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Breaking up is hard to do [NVGR]
DaedHead8 | 2:46 PM on 10.21.2009 56 comments


That's all she wrote folks. My relationship with my wonderful girlfriend is over. I've mentioned her in several other blogs (never by name), most notably in my most recent set-up blog. She said numerous times over the last month or so that I don't make her happy anymore and it's gotten to the point where I'm done trying to make her happy and I have to make the decision to move on. We've been on and off for the past while and this time it's official, we're done.

I'm shopping for a new apartment and it's looking like I'll end up in some shitty studio apartment until I can find something nicer. I should have listened to my mother and never moved in with this girl in the first place. Learn from my mistake and don't move in with someone until you're 100% sure it's right. We dated for a year before moving in together and even that wasn't enough time. Don't make the same mistake as me.

It's shameful, but I can't help but imagine how this will affect my gaming life. The HDTVs, PS3 and Wii are hers, so I'll be gaming on my old SDTV setup with only my 360 and older consoles. Not being able to play Boom Blox and Demon Souls is going to suck, but I still own the games, I just need new consoles. The question is, do I save up for a nicer TV first, or the consoles? Whatever I do, I'll have a new setup blog posted as soon as I can.

Sorry if this blog has been hard to read. I wrote it off the cuff and didn't change much while editing it. I'm in a sour mood as you can imagine, hence the lack of pretty pictures. You can expect a much better written and video games related post from me tomorrow. For now though, it's time for me to get back to apartment hunting. =(



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CblogRecaps's Destructoid Blog
Sorry to hear about that DaedHead. I'll give you a topsauce in my recap today.
walkyourpath's Destructoid Blog
You're good people. Hang in there, and best of luck finding a new place!
SilverDragon1979's Destructoid Blog
Sean that sucks to hear that you and your girlfriend didn't work out man. I would offer up some words of comfort, but I know shit like this just sucks! I wish you the best of luck in rebuilding your life. Stay strong man!
shipero's Destructoid Blog
So, she's available now right?

I'm sorry, that was out of line. I'll show myself out.
MrSadistic's Destructoid Blog
Dang shipero you're a dick.

So, is she available?

Also, an ex of mine got me a PSP for my birthday one time. I made sure it was a gift FOR ME. Makes it easier to keep that shit. I'm sorry for your loss though. Sucks about the girlfriend too.
Takeshi's Destructoid Blog
So, you're available now right?

I'm sorry, that was out of line. I'll show myself out.
DaedHead8's Destructoid Blog
I'm sorry for your loss though. Sucks about the girlfriend too.

First time I've smiled all day. I love all of you. But I love Mr. Sadistic just a little bit more. <3

@Takeshi

=P
VWGTI's Destructoid Blog
Sorry broski. Shit like that can be hard. Stay positive.
GoldenGamerXero's Destructoid Blog
Fuck man that sucks but at least from the sounds of it you didn't have it end that badly(The actual break up not the whole no place to sleep). This always cheers me up on a bad day so ummm... Do whatever you do when you got nowhere to live.
thefil's Destructoid Blog
Having also had a shit day, I recommend listening to The Beatles to make it all better. <3
MkShiranui's Destructoid Blog
I'm not certain which sucks more: losing the girlfriend, losing the apartment, or losing the Wii.

Well, good luck with everything.
falinter's Destructoid Blog
Sucks dude.
I don't know how appropriate it is to fap to this article but I did.
thefil's Destructoid Blog
@mkshiranui

As Mr Vanor has made abundantly clear today, losing the Wii was the obvious worst loss.
CelicaCrazed's Destructoid Blog
Sorry to hear that. Don't worry, we'll alway love you.

Oh and I'd probably go for the HDTV first. Otherwise you'll keep putting money into more games and it'll take longer to get.
Velt's Destructoid Blog
Use the money to go out and party. Find another girl, another distraction.
Char Aznable's Destructoid Blog
Damn, sorry dude. That sounded like a match made in gamer heaven. I would go with a better TV first, you can survive with the Xbox for a bit. Plus you can, you know...watch TV and stuff on it.

Like Falinter, I will fap this article not for its content, but for its author.
Magnalon's Destructoid Blog
Dude I'm sorry.

I hope you're able to cope, but considering how much support you're getting from the Dtoid community, I'm sure you're able to see that you're not alone!

<3 LOVE YOU MAN!
FalconReaper's Destructoid Blog
Allow me to quote Kilowog of the Green Lanterns by saying that "Its the gettin' up again that matters poozer". Sorry if that sounded a little nerdy but expect a fap from me.
Steel Squirrel's Destructoid Blog
You're gon b k guy! Shit happens, we've all been there and it always gets better. Sounds like you will miss the consoles more than her anyway, so maybe it is for the best. ;)

So... I would head for the TV first. Nice TVs make everything better. Also, take a break from the ladies for a while and don't jump right into another relationship. Just focus on a little personal gaming and DaedHead time.
ace of knaves's Destructoid Blog
That sucks man, but you'll be fine. Good luck getting your stuff back together.
TheCleaningGuy's Destructoid Blog
Damn, I'm sorry to hear about that. Good luck though!
seltzermx's Destructoid Blog
Better now than a few years down the line, eh?

You should save up money and get a kick-ass TV during the Thanksgiving sales. Hopefully it'll mmake it easier to save up for the PS3.
DaedHead8's Destructoid Blog
Thanks for the well wishes everyone. This is why this community rocks. I knew I could count on you all.

@GoldenGamerXero

Awesome clip! And yeah, we're trying to be civil about everything. We're both hurting and we both still care about each other, she's just not happy and wants a change. I'm willing to give her that change, as much as it hurts me.

@Mag

Yeah, I feel hollow inside but I know I'm not really alone. I'll be able to cope.

@Steel Squirel

I moved out of my parents house at 17, I had a girlfriend then who I kept all the way until I was 20, when I met this last girlfriend, whom I've dated ever since (I'm 23 now). In other words, I've never been living on my own and single at the same time. Quite frankly, I'm kinda excited to see what it's like. The bachelor life sounds appealing.

However, I'm too much of a social butterfly to ignore the ladies completely, it will be a long time before I'm ready for a real relationship though.
ChillyBilly's Destructoid Blog
Sucks dude, sorry to hear it. You'll be alright though, no worries.
Puppy Licks's Destructoid Blog
Shit man sorry to hear about that. Luckily videogaming can be a strong comfort in times like this, maybe you could ever get a hold of some retro consoles for that SDTV of yours :)
Stay strong man.
Holyetheline's Destructoid Blog
So the girl that I am currently engaged to has been living with me ever since we found each other. I've never lived with a girlfriend before but this is my third relationship to last over a year and a half. It just happened the way it did and it was perfect. Sounds like you need someone more meaningful, fuck that bitch anyway. It's so lame when chicks pull the "You don't make me happy anymore." bullshit. You'll find someone better soon enough just hang in there. Hope you find a nice place and try to make the best of this situation. If you want to play Borderlands some day when you're all settled in to wherever you end up you should hit me up. My Gamertag is Affinitia.
Justice's Destructoid Blog
Sorry to hear about that dude, hopefully things will all be on the up from here.
Steel Squirrel's Destructoid Blog
@ DaedHead

Hey man, I feel you on that one. I was with the same girl for almost 10 years. From 16 to 25. Was even married for a few of those years. I'm 28 now and enjoying the single life quite a bit. There's plenty of time for serious stuff later. It is crazy being out there on your own after being with someone for so long, but it is also pretty damn exciting and fun. You're gonna have a real good time, buddy. ;)
Lil Jorsche's Destructoid Blog
Ouch, you lost a girlfriend, a PS3, and a Wii. Well if it makes you feel any better, I've never had any of those things......
Overcrowd's Destructoid Blog
Bummer...

But to answer your question, consoles first then focus on the HD upscale.
grafkhun's Destructoid Blog
It's ok, there's room in my cardboard box or you, I'm usually in the back alley behind the nice hotels, but tonight I'll probably be staying in the public parks bathroom. So... see you tonight?

Seriously though, good luck finding a place! Studio apartments aren't that bad if you're by yourself, so don't worry about it.
DaedHead8's Destructoid Blog
@Steel Squirell

Thanks man, it helps a lot to be reminded that not only have other people gone through what I'm going through, some have been through way worse.

@Grafkhun

Studio apartments are ok, I've had one before. But I didn't have two cats back then, and it's them I'm mostly worried about. A studio apartment would drive them nuts. =\

All I need is a kitchen a bathroom and a place to put my vidya games. I'd be all set in a studio if it weren't for the kitties.
Xhumation's Destructoid Blog
That sounds like it hurts.

If you need any help, you can count on me.
The RPGist's Destructoid Blog
So uh, is it safe to say it was the videogames? I know she said you didn't make her happy; would it have killed you to have let her play Zelda that one night?
Would it?

I'm glad my girl doesn't give a shit about games.
Jonathan Holmes's Destructoid Blog
Ah heartbreak. It's the fucking worst.

Listen to this? Maybe it will help put things in perspective?

One thing I can tell you for sure is that being a good looking, good natured, single guy at 23 can lead to some pretty god damn awesome times. Things may start feeling more fun for you sooner than you think.

At least, I hope so.
Elsa's Destructoid Blog
Wow... sorry to hear that!
All I can say is that if it's not going to work in the long run, then you're better to move on to find that person that you know you'll be with for the rest of your life!

It doesn't make things any easier right now... but you'll be happy you are single when that "right" gal comes along!
DaedHead8's Destructoid Blog
@Holmes

Thanks, I'm listening to it right now. It's kind of depressing but also kind of comforting. Especially the part where the girl talks about how breaking up is one of the most common things in the world.
The Prodigal Son's Destructoid Blog
You'll be alright. Breaking up sucks. My ex and I were together for 6 years when it happened and it took a minute (read: ~778,000 of them) to get over it. Time is all you need bro. Also, I recommend the HDTV first, because SD gaming is bollocks when you've been spoiled. Since it's the more expensive of the two things you need to get, you'll suffer more while saving for the TV, but get to enjoy it while you save for the PS3.
Naim Master's Destructoid Blog
Break in and do great justice!
Rifter01's Destructoid Blog
I've been there.. Tough break, mon. :o/

It stands to reason that you will find someone who is more caring & concerned about you instead of being a selfish#@*($@($@* the next time.
Artemus's Destructoid Blog
Broken wings mend it time...
The HDTV(s), PS3 and Wii are hers. Ouch. Credit card time!
Y0j1mb0's Destructoid Blog
[i]To meet, to know, to love-and then to part,
Is the sad tale of many a human heart.[/i]


Sorry to hear things didn't work out for you and your lady.
bluexy's Destructoid Blog
You'll be good bro, there's many fish in the sea and chicks love a dude that's good with technology. Either that or there's plenty of hot video game ladies to fap to. :)

Just start saving money, and then impulse buy whatever you need further down the road. Though a nice HDTV will make-a the video game ladies much more fappable!
The RPGist's Destructoid Blog
So if she owns the apartment AND the HD-TV(s), it's fair to say she's pretty well off.

Can you disclose what she does for a living? I'm curious.
ryderbackside's Destructoid Blog
My condolences. Remember you are better off in the long run though. I cast my vote for saving up for ps3 before a new tv.
Riegel88's Destructoid Blog
Sorry to hear that man. Break ups blow. Get consoles 1st, whats a good tv without something to play them on ;)
DaedHead8's Destructoid Blog
Reading the comments in this blog and listening to the new Podtoid were the only times I cracked a smile today. Destructoid fucking rules. I love you all. <3

@The RPGist

I don't think I should disclose that because she doesn't do anything and she lives off of a trust-fund her grandfather set up for her. Whoops.
Steel Squirrel's Destructoid Blog
Haha... nice last comment there DaedHead.
Let it all out!

Looking at all of the negative things in one sitting can really make you feel like you dodged a bullet. Also... there sure are a lot of damn trust-fund kids these days.
10BobMarleys's Destructoid Blog
A case of beer, a cheap hooker, and about 48 hours of gaming and you'll be a new man. Good for you, man!
Stella Wong's Destructoid Blog
;__; sorry to hear that, I hope that you get things together and I hope it all works out for the best~

getting the sweet TV would be best first since you never know how prices can drop randomly :3


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