that I never talk to.
Novakaine's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 10:42
Novakaine
I have a very poor social life, and have never had a girlfriend nor touched a girl.

Of course, something tells me this has more to do with the fact my family moved 18 times in 15 years and I was homeschooled,... ^_~
Hamza CTZ Aziz's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 14:01
Hamza CTZ Aziz
Sorry, let me elaborate: Monthly Musings are supposed to be non-news topics. There can be reference to news of course, but the majority of the topic needs to be completely your own though on the given subject.

Thanks!
Cowboy TTop's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 14:59
Cowboy TTop
Believing this should be taken with some salt. I think gaming is a lot more social than it used to be, and with the advent of the Wii, its kind of exploded everywhere. Splat! Lol.

Four controller are the standard where two used to be, so there's always room for more peoples.

Indeed, like everything fun, moderation is required to keep us on track. I have real friends, then I have Live friends too. I always have time to party and go out to sink a few pints though.

For those who have less friends, new friends can be made, anytime, anywhere. You've got to go out more, to really achieve it though. And you'll always find friends on Dtoid, failing that.
Pizzajam's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 20:40
Pizzajam
I've actually read that families are in greater contact and closer than ever before. That makes sense if you think about it, but critics push the debate the other direction. I'd say the same applies to this situation; it's just part of media evolving.
Artemus's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 20:45
Artemus
It's only a "study"...
And a Brigham Young University study at that...

Rubbish.
Blasphemy.
Malarchy.

*Cough*
Bull shit.
Darksavior's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/23/2009 21:59
Darksavior
I HAVE A AVID GAMER GIRLFRIEND THATS PRETTY AND KICKS ASS IN Left 4 Dead
CblogRecaps's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/24/2009 08:24
CblogRecaps
Shit, I play a lot of games and I'm the least likely person I know to drink and do drugs.

-RonBurgandy2010
Rodlian's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/28/2009 14:30
Rodlian
I tend to agree, for the first time, with BYU. Though certain games do allow for party-like situations, it tends to be mainly anti-social. Then again, so is reading a novel. But which better expands your mind? I side with the latter. Maybe the Mormons don't have it ALL wrong.

http://game.ology.com/2009/01/26/byu-pus-pew-pew/

-Jared J. H. Catapano (ology.com)
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