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I don't know what it is about the internet that makes people show their alpha-base nature. I guess it has to do with the shell of anonymity that encapsulates us all when going online, a shield made of fake names and pictures that represent some sort of aspiration or side of your real self. It allows us to reveal our most honest nature unabashedly, without fear of repercussion or consequence because, well, who's going to be able to do anything about it? It's not like they know your real name, it's not like they know where you live right down to the mailbox and two lopsided trees in the front yard. Why would someone be afraid of something that can't touch them, and if that is the case, why would they not act like an incorrigible asshat, especially if it's more "fun" that way? This principle, I've found, is no more prevalent and pervasive than in online services on videogame consoles. I seem to find some good folks every once in awhile, and they're not that few and far between in the grander scheme of things. However, just like bad experiences in a restaurant, the repulsives seem to stick in the mind far more than the decent examples of humanity online, whether it's on Live or PSN. It's not like everyone's a rampaging tan/laundry/douche fanatic with a thick northeastern accent talking about "how many sisters have you fucked, you dumb redneck," but experiences like that really ruin the flavor of the entire soup, you know? It's not like I don't talk smack online, but I do try to keep it somewhat civil - there's a not-too-fine-line that you can tread that straddles "saint" and "Satan." You can be a bit of a jerk and still have fun with it. But that line, just like all other lines, can be and most definitely will be crossed anywhere along the way. When that line is crossed, it's a sad look at how many of the population put that attitude out there into the world so willingly and without remorse or even consideration for who may be on the other side of things. Sure, I'm a southern-born-and-bred American man, but rest assured I'm no "dumb redneck." I'm a fairly articulate 27-year-old Floridian with an IQ hovering around the 170 mark, and that's not a horn I go around blowing at full volume. That's something I largely keep to myself, because I think that one's true character has a tendency to speak for itself without much provocation. This is no less true for the unsavory characters on the planet I may come into contact with, because from their actions, whether physical or auditory, they give away what they're made of inside. It's the little tells - like conversations that can't go 6.37 seconds without dropping the word "fuck" in order to express themselves, that make these avatars of the "lowest common denominator" club as easy to spot as a yellow elephant in a daycare playground. That's not to say that I'm not a fan of dropping the f-bomb, as that word gets a lot of respect from me for being the most utilitarian phrase in the entirety of the English language. But there comes a time where you have to put that aside, and actually pick up a book or two, maybe you'll even learn something about expressing yourself as something that's not a caricature of the culture that spawned you. MTV spend a hell of a lot of money doing a good enough job of that already, and here these dudes (and I use the term lightly) seem willing to do that job for the low, low cost of free. I never thought I'd do this, but I have to quote a comedian loved by "dumb rednecks" the world over. "You just can't fix stupid." - Ron White And that, as they say, is that. You could choose to beat them, or join them. Joining them in creatine-fueled hostility would be really easy to do...but kicking the ever-eternal soulshit out of all of those pricks for daring to waste the air that I breathe with their incessant prattling was so much more satisfying. I hope you guys are reading this...but the likelihood of that is pretty slim. You'd have to learn how to read first, fuckwits. Oh, and Dr. Honda says hello. Bitches. >XoD - EL
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For the most part, I just try not to let it get to me. Why let one guy ruin an entire evening of gaming... where another really sweet guy took the time to share his knowledge and showed me a trick to getting our spawn APC down into the railroad tracks and right next to SVER's Anti-Air? He's the guy I should be remembering from last night.
@Elsa
Fun times. Also, you need to show me that trick, I wasn't there when it happened and that makes taking down the AA much easier, which can give a huge advantage.
You really can't fix it. Sometimes the best thing to do is just let them talk. No need to respond; silence is golden. Taking off your headset and deliviring a beating is a good change of pace. And the mute button is nice, too.
Whooping seems to piss people off, and it doesn't force you to say things you don't want to.
Anyway, it's like FK; it never fails. This experience will always exist. I'm sure you know this. I know you're a SF guy. You just can't let it get to you, because this game has and always will make people SALTY. Let your hundred hands speak.
The cruelty of the world isn't something that we should take personally. It's just how things work. Granted, life would be easier if our teachers were gentle and kind...but then again, if they had been gentle and kind, they wouldn't have survived long enough to teach us.
Guys being assholes to each other is pretty much the closest thing we have to the love of God. Oh, and btw, your blog sucks.
Bro.
;P
I like to keep quiet when online. Communications usually take the form of enemy locations, strategic suggestions, and communicating my location and intent. I don't go online to talk about how my day was, what's happening in my personal life, or how much I hate my boss/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/parents. I'm there to play. If I wanted to talk, I'd make a phone call.
I also hate "smacktalk". I find that participation in it is distracting, and detrimental in most games. It activates/engages strong emotions, which can interfere with critical thinking, leading to stupid mistakes and failure. I find that I have a much higher success rate when I remain calm and objective.
@ Enkido
I know, right? It's not like I live in a log cabin in the mountains, disconnected from all civilization save for an HDTV, a 360 and an internet connection.
@ AlphaDeus
You're correct - "right" and "wrong" are usually very subjective concepts. But it still doesn't change the fact that I'm clearly better than them and treated them with due deference and respect well in advance of them opening the douchey floodgates. The problem lies in my level of expectation - I expect to be treated the way I treat others, but the Golden Rule doesn't apply or count for much today, it seems. I found it more amusing than upsetting anyway.
@ Smurfee
Yeah, and I did just that. It was all I ever expected it could be.
@ Sir Legendhead
Truth spoken and recieved. Oh, and btw, your blog is nonexistent. Broski. :op
@ Blindfire
I think that's a Thomas Paine quote. Got that handed to me since I was a wee lad. I tend to stay objective against randoms rather than friends, because I talk about all kinds of crazy shit with the folks I know, while a random player is just another number to add to the list of the fallen. It's like comparing a girlfriend to a hookup - you talk about your feelings, hopes, fears, doubts and such to someone you've got a personal emotional investment in, but a hookup is there to serve a basic purpose, nothing more. And nobody I ever heard of stuck around a hookup when she started talking back to them with an attitude overdose.
Thanks for the discussion, all. It's very appreciated.
I don't write important stuff for free. I'm kind of an asshole that way.
They rarely open their mouths without subtracting from the total sum of human intelligence.
I did, however, manage to create a perpetually exploding personnel carrier in the Forge. That was pretty much the most fun I had with the whole game, tbh.
And as far as me being an archetype...is this the card you're thinking of?
lol :p
/self-reference within denial of secondary username
Really, I only have one username. I don't have time to manage two identities.
The worst part is that they're almost always better at the game than I am, since I tend to avoid playing with strangers. So I can't even console myself with "Well, they're just angry that I just scored 50 gillion goal xp points."