If one attempts to dig deep within the reserves of videogame history, it's unlikely that they'll uncover the instance of the very first woman who graced her femininity upon a console (well, aside from the Computer Space ad, that is). There are several reasons why this moment was never documented -- mostly because videogame history is predominantly about videogames (imagine that!), but partly because members of the opposite sex playing games isn't very noteworthy in the most fundamental scope of things. I play. You play. We all play, with or without va-jay-jays.
Facts are facts, however, and despite the occasional news announcement reminding the public that female gamers actually exist (apparently at 38% of gamers strong), we all know that videogames are predominantly enjoyed by a male demographic. That being said, there is also no denying the slender aura of novelty that immediately adheres itself to a woman who plays games, whether she craves the inherent attention or attempts to avoid it.
This dichotomy, while not unique, is of interest to the likes of marketing gurus who determinedly pervert this gender-dissonance to their advantage. Thus, what is eventually revealed in the history of gaming media is the attractive (and often scantily clad) female gaming idol embodied by such women as Morgan Webb, Olivia Munn, and Jessica Chobot. All beautiful and consistently visual, these women and others were the few mass-displayed female figures in the gaming industry to be ravenously consumed by gaming's very own male demographic.

Sex sells, and while the rest of the female gamers remained ambivalent to gender differentiation amidst their game playing, the few esteemed faces of the beautiful rooted themselves as the visual representatives of the 'Girl Gamer'. The collective reception and praise of these visual idols by a male-dominant industry garnered an image-heavy notion of the 'Girl Gamer', a notion which to this day has yet to be the equal case for male gamers.
Galleries of E3 booth babes, "hot...naked...and blue" Cortana cosplays, and any number of chicks with joysticks establish a visual narrative for gaming women that heightens gender alienation while simultaneously muffling the significance of the woman gamer's voice. There is no doubt that Ubisoft took advantage of this exact instance by baiting the accomplished, intelligent, and most importantly attractive producer Jade Raymond to the gaming audience to steer public attention to their game Assassin's Creed. In turn, the only surface-level 'heroes' or 'icons' of the female gaming community are the beautifully unattainable likes of Munn or Webb, regarded first and foremost in this industry for their looks.
And so the standard for the 'Girl Gamer' is set and an equation for success is discovered. Take an attractive woman and pair her alongside a gaming device of some sort. Congratulations! You've captured the attention of a massive chunk of the gaming demographic. What better avenue is there to market your gaming products? Hot girls are hot, gaming boys like gaming girls, and most importantly we're all having fun with our irresponsible gender stereotypes. Nothing wrong with fun, guys!
So what, then? Structured by the mass media as a marketing device and fed by a surge of online egoism (thanks to social media sites such as MySpace and the proliferation of digital cameras), the 'Girl Gamer' specimen has, in turn, infected the masses with false promises of niche-specific fame and glory. In the same way people fantasize about becoming a celebrity, these 'Girl Gamers' seek the attention of becoming the next 'it' girl of their respective gaming community through the prolific distribution of sexually charged images and continuously capitalizing on their sex -- both of which, consequently, have relatively little to do with gaming itself.
What's to follow but the Chobot wannabes slathering their tongues across portable consoles for the camera, or the suspiciously excessive amount of 'Girl Gamer' self-portraits involving various game-related paraphernalia (or lack thereof)? Whatever neutral connotations of women gamers existed in the past are overthrown with the photographic barrage of sexually charged images brought to us by the 'Girl Gamers'. They're beautiful, they know which side is their good side, and they're comfortable enough with their sexuality to let us know they're proud of it. If you've got it, flaunt it. Right?
The women who choose to use their body to visually manifest their 'gaming experience' (by way of game-themed suggestive photographs, for example) express themselves via the avenue of the mass marketed 'Girl Gamer', a goal that is altogether vapid and mediocre in its pursuit. If anything, these girls successfully stick out as a glaring instance of the disappointing commercialization of gaming in popular culture, their antics for attention comparatively as bad as a common reality TV show contestant.
Furthermore, it's one thing for females to collectively enjoy games together, but it's another for these 'Girl Gamers' to assert themselves as leading figures of the female gaming community when no one has asked them to do so (unless, of course, it's a sponsored gaming company looking for cash money). This ill-founded goal disrupts a gaming community in which gamers can agreeably interact with each other regardless of their sex by disturbing the space with sexually-oriented images that immediately derail neutrality and signify more differences than likenesses.

Gamers who prefer the absence of a gender-biased gaming community ultimately find these 'Girl Gamers' as unnecessary and obnoxious entities desperately seeking attention. For women gamers such as myself who admire the well-spoken gaming female (see Jane Pinckard, Tracey John, Leigh Alexander, and our own Colette Bennett) as opposed to the gaming beauty queens, these 'Girl Gamers' are downright irritating.
It's unlikely that the trendy alliteration of 'Girl Gamer' will fade away anytime soon or that the equivalent 'Guy Gamer' (see Mega64's Sexy64 for more information) will actually be realized. Unfortunately, a similar fate rings true with the 'Girl Gamer' herself as long as the industry continues to cater to its male demographic, and as long as there are women who fashion themselves alongside those same standards.
A more pressing urgency today is the shortage of intelligent women speakers and writers who strongly represent themselves with words as opposed to images. While women such as Jessica Chobot have made certain strides to leave their more exhibitionist pasts behind, as long as there is a constant appraisal of their attractive and more visually accessible adversaries, the battle between the pen and the larger picture continues to rage on.
Thus, the aspirations associated with the 'Girl Gamer' are damaging to both male gamers and female gamers. Gender distinguishment plays little to no part in one's ability to play or enjoy videogames, let alone define them as a gamer to begin with. And finally, let's all remember that "gamer" is an asexual term, a descriptor that belongs to everyone who plays games despite gender, ethnicity, or sexual orientation, and is absolutely lovely in its nascent ambiguity.
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however, in their attempts to turn the male gamer on, i find it dumb that they can't even turn a controller on.
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Their response? "Well you play more than me". Funny how some people can declare themselves "Pro" yet fall back on the "I spend less time on video games than you" comment.
03/27/2008 13:59
I can't wait to hear responses from 'Girl Gamers' as I'd love to see the motivation behind it all, whether they agree or not.
03/27/2008 14:01
Attention turns me on.
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Anyway, great write up, I really enjoyed it.
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Other than that, great article.
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Also, "I HART DONKEY KONG CUNTRY." HA HA HA HA! :)
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Don't use listen to Voice Chat or watch TV so much then and should be at peace.
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Dividing gamers up into all these sub-genres and allegiances to consoles is fucking stupid. There's no sense of community in the vast majority of today's gamers, aside from the safe haven of Dtoid.
I mean, at the end of the day we're all wasting our lives doing the same thing, right?
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Unfortunately, though it was meant for the lulz, the above statement is pretty much the first thing that pops into most gamers' heads. I'm all for doing whatever you want, but it does piss me off when I see some girl doing this and then claiming their really into games, only to later reveal that the last thing they played was "The Sims."
On the other hand, there's a woman from "Destructoid.com" who goes by the screen name ".tiff". This ".tiff" is beautiful, intelligent, articulate AND is a true gamer. Having a girl like her flaunt her shit (Hey! Look at me!) while preaching the values of video games (HEY! LISTEN!) could be a good way to help spread the good word of the video game gospel. This "Destructoid.com" website has quite a few women like this...
03/27/2008 14:37
It's sad but alot of peoples view of reality is shaped by TV and the movies.
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But in real life they only do it when they are comfortable. Ya know, racist jokes within their little groups of friends. A little nude pic for her boyfriends cellphone.
Slippery slope. All for the lulz.
03/27/2008 14:42
I dont want to be forced to hide behid a non gender specific avatar, out of fear of offending somone. Im not going to make a big deal out of being female, since i dont see the big deal, yet, at the same time, i dont want others to make a big deal out of me being female. Many on dtoid dont make a big deal. Okay, so on the forum i may get a nice tits comment, but i know, and THEY know i am a gamer and it is all in gest. it is a joke. I am not going to prove myself or my worth to anyone.
I do fel some people are miss representing the femlae community, but at the same time, if all men wanna think women are grrl gamers, then we would argue that men live with the 'all male gamers are nerdy guys who get no sex' sterotype. which also isnt true.
now im just gonna STFUAJPG.
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The seldom few that are humorous, talented, and have an endearing personality. They are the ones that deserve the title of "girl gamers".
I have to admit, from times I've had discussions with female gamers. There is not once they do not get the "hey are you hot?" "its a grrrl!" They ignore, move on. And its only thing thats possible. They are gamers like everyone else. So what about their gender.
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It makes me sad that this movement has become so popular and it makes the rest of female gamers, the ones who just want to play games look bad.
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Completely agree with your article, great write up.
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These separate "gamer" phrases were spawned from a need of these groups to defend themselves from being persecuted. Unfortunately, we live in a gaming culture that asks the question "Are you a girl?" and then either makes fun of her or ask ridiculous questions like "Are you hot?"
The gay gamer term came from people who constantly fear the homophobic statements that are constantly being made towards them.
They need to use these term not because they love the terms but because they fear needless persecution from the online gaming community and they need a very simple way to group together like minded individuals to play with who will not bother them for doing this.
We need the gamer community in general to start treating everyone with some decency so that gamers will not have to ostracized for their differences.
Maxvest, nailed on the head with his first comments.
03/27/2008 15:12
Thats news to me!
03/27/2008 15:15
Then there is the other half... a whore is a whore, of course of course. Dress yourself up in controllers all you want, the fact still remains that attention seeking behavior like that is a complete turn off for most sensible people and reeks of desperation. Attention whores = not at all cool. Sorry. Go to the bars and get your attention the old fashioned way if you must but leave my games alone.
03/27/2008 15:17
I never thought those girls as 'gamers' though.
Just girls posing in front of gaming controllers and such.
Its just the usual male dominant culture creating its own fantasies. There is a reason why a lot of ads targeting males have hot females in them after all.
I real girl gamer would be the equivalent of a regular male gamer. And I'd rather meet someone like that.
03/27/2008 15:19
I'm not going to argue with the ways of the world - if they're there and they're cute, we're going to pay attention to them anyways. I just don't see any reason to exploit it: if I wanted pr0n, I'd fucking watch pr0n.
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Also, isnt it hilariously ironic that i ended up staring at the pictures more than i read the article? :P
03/27/2008 15:24
Munn and Webb are perfect examples of people that are not "Hardcore gamers" and putting them on the same page with people like you, Chobot, Colette and others isn't a great choice. You all get it and are serious and I think most gamers can recognize people that give a shit and those that dont. The byproduct of this is that I know for a fact that one of the girls in your posted pics plays a ton more games than some of the names you listed and I am sure could talk most "Gamers" let alone "Gamer girls" under the table on gaming knowledge. Yet, you take 1/10 of a second of someones life, and put it into context as if you know them and know what the situation was. Its funny. I only imagine if this article were on another site and the pics were of you and Colette how pissed you would be that someone posted things and took pics you took for fun or as a joke out of context.
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Also, cocks.
03/27/2008 15:30
"And finally, let's all remember that "gamer" is an asexual term..."
That being said, I decree that we should abolish the term "girl gamer" considering we don't refer to females who drive cars as "girl drivers."
03/27/2008 15:30
The real shame about polarizing figures like these in the industry is that people generally tend to fall on two equally chauvinist sides of the fence-- the types who lap this stuff up, and those who dismiss such people as "whores." It's really difficult for me, personally, to form an opinion on this. On one hand, I think it's absolutely appalling that these women not only THINK they represent gamers who identify as female, but it seems EVERYONE ELSE thinks so too (everyone else being the male gamer population at large).
What we all need to realize is that it's irrelevant. I don't know anyone who'd call the MySpace kids who listen to hardcore bands and do the same thing with guitars relevant; the question is, why is it relevant to games? In my opinion, it's because there's no real alternative. Indie games are indeed starting to gain traction, but there are none that I'm aware of that are being made by women, or even taking into perspective the identity of female gamers. In music, there is certainly chauvinistic pap, but for every Pussycat Dolls there's a Patti Smith. In film, for every Jessica Alba there's a Chloe Sevigny. Even pornography has feminist alternatives. However, the games industry is sorely lacking in strong female role models; the games-journo world, despite Dtoid's efforts, still hugely male. From a production standpoint, there are few female voices, aside from Jade Raymond (who I'm still on the fence on, mostly because all press about her was mostly "OMG BOOBS" and not so much "So is she an interesting creative director, or a pretty face to push sales?"), and there's virtually no exposure for female programmers, who most certainly exist (I live next to Ubisoft MTL, and surely SOME of those girls who go in that building daily are programming). Until there's a successful, alternative press, gender identity in games will stagnate-- and, in my opinion, the world's view of VGs as "art." Maybe I'm expecting too much from the industry. But, I'm still blindly optimistic that one day, "Grrl gamers" will actually be as subversive and socially beneficial as the "riot grrl" movement from whom they took their name.
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There are always going to be attention whores where ever you go and whatever you do. Be it paintballing or hardcore canasta players.
P.S I LOVE these "GRRL" Gamers. Why? Because they send me sexy pix.
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I don't think they get in the way of anything though. No big deal. And girl gamers tend to get in the sack quicker. Which is lovely for a deformed manbeast like myself.
Alas, playing video games is straight nerdy so we don't really need to break it down, but there will always be those titles assigned like "gay gamer" or "casual gamer" or "occasional gamer with a side of really intense do-nothing-else-until-I-finish-this-damned-Zelda-game then manage to get back to work and then not play video games for nearly months at a time until the next God of War comes out gamer" like myself.
GOD I LOVE TITTIES
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Although, you've gotta admit, the G4 girls do seem to know their stuff. I mean, they could just be reading lines, but it appears that they actually are "true" gamers. Keep in mind that they're probably also paid to project a certain persona.
I'm not trying to defend them, but has anyone met Morgan Webb, Olivia Munn, or Jessica Chobot? What are they really like?
03/27/2008 15:38
Though I have to admit, I don't mind the girls posting pictures of themselves with gamingrelated attributed being licked on and stuffed where it shouldn't be stuffed... I know how dirty those controllers really are, so licking them would rather be a proof of NOT being a gamer :p
I mean they're constantly being held by sticky, sweaty hands and thrown on the floor or where-ever ( since they went with wireless-controllers ), much as I love my 360, I'd never put the controller in my mouth :p
03/27/2008 15:39
My girlfriend is a stereotypical "Games are dorky and for kids, ugh don't talk to me about them evar" girl. :( And yet, she dorks out over anime and sailor moon and poetry and classical authors and shit. Where's the justice in the world!? ;_;
03/27/2008 15:51
I respect a woman who simply lives her life and exudes sexuality by just being herself. Not by walking around half-naked, not by licking electronics, not by thrusting their chests out and putting on their "sexy face" -- just by being their awesome selves. THAT is hot, not this asinine, lowest common denominator posturing.
If cosplay is someone's thing, then fine. But if you do it for popularity, for attention, then screw it. There's a difference between Jessica Chobot licking a PSP and Colette Bennett biting an NES controller. (The difference? Neither is as hot as this.) Anyway, Tiff, you rock. Good article. I can't support this argument enough.
03/27/2008 15:51
Furthermore, regardless of whether a photo is taken 'as a joke' or 'for fun' it's meaning is entirely out of the creators hand when it's released within a public domain. Private photos shared between friends and family are one thing, but public photos that are yielded to the masses are displayed to be viewed, and in the context of the Internet it's likely that the individual's actual personality, intent, or interests will be devoid entirely.
03/27/2008 15:51
Munn isnt a gamer.
Webb A little, depends on what game
Chobot, Ive been friends with for awhile. She for sure knows her shit and takes gaming very serious. If she didnt work at IGN she would still be playing games all of the time like she did before she worked there and like all of the women at Dtoid would also Im sure.
03/27/2008 15:55
I'm in your camp though, I'd rather have a "girl gamer" rolemodel, if there is such a thing, that's more along the wavelength of yourselves, than one whos boobs I've seen than ideas I've heard.
Sorry this isn't more LENGTHY, but time flies.
03/27/2008 16:06
That leads me to believe that the "girl gamers" who exploit their physicality have a very limited purpose, and that purpose is advertising. In a community site such as this one, advertising is generally not well-received. So putting gendered communication theory aside for a moment, I don't really see the predicted disruptive effects manifesting themselves in major ways on this site.
Do women here have to put up with stupid comments sometimes? Absolutely (and I have a few non-obvious theories about why). But are they in some way impeded from becoming important and respected community members? I don't feel that way.
03/27/2008 16:07
I like the article, and i appreciate you clarified what type of Girl Gamer you are writing about. It does irk me that women are so publicized over gaming and some companies use it as some sort of advantage. (Look up TheFragDolls)
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To combat the message of these images (a form of media which is particularly stimulating to visually-oriented males), a written media consisting of the eloquent and passionate voices of women who game is necessary. Words are less likely to introduce sexual impulses into the equation than provocative poses, and men and women alike will be more able to STFUAJPG.
Then again, my edumacation is a little rusty.
03/27/2008 16:30
On my site, I may slip sometimes and use the term girl-gamer, but I try to use female gamer or women gamers more often. Unfortunately the fun has been taken out of the term girl-gamer and it has become a marketing buzzword to mean put a hot girl playing your game and it will sell.
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Here's what I keep coming back to: there are certainly very attractive women (and men) who game. They should be entitled to post pictures of themselves, with or without their gaming accoutrements as they see fit. To me, the nerdcore photos are less about demeaning women and gaming, and more about some people having fun with a camera and their old snes. If I judge the spirit of those photos correctly-and there is a strong possibility that I'm wrong, I'll admit- it looks like a great time was had by all in their creation. That's a big part of what's sexy about it, the playfulness that's expressed.
It seems to me that what's needed to bring about the changes you outline is a clear divide between the legitimate aspects of gaming culture, that is, those worthy of coverage by serious game journalists, and the exhibitionist tendencies of the gaming community. Problems arise in drawing that line on a site like Destructoid, where the community and the journalism tend to blend together. To that issue, I have no solution.
I don't know many girls who game. For those I do know, we tend to interact on the same level as the rest of my friends. Which leads me to my final question: is gaming really the lifestyle choice that we make it out to be? I see a lot of grey area in this issue that isn't being addressed.
03/27/2008 16:49
I hear porn makes men disrespectful of women to. Oh-nos!!
03/27/2008 17:00
Not only is she not doing what you're saying, but even if she were it'd be nothing like that. For many reasons. Like, seriously, how are those two things in any way similar, unless you're implying that it's a jealousy issue (in which case, fuck you)?
They are free to choose how they whore themselves out.
Why'd you pick the word whore here? What is wrong with you?
You sell your words. Some girls sell their words and a bit of their self respect via photos.
Where does self-respect come into play? Do you know what that means? And what does writing have to do with "whoring?"
Some access to their Va-jay-jays's
What does this even mean?
(which is an awesome word!).
RONG
I hear porn makes men disrespectful of women to. Oh-nos!!
Irrelevant to the post. Like, completely. Why even say it?
In summation, you just broke rule 1, you anal bead.
03/27/2008 17:00
We like to hear your consistently sane and intelligent perspectives on gaming!
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