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Hellos to all strangers who have clicked on to my blog! Name is Jade,like everyone else on Destructoid I love video games, also anime too. My taste in video games varies, I love RPGs,adventure,platformers,RTS and some fighting games. My favorite game of all time is Okami.I would also like to see Threads of Fate 2 made and even Klonoa games, since I had some good memories with those games.Well if you wanna know more about me don't be afraid to ask ^_^!

What else...OH I live in NYC however...I hate living in Queens, but I still love Brooklyn the BEST :D! I was born on July 4th and I've been a gamer since 1994 thanks to my brother <3!I'm currently studying to become a preschool teacher too. Personally there is something about video games I just really love about and I kind of see it like going inside a interactive book that you're playing.

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Valkyria Chronicles
Mario&Luigi RPG 3
Assassin's Creed 1

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MellowBunny | 7:03 PM on 11.14.2009 28 comments


Going into the so called "real world" I have experienced a lot of things up till now and experiencing little by little of the adult world. When I started in going to my local community college I didn't really know what I wanted to do or how I should go about choosing a career for the rest of my life. So one summer during my 3rd semester I tried work study program and got a chance to work with children. I loved it and soon after changed my major.

Now after taking three Early Childhood Education classes I've come to experience a lot about being a teacher. From this I've experienced ignorance as well. One time a teacher at the first day care I worked at saw me playing my DS and said to me "I didn't know you were THAT much of a child that you would be playing video games still at this age." Those words kind of got to me since I got into Early Childhood. It's statements like that make me not say I love playing video games.

I didn't think liking video games made me less of a teacher and I also didn't know personal hobbies of a teacher even mattered. I know they don't, but maybe to some people they do. I love video games and at times whenever I meet someone older than me I'm hesitant to say what my interests are. Worried that they may not take me seriously as a adult. This even happens with my aunt's friends. I say I'm into video games and want to teach small children, then I kind of see the gears in their heads turn trying to understand why I like both. I remember one time I over heard one of my aunt's friends saying "she seems kind of the weird type, never heard of someone liking video games at that age. Do you think she is serious enough to teach children?". Well that person was a bitch anyways and my aunt didn't really like her saying things about me like that.

I don't understand why video games seems like a lesser hobby than anything else someone is into doing. Well I feel like I'm going on to little rant, not what I wanted to go about writing, but whatever I guess. I think after writing this I've come to conclusion why I wanted to get into Early Childhood. I like being around people who are as childish as me. Hell, I even remember a kid at the day care I was working at being shocked that a teacher played video games. He was like "Mario Galaxy is really hard, even underwater. Do you know how to beat that level". Very cute hearing that from a five year old!

Even at twenty years old and in college I still don't feel like an adult yet. Maybe it's the fact that I don't live on my own yet and still watch The Power Puff Girls time to time, but whatever I reason I'm still going to play video games till I'm in my 70s.

And if you read all of this you deserve a cookie!



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Handy's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/14/2009 21:03
Handy
I know what you mean, I still don’t tell people I play games until they know me fairly well. It’s like there’s a stigma attached to being a gamer where people assume you’re childish or a loser or hyper aggressive or something.

Now where’s my cookie?
phantomile's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/14/2009 21:26
phantomile
People are idiots.

I also plan on going into teaching and I play plenty of video games.
The only reason the last generation thinks that games are for children is because they didn't exist until somewhat recently.

Trust me, it'll become much more common soon enough; just know that you've experienced some incredible stories and pieces of artwork that all of those people will always be too close-minded to ever see.
MellowBunny's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/14/2009 21:44
MellowBunny
@Phantomile

Very true and wise out look. However I do hope that everyone experiences what video games truly are.
grafkhun's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/14/2009 22:27
grafkhun
I don't say I play games unless someone asks me specifically. But if they ask me what I'm into and what my hobbies are I usually make something up like burning the corpses of dead kittens or something, but I really do that anyways, so I am telling the truth. Also, good luck in teaching!
Joanna Mueller's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/14/2009 23:01
Joanna Mueller
Claiming my cookie.

Also, give it a few years, video games are really starting to come into their own and to be considered more mainstream and accessible to a more casual market. I'm sure if you sat any of those people who mocked you down in front of Bejeweled they'd be busy for hours.
SaintRising's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/14/2009 23:03
SaintRising
I once had a math teacher who could kick my ass at Star Wars Battlefront 2. He was a really cool guy.

My current art teacher and I discuss video games regularly, too. It's cool having teachers that share hobbies.
braulio09's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 00:30
braulio09
haha this made me smile :)
Straiffi's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 00:58
Straiffi
I'm the same age as you, live on my own apartment and go to work. I can tell that doesn't magically turn you into any more "adult" than you already are :p

My whole living room is pretty much dedicated to video games, and I can freely tell people about my hobby without them looking at me funny. Maybe there's some cultural difference going on here between EU and US, because here it seems to be widely accepted already.
HammerShark's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 03:08
HammerShark
I also 20. Still game, watch cartoons (I really like Chowder and still enjoy Ren&Stimpy) etc. People who think a lot of things are childish just make it harder on themselves to connect with others. When you're on the clock you do your job, but when you're off, you're off.

Now I go gets a cookie then nap cause this is "me time/R&R".
Wintersocks's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 04:57
Wintersocks
People can be very annoying. The fact that games are marketed to Kids means, in their dream logic, that games are exclusively for kids and stupid people.
Getting into a discussion with my son about Star Wars: TFU is a lot of fun :)

Once a man in a train spat at me because I was playing a "Killer Game" (yes, apparently Prinny is a game where you kill innocent programs OH NOES). So I responded: "Sir, I am playing as a zombie-Penguin. Do you think that this will inspire children to kill their parents *shows screen*?"
"Um...Videogames...uh their sooo childish, you should be ashamed."
"I would rather have fun and be stupid than be bored out of my brilliant mind."

The man left, and the kid next to me said: "Dude, you owned him!"
Infinitestrike's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 05:16
Infinitestrike
Well I've just started my first year at Uni and I still don't feel like an adult yet either. It's surprising the number of people who still think that gaming is for children ( I guess it is this very thought that makes violent scenes in games so controversial- people don't realise adults play as well.)
mourning orange's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 06:56
mourning orange
I'm almost 30 and I play video games every day. Mothafuckas
m3talst0rm's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 07:48
m3talst0rm
I'd like to say that it gets better after you make it into the "real world," but, in my experience, it doesn't. I'm a High School Language Arts teacher and, in all honesty, have nothing in common with my colleagues. Though some are older and there is an obvious generation gap, those that are my age (where I work)are sports fanatics and have no interest in video games. I am waiting for the day that I can add a fellow teacher to my XBL friends list and play MW2, Halo, or *GASP* Culdcept Saga.

On the other hand, it helps to build rapport with students when you know what hot new game they're talking about, or, when modeling presentations or the like, you bring video games into the presentation.

Good luck and don't let the "adults" bring you down.
Tron's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 08:24
Tron
Being 23, I have cast aside some things I liked in my childhood, but because I lost interest in them, not because I was "supposed to stop liking them". Cartoon Network is too bright and colorful and loud, and it hurts my old senior citizen eyes.

Games aren't really games anymore. its a medium for entertainment no different than movies TV or music. You don't hear people say "you still watch movies? aren't you a little old for that?"

The only difference between my and mellowbunny's experiences is that while she's ridiculed, its almost a given for me. I look like a Bro, and Bros are expected to like Exobx, Halo, Madden, etc.

also, I'm scary looking. it could be that too.
bakasama's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 09:10
bakasama
My friends and I are all approaching our 30s, and we all more or less "still" play video games. I wouldn't worry about it, just hide your power level better!
stevenjazz787's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 09:47
stevenjazz787
It's funny because I find adult hobbies to be much more annoying than gaming (especially if you wear headphones).

Scrapbooking - You cut out frilly things, glue on sparkles, and I've notice a good amount of expensive construction paper. Then force your closes friends and family to use lies about how good it is to validate your "hard work"

Knitting - It's cheaper to buy a sweater/blanket and the one you bought usually isn't ugly and it's always made much better.

Hunting - Go out with your closest friend, drink beer and hope you don't shoot each other.

Fishing - Go out with your closest friend, drink beer and sit... and sit... and sit... Like knitting, buying fish is cheaper.

The list goes on and on.
Xhumation's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 09:49
Xhumation
I'm a teacher as well and sadly I know how you feel.

The problem is that in the job market you have to deal with people with very outdated ideas and morals that...on top of that are very judgmental and think that every person should walk the same path in life as they did.

Stand tall, be brave and show the world who you are.
KIHP's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 10:11
KIHP
if you can fulfill all your responsibilities, live life normally, and have fun then you are perfectly fine. In education you are going to be around older people and be under scrutiny. They can't fully understand why people like those things but think about it how happy are these people that care about what seems mature and don't try out or accept new things? Also how much would you have given for a teacher who was a gamer or just relevant at all? I think you will do fine.
Justin Villasenor's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 11:42
Justin Villasenor
"I didn't know you were THAT much of a child that you would be playing video games still at this age."

Clearly she had no idea that the average age for a videogame player in this country is 33ish years old. So if anything, playing them makes you seem more mature.
AlienGuy18's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 12:18
AlienGuy18
There are plenty of young, videogame playing, social-network using hip teachers in my High School. Guess I'm just lucky.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 13:09
Elsa
Things are gradually changing as marketing starts to show ads with adults playing games (instead of just kids)... additionally the Wii and DS are often marketed to older adults for both "brain training" and exercise type games. As gamers are aging and having kids of their own, they are more knowledgeable about the hobby of gaming.

... in a few years, talking about a new game release will likely be no different than talking about a new movie that is out. :)
CelicaCrazed's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 14:24
CelicaCrazed
Some days I feel like everyone is growing up around me and I'm remaining that same old kid who isn't, though it's never really due to video games. Actually lately I am finding that a lot more people are admitting that they like and play video games, the types of people that I really wouldn't expect to play in the first place. It's really kind of weird.

Oh well, just give it time and enjoy doing what you like to do. It's harder than it sounds but you'll be fine in the end.
Sharpless's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/15/2009 17:19
Sharpless
There used to be another young lady on here who was a teacher. I'm not sure what happened to her. (Could it possibly be this thing called "Getting a life" that I've heard so much about?) I quite liked her. Anyway, you're definitely not alone.

Also, I'm 26 and I don't feel like an adult yet. It happens.
The Prodigal Son's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/16/2009 20:13
The Prodigal Son
@MellowBunny:: Seriously, ignore those people. Just give it another 20 years. All the haters will start to die off.
gains's Avatar - Comment posted on 11/21/2009 00:12
gains
Most of my friends are teachers. In fact, I had a dinner party tonight and my wife was the only non-teacher at the table. Generally, we keep our students from knowing that we're gamers, not because it would affect our relationship with them, but because the parents of all schoolchildren are eager for some way to make an authority figure suffer.

We keep a tight control on cameras at our parties. One photo of the 3rd grade teacher with a beer in her hand online could start a witch hunt. Maybe it's because we're teaching in largely upper-class up-tight districts, but most of us are deathly afraid that someone's bible thumpin' mom will recognize one of our names from the list of playtesters on a popular tabletop RPG and our satanic ways will be revealed.

Teachers aren't allowed to publicly have lives, let alone unusual hobbies because we're under constant scrutiny from people who've been trained by the news to believe that we're pedophiles, socialists, homosexuals, or loaded and ripe for the suing.
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