I am gonna share a little info with yall since this is the best community I ever been to share any type of topics, Well, its about a girl. There's this girl that ive known for the past 8 years, since she was 14, (no im not a pedophile, but she was even super hot at that age), I got to know her through her brother which was a very good friend of mine until last year or so.
Well trying my best to keep this short, shes hot, cool, a model, can sing beautifully, natural red head argentinian with cute freckles... and loves video games... You can tell that I liked her since she was 14 but obviously I respected the age crap and her brother so I didnt do shit.
Years passed and she finally hit the 18 safe mark, but then One of my best friend actually fall openly in love with her and well I became the nice guy to support him on getting her, but unfortunately he lost and she felled in love with another strong gay guy who wasn't to sure of being straight or gay. She married him at the age of 20, had a kid, divorced at 22. Since then she doesn't really have any family to live with, so she inclined with the very first guy she saw at the moment and moved with him b4 she even finished the divorce. So I lost my chance before it opened up.
Now this brings us to today...
She is not really going anywhere with this guy but hes not a bad guy from what she tells me. She has the casual fights here and there but she is not making anything out of her life living with him. Now here is where I come to you guys for help. I really like her, me and her get super great along with each other and I don't mind helping her raise her kid. No one is perfect and everyone could use a little hand. I can offer her a good house, food, help her with her modeling / photography career, I have the tools to do so and help her study, she can move in with me i'd take perfect care of her. I confesed to her that I like her and im willing to do anything in my power to making her happy whether she lives with me or not. And she told me that if I would have told her earlier she most def would have come with me without giving it any thought.
But here is the bad part...
I'm not the type that would steal a girl from another guy. That's just not me and I would like for her to be happy, so if she is happy with this guy then that would make me happy. But she now tells me she has her fights and things don't really progress much. We talk n txt to each other all the time and we have very open communication, which she told me she would really like to live with me right now, but she can't leave her current bf just like that, its not her style, he's not a bad guy and doesn't deserve getting dumped like that. Which brings me to my question:
What should I do?
Should I stay playing the nice guy role, see & wait to see if she comes to herself and dumps him to come with me? Or should I try and convince her to change her mind? Honestly my mind right now is split and thinks both ways... this shit is not easy and I know it might sound childish & yes there are tons of fish in the sea but man let me tell you, miami is full of ROTTEN fish; I don't go for any girl that just drops in the way, I want the one who makes me happy and that I can return the favor. So wondering what to do now... read