My wife did not grow up as a gamer or even bother playing video games as a child. She had a younger brother, but their gap in age did not open up any good avenues for bonding. Not like the 16 month difference with my sister. (We played many games together in our youth.) For the last 7 years after the birth of our first son, I've been telling my wife that she needs to learn how to play games and turn on the consoles and what controllers go with what. The only thing she knew how to do was play DVDs in the PS2. So, its a start.
Within the last two years, I got her to join in on some limited time with EyeToy on the PS2. Just some casual playing around but nothing extensive. She maybe did a race or two on Mario Kart DS. And she showed a short interest in Wii Sports when I bought the console. We still play tennis once a month when the mood strikes us.
She is becoming a fan of the Nintendo DS. I turned her onto Honeycomb Beat, which is an outstanding title that was only released in the UK. Then, she saw me playing an interesting puzzle game earlier this year. It was Professor Layton. She started helping me with my puzzles and decided she wanted to start her own story. The addiction begins. She started to talk trash and say she was going to beat me to the end. She started taking the DS to bed, she hid it from me so I wouldn't take it to work, she needs her own DS.
The other night she made it through the final tower. Don't worry, I've been done for almost two months now. EXCELLENT GAME! We both can't wait for the second installment. She was very proud she beat the game. So am I. I needed some sort of hook to reel her in. With 3 boys in the house, she needs to have some skills to keep up with me and the young gamers that I am training.
So, now she is looking for her next game to play, besides Honeycomb Beat. I downl-- purchased Napolean Dynamite and Mr. Bean for her. Of course I am aware that these games are pure garbage but she is a fan of the characters. I think Mr. Bean was a pure flop but she loves Napolean too much to toss him to the side.
I am still waiting for her to break into some Mario Kart Wii or SSBB action with me. I could really use an extra hand in Trauma Center New Blood. Maybe I can get her to play WiiWare Pop.
I was, then tried to read your banner, but good news in her beating a game! From what I've seen, I can't even beat many games any more without getting bored and moving on. Too many games!
Sounds like we're sharing a similar experiance right now. From my observations, you might want to watch out for SSBB, bit much of a learning curve for the inexperianced. My wife didnt really enjoy getting beaten for 45min. Shes a freeking devil at mario kart though...
OH! Zak and Wiki for the wii, very puzzely cutesy game. reminded me of old adventure game mechanics. only, you know. not tim schafer =\
@Lewis Bell,
Lucasarts games will run just dandy on modern computers thanks to the wonder that is ScummVM. And the best part for 3dd13 is that their is a version for the DS that he can put on his fancy Not-R4.
@3dd13,
Congratulations, my friend. I know how bloody hard it can be to get a mom-gamer into video games at all. Have you given Zak & Wiki a try, yet? It might be worth a rental to see if she can get into it.
Weird- I bought my copy of Grim Fandango from LucasArts' website just a few years ago. They've redesigned the site since then, and I guess that they've finally dropped all support for their old games. *sigh* There is always eBay, if you're desperate for a legal option.
"The other night she made it through the final tower. Don't worry, I've been done for almost two months now."
What wrong with her beating you? :P Puzzle League is pretty good from what I am told. I am usually into the platformer's and stuff on the DS. Keep my DS games simple and my console games harder.
I would recommend a good RPG for her however. That what reals most of my lady friends in.
Great news. For the DS, everyone says Yoshi's Island was crap, but I liked it, and it was super easy, so it might be fun for her.
Do that Subspace Emissary thing in SSB:B, if you're super cool, then having a mostly useless buddy that tags along and helps won't hinder you. Note that there's some button or combination of buttons (now I forget...) that make P2 zoom to P1 if P2 feels he or she is going to get sucked offscreen or something.
Or play Mario Galaxy, and let her try some easier levels. If you play as the "star" side, she can play Mario if you help her by holding down the enemies and such.
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LucasArts games are not only rare, they wont run on modern machines very well.
(# 8) on 05/17/2008 09:23
OH! Zak and Wiki for the wii, very puzzely cutesy game. reminded me of old adventure game mechanics. only, you know. not tim schafer =\
(# 9) on 05/17/2008 09:57
(# 10) on 05/17/2008 09:58
Lucasarts games will run just dandy on modern computers thanks to the wonder that is ScummVM. And the best part for 3dd13 is that their is a version for the DS that he can put on his fancy Not-R4.
@3dd13,
Congratulations, my friend. I know how bloody hard it can be to get a mom-gamer into video games at all. Have you given Zak & Wiki a try, yet? It might be worth a rental to see if she can get into it.
(# 11) on 05/17/2008 10:01
@Joe Fitz,
we're totally on the same wave-length with the Zak & Wiki!
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(# 14) on 05/17/2008 13:36
What wrong with her beating you? :P Puzzle League is pretty good from what I am told. I am usually into the platformer's and stuff on the DS. Keep my DS games simple and my console games harder.
I would recommend a good RPG for her however. That what reals most of my lady friends in.
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(# 17) on 05/17/2008 21:21
Do that Subspace Emissary thing in SSB:B, if you're super cool, then having a mostly useless buddy that tags along and helps won't hinder you. Note that there's some button or combination of buttons (now I forget...) that make P2 zoom to P1 if P2 feels he or she is going to get sucked offscreen or something.
Or play Mario Galaxy, and let her try some easier levels. If you play as the "star" side, she can play Mario if you help her by holding down the enemies and such.
Baby steps.
(# 18) on 05/19/2008 11:54
no. i was wrong. don't click this link. you won't find scummds here. nope.