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Who am I? That's a good question. I'm a 26 year old gamer from Canada who's been playing video games for 22 years - I live and breathe games, and by extension, the industry. When I'm not gaming, reading about gaming or the industry, talking about games with friends or on forums or thinking about them, I enjoy reading, writing, sleeping, music, hockey, or hanging out with my girlfriend, though not necessarily in that order. I've recently finished my BA in linguistics, and I already have a half-BA in journalism that I'll probably never get done, considering I have enough experience to write news stories. Right now, I own a PS2, 360, gaming PC, DS, and PSP, and in the past, I have owned almost every console since the NES, at some point or another. I hope to expand to a PS3 as soon as I can.

I've actually written about the industry before, including an unsuccessful stint with RPGamer in my pre-university days. I was sadly forced to give it up because of a lack of time. I also wrote a gaming editorial column for my university paper, which my editor always wanted to make a "what's a cool game this week" column. Needless to say, they didn't renew me for another semester. Ah well.

I can usually be found playing RPGs or MMORPGs, though recently, I've started playing a lot of games from other genres, including some (incredibly unrealistic) racing games. Although I said I like hockey, I wouldn't be caught dead playing sports games; I just never really liked them.

I suppose if there's anything else you could possibly want to know about me, you can ask, though I can't imagine what you-

Oh, right, I forgot.

Cake or pie?

Definitely cake.

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The Lament of the Female Gamer (as written by a man)
Musai | 11:05 AM on 06.29.2009 15 comments




Well, it's Monday again (unless you live in a timezone where it is in fact, already Tuesday. In which case, I'm sorry.) Today, I'm going to touch on the subject of gender inequality in videogames. I know, some of you might be rolling your eyes already, but please, hear me out.

Somewhere around the time when the home consoles started popping up like a bad cold, it seems like everyone collectively decided that they were best left on the shelf with things like GI Joes and Tonka trucks, while the girls could continue to make cupcakes with their easybake ovens, and play with Barbies. In fact, pretty muich anything considered "nerdy" throughout the 90s was automatically male. Since gaming, in the eyes of the public tended towards antisocial behavior and girls in their childhood are viewed as the "social" gender by their parents, girls doing boy things, like playing games, was not exactly encouraged by the majority. The one thing my female gamer friends have in common is that they were always seen as the "tomboy" by everyone, directly because of their interests in gaming, and many still carry this label today.

It's no surprise, then, that many girls and women keep the fact they're gamers under wraps because they're often treated like some sort of mythical beasts. Take for example MMORPGS, viewed my many as having a playerbase that's predominantly male. In reality, it's nearly impossible to tell. Many females will simply conceal their gender by playing male characters, and denying that they are male. It just works out to be easier that way, unfortunately.

So, what causes our collective views regarding female gamers, and what causes the attitude that most people have towards them? Marketing, for certain. I think that the way the industry markets to girls and women is fundamentally flawed, no matter the company or the platform. The market is saturated with crappy games, stuffed to the brim with pink, frilly things, and stupid names that somehow see it fit to replace "s" with "z" at the end of words. (Imagine:Petz, anyone?) The fact that anyone plays these is somewhat disturbing, but even more disturbing: this marketing trend actually shapes our attitudes towards female gamers. Given what was said at E3 about "Tween girl gaming" being on the rise, people think that this is what female gamers actually play, and then they grow out of the phase and do "adult" things, or something. Clearly, no one thinks that it's remotely possible that some women enjoy similar gameplay experiences to men. The fact is that male gamers don't help matters. Many guys I know tend to put female gaming up on a pedistal, and will be drawn to women who identify as gamers like moths to a flame. Now, this isn't true of all guys, but it's true of enough for women to just keep quiet about their hobby. So it's possible that we don't even know how many women actually play games. Hopefully, people will stop buying "tween girl" games, and we can put the stereotype to rest. Until then, well, you can expect "Imagine: Self Ezteemz Girl Powa! OMG!" out this fall.

No, not really. At least, I hope not.



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Bulkmailer's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 11:25
Bulkmailer
Those first 3 sentences made my hangover worse.
Bulkmailer's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 11:37
Bulkmailer
And I just had McDonald's, not a good idea.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 11:54
Elsa
Yeah, the marketing is definitely flawed... I remember the whole fiasco of the PSP marketing with the "picking up chicks" dustballs, the Romeo and Juliet finger puppets where Romeo ends up telling Juliet to go away, he's playing video games... the football squirrels and their sexist comments... all of those ad campaigns were unbelievably "girls don't game" and made me actually embarrassed to own a PSP (oh wow... I can feel the anger boiling up all over again! LOL)

They then switched up the marketing campaign when they brought out the white PSP... and had those two half naked women (one black, one white) wrestling in sexy poses.

... they then had the absolute nerve to release a pink PSP... "for girls". UGH!

I remember wondering if the pink PSP came with Barbie stickers... because Sony doesn't realize it, but there's a new Barbie out there... she's called Gamer Barbie and she divorced Ken, took his house, his car and his boat, and she's dating GI Joe now... who gave her a Nintendo DS.

I don't care if stuff is marketed "for" women... but they could try not actually offending women in their marketing.
Musai's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 13:15
Musai
@Elsa: I don't think that'll happen anytime soon. I mean, look at the advertising for just about anything, and look at how the media views gamers in general.
Aurain's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 14:05
Aurain
Making an advert with the intent of offending women and Women being offended are two entirely different things.

Most of time when someone is offended, they're offended because they think they should be.

And for every "Sexist" ad, there are at least 10 gender-neutral ones.

The Minority is making the Majority look bad.
D Sane's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 14:12
D Sane
Any time I've been in social settings, you can always tell the girls who grew up with brothers who were into gaming from the ones who didn't. The topic among my male friends and I will shift to video games and the girls who didn't have it as part of their childhood immediately tune out or talk about something else with the other girls there. The ones that did grow up with gaming in the house are always pretty interested in the conversation.

Another thing I've noticed is that it seems like there are some girls out there who want to be considered gamer girls so they'll learn about things in gaming and say things like "oh yeah, i totally pwned a dude in call of duty the other night". They'll inevitably be challenged by a gamer dude (because what gamer dude can resist challenging some one to their favorite game?) and they'll immediately have their asses handed to them. Now, admittedly, I don't know any gamer girls who can actually represent the way me and my gamer dude friends can. Maybe they're all in hiding.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 14:44
Elsa
@DSane... there is an odd dichotomy with female gamers... a guy can say he "totally pwned some dude" and guys will all relate their own stories... when a girl says it, it's like she's lying and has to "prove it" or something. If we do poorly in a game (down at the bottom of the list with other guys) we obviously "play like a girl"... if we do well, then we're "girl gamers". Why can't we just be "gamers". Why do we have to "prove" that we're gamers? I'm sure there is some gamer out there that could hand your friend's ass to him... does that mean your friend is a fake?
JamnOnTheOne's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 15:14
JamnOnTheOne
"So, what caused our collective views regarding female gamers, and what causes the attitude that most people have towards them?"

Pretty simple answer. The fact that sports (traditional and non-traditional) have always been segregated.
4knuckleshuffle's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 20:26
4knuckleshuffle
FEMALE GAMERS DO NOT EXIST.
Musai's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 20:29
Musai
@Elsa: Exactly. Why can't we just be gender-neutral, why is there a need to identify female gamers as a group?

@Everyone: Sorry for the few typos that snuck their way in.
Joanna Mueller's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 21:34
Joanna Mueller
There are some games out there that, if it were possible, would literally make my eyes roll back behind my head, mostly the ones that are marketed to that "tween girl" market you mentioned.

We'd all like to think that gender equality has made progress over the years, but this is no different then boys having "action figures" while girls are given "dolls". Clearly girls need to be spoon fed the watered down safe version of whatever the hip toy of choice is and any who don't and just wanna play with the guy equivalent are tomboys, aka not really girls.
CWal37's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/29/2009 21:39
CWal37
@D Sane

I have 5 younger siblings, only one of them is a girl. She has grown up around games, and she hates them.
Chocobo Knight's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/30/2009 00:26
Chocobo Knight
I worry more about the effect this will have on this new generation of gamers. Marketing this 'tween girl' crap is only widening the divide - why does a divide need to exist? Every time I go game hunting, it makes me cringe inwardly upon merely glimpsing their existence. It only worsens if I see someone purchasing one of these titles. What is this going to teach our up and coming generation?

Perhaps I can't honestly understand as I was that tomboyish sort and what regular girls might consider fun is just pointless to me?
Faith's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/30/2009 01:17
Faith
Do you know why game companies market badly to female gamers now? Because female gamers started complaining that game companies didn't market to them or create games specifically for them. See what you did! Now we get dumb games like Imagine Babyz and Hell's Kitchen: the Game.

I remember when girls played videogames because they were fun, not because they empowered our feminist movement or some bull. Gaming shouldn't have to include messages about women's lib for a woman to be happy to play it. I grew up playing Mario and I think I turned out pretty good, so why does this generation need a series of games that empowers them as females?

There is no such thing as a female specific videogames anyway because I know men that loved Cooking Mama. Why demand a genre of games now, if we didn't need them to get us into games in the first place?

Also I agree that there are idiots online that treat women gamers like crap, but there are idiots online that treat everyone like crap. My bf is a 30-year-old straight white male and he gets douchebags calling him names online.
You ignore them and get on with your game.

That is all I have to say on that.
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