I'm a goof....some of my friends say I'm pretty cool.
I love games, gaming, the industry and everything involved. From what makes them work, the experience, and the history behind it all. I love it more than you can fathom, and it honestly, truly runs deeper than any petty system allegiance, fanboyism, or bias.
I also love to write about them. Call me a journalist.
I've been around Destructoid since it started, witnessed every stage of their evolution with pride and admiration, but unfortunately, I've been more of a lurker than anything else. I visit every few hours and have felt the urge to comment and yell for a while, but after that MASSIVE password change we had a while back, my computer stopped logging me in automatically and a few computer changes/crashes+laziness kept me from logging back in for a LONG time.
I still love you guys. All of ya. Even the ones I haven't met yet.
I had a woman walk into my store the other day, talking about how much she hated the fact that her son played videogames. Ironically enough, she was trying to buy her son a Wii at the moment, so I said nothing to her. She did however, make an offhanded comment about how "terrible" she thought GameStop employees were because they played games. When I told her I played games just as they did, she looked at me like I was crazy, and I guess in her warped mind, she took my comment in the past tense, because she said to me "But you're here! You got out! Look at you, you're smiling, vibrant, nothing like..THEM."
I shut my mouth. Didn't say a word. I wonder why she thinks like this. Is there some sort of unwritten rule that states that all gamers have to be sunlight depraved, anti-social, violent, moronic shut-ins with no dreams or aspirations beyond "reaching the next level"?
Could it be because when she turns on her television, she sees nonsense like this?
I don't get this, it's stupid. Why are games portrayed like this 9 times out of 10 in the media? It's no wonder people think we're nuts. Or that it's a brainless, colossal waste of time with no substantial value. Tell me something, when was the last time you played a game, and were spazzing out all over your controller as much as this guy? It's silly.
I suppose, one could argue, that the actual sight of someone who is actually playing a game isn't very exciting unless you can see the screen, but this can be easily circumvented by NOT HAVING YOUR CHARACTERS PLAYING GAMES IN THE FIRST PLACE. If you're not going to portray it right, then why do it at all?
Problem solved.
I cringe every single time I see a primary or supporting character in a movie playing a game like an idiot while Atari-level sound effects bloop out of the TV. The only thing it shows me is that the medium STILL isn't any closer to having the respect it deesrves, and that ignorant writers are continuing to lampoon a culture they know nothing about while simultaneously perpetuating the "gamer" stereotype. You know, the ones that parents like the customer above are so fond of making a reference to when trying to dissuade the children from their hobbies.
It's no wonder this show is getting slaughtered by reviewers and the public alike. I mean, what better way to show a lack of creativity: "Hey, we have a pathetic character, let's sit him in front of Halo!" Great job. Between this, and every other network on TV doing the same thing, it looks like we'll have a ways to go before this trend has any hope of dying.
I just hope it's known. These people, and everyone like them, while they're sitting there in their brainstorming sessions, yucking it up amongst their colleagues, they've only proven one thing; that they are just as immature as the image they're attempting to typecast and stereotype onto us.
It's a strange idea people have about gamers. My mother-in-law doesn't think anything of the fact that she will spend five hours watching horrible sitcoms, yet if I spend an hour playing a game I'm a piece of shit.
Maybe you could explain to her that some people are destined to be vacant, socially maladjusted turds, and that it's better that her son get what little enjoyment he can squeeze out of his miserable existence than to suffer an agonizing lifetime of loneliness.
Then ask her if there's any way she could have been a better mother.
My big problem is that when I read shit like this, and back it like the great, wonderful gamer I am, I can't help but think of an emo kid whining that he's not really like that, he just likes to wear black and listen to My Chemical Romance.
It isn't so much about knowing dumb people, my circle of friends and many I've met otherwise defy this common logic.
It's that this is the GENERAL perception of gamers as a whole. If you don't believe me, watch some television. Or watch Stay Alive. As terrible as that movie was, it didn't hesitate to paint the exact picture of us that I loathe so much.
@ Phil
I think the difference would be....emo/scene is fashionable, becoming MORE prevalent than it really needs to be, and despite naysayers, remains a COOL thing to be in the public eye.
Gamers don't have that luxury. We spend half the time praising and enjoying our medium, and the other half defending it and trying to prove it's relevance. Being a gamer isn't "cool".
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She's a crazy old twat.
also that shit is kwazeh!
That fucks my shit right up.
Then ask her if there's any way she could have been a better mother.
except all the youngins will think we suck... ugh the endless cycle continues
My big problem is that when I read shit like this, and back it like the great, wonderful gamer I am, I can't help but think of an emo kid whining that he's not really like that, he just likes to wear black and listen to My Chemical Romance.
Tell me the fucking difference.
It isn't so much about knowing dumb people, my circle of friends and many I've met otherwise defy this common logic.
It's that this is the GENERAL perception of gamers as a whole. If you don't believe me, watch some television. Or watch Stay Alive. As terrible as that movie was, it didn't hesitate to paint the exact picture of us that I loathe so much.
@ Phil
I think the difference would be....emo/scene is fashionable, becoming MORE prevalent than it really needs to be, and despite naysayers, remains a COOL thing to be in the public eye.
Gamers don't have that luxury. We spend half the time praising and enjoying our medium, and the other half defending it and trying to prove it's relevance. Being a gamer isn't "cool".