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How to make gaming communities suck less: Stop talking about PAX
Brian Keljore | 3:28 AM on 08.29.2009 32 comments




Seriously... just fucking stop.

It was bad enough hearing the raving once a week when it was 6 months off, but for those of us who are unable to go due to financial or other situations, it gets annoying. The coming of August heralded more chatter than I care to listen to. Barely a single conversation can go by with out someone mentioning PAX, regardless of the subject. The ranting about who is doing what, who can't afford what because they are going and how much that sucks, and of course the repeated "why aren't you going" questions as if it were simply a minor thing to hop on a plane and rent a hotel for a few nights. I'm sure even D-toid staffers who can't afford the trip have had enough at this point.

So for those of us who really wanted to go, but for various reasons (like barely being able to make student loan payments) who can't make, please express your enthusiasm in a less exuberant fashion. It will keep the rest of us from wanting to cave your heads in with a bat.



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Krow's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 03:45
Krow
I support this blog.
ChronosWing's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 03:53
ChronosWing
I'm glad someone finally said it.
Qalamari's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:08
Qalamari
=/

My apologies. I understand where you're coming from-- financial considerations nearly torpedoed my plans this year too. I know it's difficult reading about everyone else partying when for whatever reason you can't.

Unfortunately, I think your request is at best... unrealistic. PAX, more than E3, VGL, GDC, or any of those other acronyms, is all about the players, the people behind the controllers. As such, people really get excited about it. It's hard to explain to someone who hasn't been there, but PAX gets inside you. When you leave, you immediately start thinking about how you can come back. Asking a gaming community- especially this one- not to talk about it is like asking Mario not to jump, or Bubsy not to suck. It just plain ain't gonna happen.

If it really bothers you that much, I'm really not sure what to tell you. think of it as hype for a game that you're not interested in and just let your eyes glaze over it or something. It'll all be over about a week or two after the show, once everyone's posted their pictures and videos and stuff. Until next year.
Dao2-SKP's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:13
Dao2-SKP
I want to go but I can't. I also don't care about the blogs. Christ your finicky :P
Jesse Cortez's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:25
Jesse Cortez
@Qalamari

I love you

@Brian Keljore

I love you too
TewDee's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:29
TewDee
I agree completely. I was on the edge of going when a wrench was thrown at me and blew my chances. Now I very well may avoid Dtoid for the month of September to not see "PAX WAS SO AWESOME!!" "Yes, thank you. Your home address would be nice so I can stab you to death now."
ace of knaves's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:36
ace of knaves
Holy fuck thank you for posting this. We get that you're all excited for PAX, and I for one really look forward to videos of the Dtoid community awesomeness that is sure to take place, but if those attending could cool it just a little, that would be great.
The Amazing Shenazin's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 04:52
The Amazing Shenazin
I've never been to a convention in my entire life, I'm a total convention virgin

so yeah, I share your pain
Alasdair Duncan's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 06:56
Alasdair Duncan
I have to save all my annual leave so I can see my family next year. I'd love to go to PAX, but it's not happening this year, but hopefully maybe next year.
Jim Sterling's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 07:36
Jim Sterling
You think it's bad here? You should see my inbox on a morning. Every other email is some PAX-related chicanery.

I get it, game publishers. Your games are going to be at PAX. It's not even news at this point. EVERYTHING IS AT PAX!
PsychoSoldier's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 08:04
PsychoSoldier
Of course you would post this but yea I agree with you.
Chris Carter's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 08:12
Chris Carter
Support 100%

As press, I'm not even GOING to PAX, and I have to deal with the depressing realization that I can't afford it, AND I get the fucking 1K emails a day Jim does.

LOSE LOSE.
Colette Bennett's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 08:15
Colette Bennett
I'm sorry you feel this way, Brian, and I do understand that it is depressing for people that can't go. However, you have to understand that our readers (and the editors!) look so forward to this as a chance to finally meet or to see people again they really care about. I know it's hard not to be a part of that, but I think that's why you are hearing so much about it.
Naim Master's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 08:33
Naim Master
Man, you have some balls... I approve this blog.
Cowboy TTop's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 09:38
Cowboy TTop
Hey, I'm in the U.K and would also love to attend but can't, but I feel you are wrong to rain on gamers annual pilgrmage parade. That's what PAX has become and its the kind of thing gamers have wanted for many years.

It would be wrong of me to comdemn coverage and joy of it, just because I can't go. You need to learn to listen, but also drown out the white noise when you feel it invading your brain, Brian. Its this way with any big event, a lot of it is bull with most events, but less so with PAX, because its about the regular gamer, whatever walk of life you are from.

Try to be happy for those that can go, because bitterness is a bad trait. If you can't go, wave your gamer flag at home. Intend to join in, listening to podcast coverage, and having a games night with friends. I guess you'll be crying into your soup, but that's your choice.
Justice's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 09:39
Justice
What Naim Master said, though I can understand why there's a million posts about it, it does get pretty annoying for us that can't go (but do want to).
nukka jdav's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 09:43
nukka jdav
So why aren't you going to PAX?

AH SNAP, jk brother hugs all around.
Brian Keljore's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 09:48
Brian Keljore
@damn near everyone who posted here: Holy hell, I post something that is mostly tongue in cheek and a ton of people take it seriously. HAHA. Thank you for all the replies. While I am a bit bothered I can't go, I do wish everyone who is going to PAX a great time.

And here I thought the header image of the post said it all. :-p
Krow's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 10:09
Krow
@Brian Keljore

It could of had something to do with the five dramatic blogs that surrounded yours last night. Maybe.
Topher Cantler's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 11:30
Topher Cantler
What Jim said. Try having to decline invites to publishers' open bar parties on top of not getting to hang out with everyone.
Arkhon's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 11:38
Arkhon
@Brian Keljore:

Man it's hard to get Madagascar. How'd you manage to do it?
Kryptinite's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 11:43
Kryptinite
Yeah..that's not going to happen.

I understand what you're saying but PAX is a force that can't be stop. This time next week you will be tired of hearing about PAX even more so than you are now.
Chris Carter's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 12:07
Chris Carter
@Brian
I knew it was mostly a joke, but yea, it does suck that we can't go: we'll have to suck it up :D

@Topher
I see your awesome invites and raise you "still getting the invites but can't even go".
TheCleaningGuy's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 12:34
TheCleaningGuy
I'll be at PAX, but I support this blog!
Electro Lemon's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 13:50
Electro Lemon
What do you have against PAX? It was a totally great TV channel.
Coonskin05's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 14:09
Coonskin05
Yeah dude, this might be a tongue in cheek thing, but its basically the equivalent of a Jewish kid expecting other kids not to be excited for Santa just because he's Jewish. Ain't gonna happen.
Brian Keljore's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 14:31
Brian Keljore
@Arkhon: I started there.
Electro Lemon's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 14:43
Electro Lemon
I lol'd at Coon.
Knivy's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 15:07
Knivy
<3 coonskin05
Chris Carter's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 17:57
Chris Carter
Coonskin is a big reason I qq about not going to PAX. True story.
Hamza CTZ Aziz's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/29/2009 19:43
Hamza CTZ Aziz
PAX is going to be so awesome
king3vbo's Avatar - Comment posted on 08/31/2009 22:33
king3vbo
Take your ball and go home
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