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meh... I think I'll just keep changing my sidebar until I find something I'm happy with.

slightly relevant stuff... I'm old (49), I'm female, I'm happily married.

more relevant stuff... I like online FPS games, I like to play online with other Dtoid members. I'm primarily a PS3 gamer but you can occasionally find me on Xbox (though I don't currently have gold, but expect to get it again around Christmas).


PSN: Elsa
XBL: Elssa62
Playstation Gamer Advisory Panel Member (GAP)

Currently Playing:
PS3:
Two Worlds 2
Uncharted 2 and 3
MAG (mostly Raven, though I have a SVER alt)
... and occasionally Warhawk, UT3, Resistance 2 co-op or Killzone 2!

Xbox:
Halo Reach.
Left 4 Dead 2
Divinity 2: Dragon Knight Saga


Recent Favorites:
WARHAWK!!
UT3
Portal 1&2
Sacred 2
Bioshock series
Oblivion
Fallout series
Dragon Age: Origins
Resistance series
Killzone 2
Left 4 Dead 2

Can't wait for:
STARHAWK!!!
Skyrim!





Some blogs I wrote that I like:
Girls with Guns
Guess the Gender
A Girl's Guide to FPS Gaming
Me and My Chainmail Bikini...
Adopt a Troll!
Fanboy Wars - the game!

Promoted C-Blogs:
Undies and a Knife
He dumped me! That Bastard!
Love/Hate: Being a Girl Gamer
The Future: The Year is 2029
My Expertise: Leader of Men
The Great Escape: From Physical Pain
More than Just Noise: Boom Headshot!
2010 Sucked: Game Addiction Issues
Technical Difficulties: He teabagged me!

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One day in the future... you will be old.
Elsa | 12:21 PM on 02.05.2010 35 comments




Getting older is nothing to fear... in fact it can be something to celebrate because with the right decisions and an early retirement it can mean the most valuable gift life has to offer - time. Time to do what you want, when you want. I'm only 47 but I retired from my career in the Human Resources field several years ago. My husband is 52 and has been home for the past couple of months on a short leave from his job, but he too will be retiring in a couple of years when he's around 55. We made early decisions in life that meant used cars instead of new, paying off our starter house instead of buying a larger more prestigious home when we could afford it, and sinking money into our retirement savings instead of taking expensive vacations.

Recently, we seem to be spending a LOT of time gaming... especially since MAG came out. It's been an interesting look at what our full retirement will be like when we're both at home all day. God bless Clockwork, Nexus, Dan and others who have gamed with us recently... because it must be difficult listening to a husband and wife squabble and disagree on open mic during games! We both tend to be a bit chatty... and with the amount of gaming we've been doing recently it's escalated into a running commentary especially in a game that relies so much on strategic "discussion". We find ourselves playing in the afternoon and having animated discussions about the game while doing other things around the house. It's been fun though, and I suspect that once my husband retires from work it will be the same, and gaming will be an obsessive hobby for us, but that's not necessarily a bad thing.

5 reasons why gaming is a great retirement hobby:

1. It's cheaper than golf and you can play in any type of weather. Overall, gaming isn't an expensive retirement hobby. We both tend to enjoy online play and can get hundreds of hours of play from the cost of an online game. We'll have the time to game... and to get pretty good at it. Good enough to at least stay competitive with those 14 year olds with their good eyesight and fast reflexes. We may not have youth on our side... but we'll have determination and more importantly - time.



2. It's social and instead of yelling at each other, we get to yell at other people. We meet new people constantly, from all over the world. We get to learn swear words in new languages! There are regular friends that we can look forward to gaming with and talking with. It's better than going down to the senior's social center to discuss our retirement investment portfolio or various ailments with the other older folks.

3. It keeps the mind active. There are so many different types of games to play. With the Wii and upcoming motion controlled games for the PS3 and Xbox... we can even get a bit of physical exercise while gaming.

4. Unlike TV, we don't have to remember what happened last week (or in the case of most TV series... several months ago before the ubiquitously long breaks before the series resumes). In fact should dementia or alzheimers set in.... old games will seem like a brand new experience!

5. No Viagra needed. Yes, you can have hot group sex with a witch and an elf... or sex with an androgynous blue alien - drugs optional! We're not at that stage yet... but it's good to know it'll be there!




Now as gamers start to age, it's only natural that we can be afflicted with things like poor eyesight, bad hearing and other impairments that can actually afflict people at any age. Can gaming do anything for their aging fans? Yes, I believe that some simple things done with games can make all the difference.

* Gaming for the blind.
Audio cues could be used in some games. Games like Guitar Hero or the upcoming Heavy Rain could be playable by the blind with some simple additions. For Guitar Hero, why not use a distinct audio cue for each of the colors. This would allow someone with bad eyesight or no eyesight, to play the game based on varying tones that overlay the music. Stevie Wonder (who made a remark at the VGA awards about making games for him) would be pleased.
For Heavy Rain or games of this type, why not add an audio description of events taking place and for options that allow for either vocal input or QTE choices (though obviously the "quick" part of "quick time event" would have to slow down a bit). These options could simply be a "mode" for the visually impaired and needn't impact on the game at all for those that don't need these options. I do think that we will eventually be able to navigate the menus of the console via vocal commands... and this too would enable the sight-impaired. Singstar already has this technology and in fact Singstar is a very accessible game with vocal commands and the scoring plays an audio cue so you know how you did on the game. A vocal confirmation of your exact score would be all that would be needed to make the game entirely accessible for the blind.

* Gaming for the deaf or hard of hearing.
Bring back the option for subtitles for all games. Make the font scaleable for those wearing bifocals. A simple solution most games could quite easily incorporate.

* Gaming for the physically disabled.
Yes, arthritis and other physical impairments can afflict older people and one simple solution is to have all games allow for customized controls. A stroke can often leave someone with a weak hand that is not as responsive and the simple ability to put key functions to say the left hand and Dpad could make all the difference in being able to play a game.


Gaming can be a life-long hobby and can become increasingly important when we have time on our hands and not as much social interaction through necessities such as work. Many of you are at ages where you're in school, working at a career or starting a family - the busy stages of life. Later on in life is a time when you will likely have the time and money to do what you want - your retirement years. I'm surprised that more of the gaming industry doesn't reach out to this growing segment of the population with both the time and money to spend on the hobby. Nintendo has successfully marketed to this demographic with a lot of success, but I guess for the most part those in the gaming industry are happy to simply wait until that large demographic of 18-35 year olds age... and continue gaming into their retirement years.



... but my husband and I will be there among the first. By the time you retire at 55 or 65, we may well be in our 80's or 90's, and we'll still be gaming!



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beverlynoelle's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 12:39
beverlynoelle
I particularly enjoyed "Resistance: Fall of Man and he can't get back up again." :D

My vision is already that of an old lady, a problem which is compounded by the fact that I don't have an HDTV to view Xbox games' increasingly-smaler text on...! Maybe somewhere, a developer is reading your blog and will take your ideas into account...
Occams electric toothbrush's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 12:51
Occams electric toothbrush
What a lovely article. Should (another) documentary be made about gaming, you and your husband should be in it. Talk about a mature voice in gaming!
Tubatic's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:08
Tubatic
My dad is retired and aside from a steady rotation of Netflix discs, he's been digging into gaming, like he and mom always have. At the spry age of 70ish, he's considering getting a PS3 to play Final Fantasy XIII, and was very interested when I described Valkyria Chronicles to him.

I'm also planning on scoring a DS XL for both my parents, as they're huge Dragon Quest (Warrior) fans.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:18
Elsa
@Beverly... yeah, the "accessibility" stuff would be suited to not just ageing folk, but also many young people as well! A lot of that stuff is so easy, I just don't understand why it isn't more common (particularly scalable fonts and customized controls!)

@Occams.. yeah, this taste of both of us being retired has been fun - and I'm glad you said "mature" and not "old" LOL!

@Tubabtic... that is AWESOME! Yeah, my mom is almost 70 and I got her a DS for Christmas and she is really liking it but finds the text a bit small. I think I too might get her a DS XL when they come out (and "inherit" her old DS). Your Dad should definitely get a PS3! The two games he's interested in would give him lots of hours of fun... and lots of strategic thinking. That's something I miss a bit about the work force - working on a problem.
Kraid's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:28
Kraid
The closest thing I ever came to make my Dad play videogames was a match of Age of Empires 2 8 years ago ....He's retired last year after 37 years and I don't think I'll see him borrow my consoles anytime soon :P

Great Blog!

I can't wait to be old!
pedrovay2003's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:31
pedrovay2003
The first point is exactly what I thought about Wii Sports the first time I played it. Saves gas money, too. :P
GonzoJoe's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:39
GonzoJoe
Fantastic article.

I drew a few looks at Starbucks for laughing out loud at "Resistance: Fall of Man and he can't get back up again?"

I find myself on the tail-end of that 18-35 demographic myself, and it's great to read perspectives from more mature gamers. That's not to say that high school and college kids don't have interesting perspectives too, but as I enter my 30s, I find that the number of dick-jokes-per-hour that I can tolerate is going down (Unless they're really funny dick jokes, then all bets are off).

One of the things I really like about Destructoid is that while the entire site was built with the sophomoric humor theme, there's still a lot of intelligent discussion about gaming going on here.

Thanks for adding to it with this post.
Gobun's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:52
Gobun
HOLY GOD.
"Resistance: Fall of Man and he can't get back up again" is the best game ever.
Great blog lol.
CelicaCrazed's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 13:53
CelicaCrazed
Actually that's what's pretty cool about Wii Fit, there is a lot of audio cues so you know what to do next and how long to hold each position. If (or when) Nintendo adds voice control to a future installment, the exercises would become much more accessible for everyone. Plus I don't care what anyone says, the game (software?) freakin' works! Haha!

Great blog. Love the perspective and insight.
Enkido's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 14:11
Enkido
Nicely done. I have a ways to go before retirement, but I see myself as a gamer for life.

@Gonzo Joe
You've got to keep chasing the American Dream.
KINGof210's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 14:19
KINGof210
Awesome article! Recently my parents, both in their 50's, have been participating in some sessions of WiiSports for downtime and/or exercise. My dad even lost 8 pounds in the last 2 weeks!

Also, @GonzoJoe: Agreed.
armless-phelan's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 15:42
armless-phelan
My mother is your age, Elsa, and she's a huge Mario fan. She actually beat Super Mario World, something I never accomplished. >_> And she loves her DS.

My dad is also excited that I just gave him my old comic books, but that's another story altogether.
Occams electric toothbrush's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 15:46
Occams electric toothbrush
@Elsa: I was a bit of an accident for my parents which means I have a 44-year-old sister and a 40-year-old brother with my parents being in their mid-70's and late 60's. Regardless to say, old to some people is mature to me.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 15:57
Elsa
@armless... see there's the irony. In a few years your parents may retire and become even more active in gaming. It's not inconceivable that they might even become more competitive gamers, play a larger variety of games and even start running with a clan. They'll talk about how sweet it is that their son takes an interest in their gaming hobby and even plays a few games when he finds the time! :)

@Kingof210... yes, the Wii is just a starter drug! :)

@Enkido... I do think that most gamers will continue gaming. While they may lessen the time they spend on the hobby during the busier times in their lives, many may well end up seeing gaming as a great retirement hobby! Gamers for life!

@Celcia - yeah, Nintendo has done a really great job of creating accessible games - something that Sony and Microsoft should pay more attention to!

@Gobun... when Resistance first came out, that was always my first thought! Help, I've fallen and I can't get up!
(I was major disappointed when they called the second game "Resistance 2"! No imagination! It should have been Resistance: Rise of Man or something like that... though with that title I'm sure I could have made viagra jokes!)

@GonzoJoe... Thank you! (and I too like the diversity that Destructoid as a website offers... there's usually something here for everyone!)

@Pedrovay... LOL!! Never even considered the price of gas - but yeah, it's getting freakishly expensive!

@Kraid, you never know!
Takeshi's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 16:35
Takeshi
A really nice blog once again. Interesting to read why you're always playing games. I was wondering this a while ago. "She's always home, playing MAG. How does she do that?" I didn't want to ask because, well, that could be quite painful. I'm glad it isn't. You're just really good at planning! And playing games.
Clockwork-Zombie's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 16:47
Clockwork-Zombie
Great post, "Resistance: Fall of Man and he can't get back up again" is good title for a game.
Listening to your squabbling on MAG is all part of the fun :p.
My mother who is in her 50's loves to play puzzles games like Dr. Mario and Tetris in addition to playing FPS games, some her favorite games to play are Perfect Dark and Resistance though she does not play that often this is still pretty awesome in my view as her main other hobby is knitting.
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 18:08
Xzyliac
As someone with a legitimate psychological fear of aging and most old people I found this blog a good read. I'm a little tense but I lul'd more than a few times. Now if you excuse me I'm gonna go look in a mirror. :P

47 and 52 are not old by the way. I'm 19 and I know that. Hell I'm looking forward to 40! If things go half as planned my 40's are gonna be the shit.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 18:25
Elsa
@Takeshi... yeah, I too often wonder how people find the time to game. In my case you're right... it's all good!

@Clockwork... Awesome that your Mom likes FPS games!!

@Xzyliac... yeah, 47 isn't old at all. It's on the "old" end of the scale for gamer demographics though... and I'm also at that age where we start to face our own mortality. We get aches and pains and ailments... and I'm already into bifocals and will likely need the dreaded "reading glasses" shortly - though maybe I'll try and get an optimized pair of "gaming glasses"! :)
We are shortly both going to be retired though... and the past month has shown that gaming will be a big part of that when we're both home all day! Personally I think we both can't wait. I actually enjoy gaming with my husband in the afternoons! :)
A New Challenger's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 18:45
A New Challenger
I've thought about putting off my massive RPG backlog until I'm older and reaction time naturally slows, and get in all the really crazy shit (like F-Zero GX) while my body can still take the abuse.

Mostly this is a silly ploy to validate to myself said tremendous RPG backlog and not feel bad about continuing to grab new games over them.
Alasdair Duncan's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 19:01
Alasdair Duncan
Man, by the time I'm retired they better have videogames that connect to your brain, a la the Matrix, or I'm gonna be well pissed.

Also, my mum loves the Proffesor Layton games.
Jack Maverick's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 19:06
Jack Maverick
I still await the day that I kill someone online and someone calls me a "whippersnapper." Someday...

Also, my dad is the same age as you, and although he's a tech guy and enjoys seeing what goes into a game more, he still tries out some old adventure games that we've collected over the years. He really digs stuff made by LucasArts. :)

This was a nice read.
Monodi's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 19:12
Monodi
My dad is about 58 years old now. (I'm 19) I feel a bit bad, but at the same time proud of him for being still a hard worker as a dentist. At least one of my sisters got a job, and I should do the same.
norm9's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/05/2010 21:55
norm9
Awesome read. I'm torn though because I hate Human Resources but I don't hate you.
lazyhoboguy's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/06/2010 00:44
lazyhoboguy
Great blog. I intend to be a lifelong gamer as well. They will have to pry the controller out of my cold dead clammy hands before I give up gaming.
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/06/2010 01:20
Elsa
@ANewChallenger... yeah, I'm the queen of rationalization! This whole blog was an excuse for me to spend afternoons and evenings with my husband obsessed with gaming - and saying it's good for us! LOL!

@Ali... LOL! I fear what outputs dementia might produce if the game is mind controlled!

@Jack... your Dad likes games?... Wow... so many people here have mentioned that their parents play games... Moms with their DS and Dads too!

@Monodi... my Dad is 74 and still working! He loves his job as a stock broker and just won't quit. Me, I loved Human Resources work, but we paid off the house and made the decision for me to do contract/part-time work for awhile... which I did, but with my husband also close to retirement I've fully left the work force now. I had some health issues a few years ago that necessitated a number of surgeries, so it just made sense and it was nice for my husband to have me home doing all the "wifey" stuff! I may go back to part-time work at some point.

@norm9... I mostly did recruiting - finding people for jobs and finding jobs for people - good stuff! Though some of my later contract work was government and involved some outsourcing projects, so yeah, I also did the evil side of H.R.

@lazyhoboguy... yeah, with the frustration and excitement level of online gaming I wouldn't be surprised if I went out with a quick heart attack while gaming - not a bad way to go I guess! :)
Loogibot's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/06/2010 02:38
Loogibot
Elsa, could you be more awesome. Seriously, this was a fantastic blog; makes me even more optimistic about the future and aging. My mom doesn't play games, and she's younger than you, but its cool. I can easily see my self still gaming 20, 30, or 40 years from now. Maybe more, maybe less, but always something. This hobby is too much fun to leave!
ChronosWing's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/06/2010 03:01
ChronosWing
Don't ever change Elsa.
Mark Griffiths's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/06/2010 08:32
Mark Griffiths
I'm dreading getting old, but your blog has somehow made it slightly less scary lol.

Also, you're not old yet!

Good blog :)
Sean Carey's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/06/2010 09:12
Sean Carey
Elsa. I want to be like you when you grow up. <3

Another fabulous post!
FunWithBonus's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/07/2010 06:30
FunWithBonus
One word:

PODCAST!

Do it! (Or, do you have one already? I must know.)
Elsa's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/07/2010 12:08
Elsa
@FunWithBonus... no, I don't have a Podcast, but just play a few games of MAG with me and you'll get to hear my voice constantly - usually telling everyone what to do and saying "crap" or "shit" every time I get killed... which is a lot!
....You'll wish I had a pause button! :)

Thanks for the comments everyone!!!
randombullseye's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/08/2010 09:56
randombullseye
This is why I keep buying 80-100 hour RPGs. One day, maybe in twenty or thirty years, I'll have some time on my hands. Persona 4 will be as good then as it is today.
Jason Cabral's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/09/2010 11:45
Jason Cabral
Cool blog post! I work in retail (unfortunately =P) and I have heard complaints about games not having subtitles for the hearing impaired. One of our regulars is a gentleman who is hearing impaired! Besides, I like those subtitles. After years of watching subbed Anime, I can usually read the text and still understand what going on in the scene. Its just natural to me now.

I would also like to second FunWithBonus's vote for a podcast! Maybe in the near future perhaps? :)
manasteel88's Avatar - Comment posted on 02/10/2010 21:26
manasteel88
I'm only 24 and I have arthritis. It sucks and has forced me to stick my middle finger high into the air every time somebody says "Motion Control." Simple controllers don't affect me, but the arthritis in my elbow and wrists make it hard to flail about during a long Zelda session.

Also, the ability to read subtitles should be automatic code. Every game engine in the world should have an option to increase text font. I have a standard definition TV and I hate having to squint at Dead Rising.
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