Somewhere along the way a large section of gamers lost track of the fact that games are central to one's enjoyment of the hobby, with thier focus shifting instead to importance of the name attached to the box on which they play them. I've come to the conclusion that this is merely a by-product of every human-being's desire to be validated. In this case it's a desire to validate one's decision to purchase a given console as being the right one, which culminates in gamers aggressively defending their console of choice against any nay-sayers.
I believe that this conclusion is lent even more credibility by the existence of multiple consoles. You'll often find that your average gamer who engages in such activity often owns but a single console, and that they not only agressively defend their choice, but take it up a step and will engage in casting aspersions on the consoles they didn't buy. As I see it, they do this because belittling the consoles they didn't chose makes the choice they made seem all the more correct.
Now, I think this also comes down to a bit of envy as well, as it's often easier to deal with not being in a position to own something by making the item of interest seem less attractive to one's self. I have to admit that I found myself talking down the PS3 simply because it was well out of my price-range for so long. Now that I'm able to afford it, I find myself taking the time to look at it on its merits, rather than trying to convince myself that it's not worth owning.
So what I'm getting at here is that fanboyish behavior seems to be motivated by some pretty basic human urges. That doesn't make it any less annoying, but perhaps in understanding it we can start to move past it.
To me "fanboys" is like a cute nickname for gamers...like "I'm a total fanboy for blah blah blah". I'm not all like "oooh this is the best and this sucks", I think it should just be a way of saying "I'm totally gay for Mario" or something to that extent.
It's kinda like the GLBT community taking back the word "queer" and making it cool again.
Fanboys are fun to argue with, because they try and justify everything they like, and denounce everything they dont. "Instead of just shutting their yaps, and keeping their opinions to themselves, they just like to argue for the sake of arguing.
I think money plays a part here, too. I mean, I'm sure most people would buy every console out there if they could afford to. I know I would. So people drop several hundred dollars into one system, and then the validation you mentioned in your first paragraph comes into play.
But yeah, it makes me happy to see that that so many people on Dtoid are fans of video games, and not just one specific console.
It's only human nature to defend something you love. And it's also pretty normal to defend your personal choices.
But the way we go about it on the internet it just absolutely ridiculous. Of course, it's a lot easier to act like a moron on the internet than in person. There are usually no real consquences. So it's obvious that fanboys and flame wars will always exist on the internet.
Besides all this, many gamers have been playing for a long time, and because of this they have deep rooted loyalty for a particular company. Perhaps it's because that company made their first console. So people who started gaming during the PsOne era might be Sony fanboys, whereas people like myself are more partial to Nintendo because the first system I owned was an NES. It's a mix of nostalgia and attachment.
But in the end, I can see through the BS and learn to love each system for what it is. I don't play my Wii nearly as much as my PS3 and 360, but I'm certainly glad I bought the damn thing. Being able to experience Super Mario Galaxy is enough for me.
Just a shame it doesn't get used more often, what with it costing me $250 and all. But what can you do? It would be silly to trade it in. I imagine I'd regret that in the future.
That's pretty much exactly the conclusion I've come to myself, people want to convince themselves they've hitched their cart to the right horse. They lose sight of just enjoying what they have, and instead focus on trying to prove that everyone else is a fool for not having the same tastes.
And also, this draws some interesting parallels to drug abuse or even gambling addiction. Abusers and addicts will always convince themselves and try to convince others that their way is the best way. It's sickening.
I might do another one of these to explore some of the points that you guys made.
Also, this sort of thing doesn't really explain people who claim to have all the consoles but still act like insufferable cock-shits, so I'll probably explore that too.
This is a subject that fascinates me for some strange reason. Maybe because getting to the root of the problem makes it easier to ignore.
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To me "fanboys" is like a cute nickname for gamers...like "I'm a total fanboy for blah blah blah". I'm not all like "oooh this is the best and this sucks", I think it should just be a way of saying "I'm totally gay for Mario" or something to that extent.
It's kinda like the GLBT community taking back the word "queer" and making it cool again.
Ok...somebody's going to kill me now.
-sneaks behind Duffy-
TOLD YOU ID GET CHU!!!
-juggular slice!!-
Fanboys are fun to argue with, because they try and justify everything they like, and denounce everything they dont. "Instead of just shutting their yaps, and keeping their opinions to themselves, they just like to argue for the sake of arguing.
"YOU LIKE XBOX!?! YOU A-STUPID!"
"NAH UH!!! YOU A-STUPID!"
I think money plays a part here, too. I mean, I'm sure most people would buy every console out there if they could afford to. I know I would. So people drop several hundred dollars into one system, and then the validation you mentioned in your first paragraph comes into play.
But yeah, it makes me happy to see that that so many people on Dtoid are fans of video games, and not just one specific console.
Fanboys... the kings of trolling
It's only human nature to defend something you love. And it's also pretty normal to defend your personal choices.
But the way we go about it on the internet it just absolutely ridiculous. Of course, it's a lot easier to act like a moron on the internet than in person. There are usually no real consquences. So it's obvious that fanboys and flame wars will always exist on the internet.
Besides all this, many gamers have been playing for a long time, and because of this they have deep rooted loyalty for a particular company. Perhaps it's because that company made their first console. So people who started gaming during the PsOne era might be Sony fanboys, whereas people like myself are more partial to Nintendo because the first system I owned was an NES. It's a mix of nostalgia and attachment.
But in the end, I can see through the BS and learn to love each system for what it is. I don't play my Wii nearly as much as my PS3 and 360, but I'm certainly glad I bought the damn thing. Being able to experience Super Mario Galaxy is enough for me.
Just a shame it doesn't get used more often, what with it costing me $250 and all. But what can you do? It would be silly to trade it in. I imagine I'd regret that in the future.
That's pretty much exactly the conclusion I've come to myself, people want to convince themselves they've hitched their cart to the right horse. They lose sight of just enjoying what they have, and instead focus on trying to prove that everyone else is a fool for not having the same tastes.
Basically, people don't like to be wrong.
And also, this draws some interesting parallels to drug abuse or even gambling addiction. Abusers and addicts will always convince themselves and try to convince others that their way is the best way. It's sickening.
I might do another one of these to explore some of the points that you guys made.
Also, this sort of thing doesn't really explain people who claim to have all the consoles but still act like insufferable cock-shits, so I'll probably explore that too.
This is a subject that fascinates me for some strange reason. Maybe because getting to the root of the problem makes it easier to ignore.