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And the gamers who play them: Girl Gamers photo

For this month's musing I chose to digest the sub-culture of 'Girl Gamers' that has managed to quickly surface alongside the increased popularity of gaming in the mass media.

So to avoid any confusion, the term 'Girl Gamers' is intended to define the populace of female gamers who identify with said terminology and who particularly rely on the alienation of their gender as a means of gaining attention from the larger gamer demographic.

Pics or it didn't happen? Hit the jump to hear more of my take on what being a 'Girl Gamer' is all about.

[Original Photo by Miss Fawn

If one attempts to dig deep within the reserves of videogame history, it's unlikely that they'll uncover the instance of the very first woman who graced her femininity upon a console (well, aside from the Computer Space ad, that is). There are several reasons why this moment was never documented -- mostly because videogame history is predominantly about videogames (imagine that!), but partly because members of the opposite sex playing games isn't very noteworthy in the most fundamental scope of things. I play. You play. We all play, with or without va-jay-jays.

Facts are facts, however, and despite the occasional news announcement reminding the public that female gamers actually exist (apparently at 38% of gamers strong), we all know that videogames are predominantly enjoyed by a male demographic. That being said, there is also no denying the slender aura of novelty that immediately adheres itself to a woman who plays games, whether she craves the inherent attention or attempts to avoid it.

This dichotomy, while not unique, is of interest to the likes of marketing gurus who determinedly pervert this gender-dissonance to their advantage. Thus, what is eventually revealed in the history of gaming media is the attractive (and often scantily clad) female gaming idol embodied by such women as Morgan Webb, Olivia Munn, and Jessica Chobot. All beautiful and consistently visual, these women and others were the few mass-displayed female figures in the gaming industry to be ravenously consumed by gaming's very own male demographic.


Sex sells, and while the rest of the female gamers remained ambivalent to gender differentiation amidst their game playing, the few esteemed faces of the beautiful rooted themselves as the visual representatives of the 'Girl Gamer'. The collective reception and praise of these visual idols by a male-dominant industry garnered an image-heavy notion of the 'Girl Gamer', a notion which to this day has yet to be the equal case for male gamers.

Galleries of E3 booth babes, "hot...naked...and blue" Cortana cosplays, and any number of chicks with joysticks establish a visual narrative for gaming women that heightens gender alienation while simultaneously muffling the significance of the woman gamer's voice. There is no doubt that Ubisoft took advantage of this exact instance by baiting the accomplished, intelligent, and most importantly attractive producer Jade Raymond to the gaming audience to steer public attention to their game Assassin's Creed. In turn, the only surface-level 'heroes' or 'icons' of the female gaming community are the beautifully unattainable likes of Munn or Webb, regarded first and foremost in this industry for their looks.

And so the standard for the 'Girl Gamer' is set and an equation for success is discovered. Take an attractive woman and pair her alongside a gaming device of some sort. Congratulations! You've captured the attention of a massive chunk of the gaming demographic. What better avenue is there to market your gaming products? Hot girls are hot, gaming boys like gaming girls, and most importantly we're all having fun with our irresponsible gender stereotypes. Nothing wrong with fun, guys!

So what, then? Structured by the mass media as a marketing device and fed by a surge of online egoism (thanks to social media sites such as MySpace and the proliferation of digital cameras), the 'Girl Gamer' specimen has, in turn, infected the masses with false promises of niche-specific fame and glory. In the same way people fantasize about becoming a celebrity, these 'Girl Gamers' seek the attention of becoming the next 'it' girl of their respective gaming community through the prolific distribution of sexually charged images and continuously capitalizing on their sex -- both of which, consequently, have relatively little to do with gaming itself.

What's to follow but the Chobot wannabes slathering their tongues across portable consoles for the camera, or the suspiciously excessive amount of 'Girl Gamer' self-portraits involving various game-related paraphernalia (or lack thereof)? Whatever neutral connotations of women gamers existed in the past are overthrown with the photographic barrage of sexually charged images brought to us by the 'Girl Gamers'. They're beautiful, they know which side is their good side, and they're comfortable enough with their sexuality to let us know they're proud of it. If you've got it, flaunt it. Right?

The women who choose to use their body to visually manifest their 'gaming experience' (by way of game-themed suggestive photographs, for example) express themselves via the avenue of the mass marketed 'Girl Gamer', a goal that is altogether vapid and mediocre in its pursuit. If anything, these girls successfully stick out as a glaring instance of the disappointing commercialization of gaming in popular culture, their antics for attention comparatively as bad as a common reality TV show contestant.

Furthermore, it's one thing for females to collectively enjoy games together, but it's another for these 'Girl Gamers' to assert themselves as leading figures of the female gaming community when no one has asked them to do so (unless, of course, it's a sponsored gaming company looking for cash money). This ill-founded goal disrupts a gaming community in which gamers can agreeably interact with each other regardless of their sex by disturbing the space with sexually-oriented images that immediately derail neutrality and signify more differences than likenesses.

 

Gamers who prefer the absence of a gender-biased gaming community ultimately find these 'Girl Gamers' as unnecessary and obnoxious entities desperately seeking attention. For women gamers such as myself who admire the well-spoken gaming female (see Jane Pinckard, Tracey John, Leigh Alexander, and our own Colette Bennett) as opposed to the gaming beauty queens, these 'Girl Gamers' are downright irritating.

It's unlikely that the trendy alliteration of 'Girl Gamer' will fade away anytime soon or that the equivalent 'Guy Gamer' (see Mega64's Sexy64 for more information) will actually be realized. Unfortunately, a similar fate rings true with the 'Girl Gamer' herself as long as the industry continues to cater to its male demographic, and as long as there are women who fashion themselves alongside those same standards.

A more pressing urgency today is the shortage of intelligent women speakers and writers who strongly represent themselves with words as opposed to images. While women such as Jessica Chobot have made certain strides to leave their more exhibitionist pasts behind, as long as there is a constant appraisal of their attractive and more visually accessible adversaries, the battle between the pen and the larger picture continues to rage on.

Thus, the aspirations associated with the 'Girl Gamer' are damaging to both male gamers and female gamers. Gender distinguishment plays little to no part in one's ability to play or enjoy videogames, let alone define them as a gamer to begin with. And finally, let's all remember that "gamer" is an asexual term, a descriptor that belongs to everyone who plays games despite gender, ethnicity, or sexual orientation, and is absolutely lovely in its nascent ambiguity.


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Topher Cantler's Avatar
Topher Cantler at 03/27/2008 03:38
You said va-jay-jay.
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Copyright 2008 Agent Chieftain at 03/27/2008 13:47
HERE COME THE COMMENTS
Kryptinite's Avatar
Kryptinite at 03/27/2008 13:48
I totally got a dirty look from the lady who sits behind me :(
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MrSadistic at 03/27/2008 13:48
I smelled sex. I came as fast as I could (not literally, mind you).
Cheeburga's Avatar
Cheeburga at 03/27/2008 13:51
I prefer a girl gamer who doesn't try to flaunt it.
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MaxVest at 03/27/2008 13:52
Don't get me wrong, but I think a lot of guys understand the difference between a gaming model and a gamer who happens to be a girl. They serve very different purposes, and aren't really the subjects of comparisons by guys.
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BlackSheep at 03/27/2008 13:53
IDK personally I find that it's an easy way to be known, if you don't have the skills to be good in the community, you can always show some cleavage and ppl will know your name.

however, in their attempts to turn the male gamer on, i find it dumb that they can't even turn a controller on.
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Pixel Blue at 03/27/2008 13:56
I agree with this article. And Cheeburga.
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Tragic Hero at 03/27/2008 13:56
Yeah nothing is worse than a girl gamer who proclaims herself as being a "hardcore" gamer every chance she gets. Worst is those same girls in real life who challenge me to games only to have me beat them everytime.

Their response? "Well you play more than me". Funny how some people can declare themselves "Pro" yet fall back on the "I spend less time on video games than you" comment.
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Cowzilla3 at 03/27/2008 13:59
I wish i had time to re-read this a few times because it really deserves it. For the most part I agree, the definition of what a girl gamer is competlely defined by what we're told and, as is seen plenty of times on this sites blogs, a little skin goes a long way.

I can't wait to hear responses from 'Girl Gamers' as I'd love to see the motivation behind it all, whether they agree or not.
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Totally Not A Dude at 03/27/2008 14:01
I am a Girl Gamer because I like showing my tits to all the little boys.

Attention turns me on.
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glipe at 03/27/2008 14:02
I find actual girl gamers a real turn on but the whole grrl gamer thing sickens me. Erk.
Tiff's Avatar
Tiff at 03/27/2008 14:04
@MaxVest Understood. However, for the record this article was not written with the intention of distinguishing what 'Girl Gamers' are for the sake of the male population exclusively.
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Axion22 at 03/27/2008 14:04
Gamer first, genders second.
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Passionate Styos at 03/27/2008 14:05
God damn it, I remember it wasn't like this before, it wasn't girl gamer, gay gamer, casual gamer, hardcore gamer, fucking zoophile gamer bla bla bla bla. We were just gamers, we just play the games, it doesn't matter the ethnic group, sex or anything. And it makes us even worse because many male gamers can be really sexist too.

Anyway, great write up, I really enjoyed it.
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PsychoSoldier at 03/27/2008 14:05
For me I don't like being called a "girl-gamer", I am a gamer plain and simple. If I want to get attention I'll use my gaming skills not my body.
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Senryoku at 03/27/2008 14:06
38% maybe girl gamers, but 28% of them are just attention seeking myspaces whores.
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Kryptinite at 03/27/2008 14:06
AMEN PSYCHOSOLDIER!!
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fyre at 03/27/2008 14:07
Please don't ever use the "word" va-jay-jay again.

Other than that, great article.
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Rifter01 at 03/27/2008 14:08
Thank you for this article... I'm a guy who is presently in a relationship with a hardcore girl gamer (she is in a nationally recognized, sponsored girl gaming group,) I find it is a bittersweet thing to have a g/f that is into gaming as much, if not sometimes more than me. I think intelligence is the key to a successful 'hardcore gaming' relationship.. Otherwise there might be too much ego or hurt feelings on either of our parts instead of just STFUJPG
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daphaknee at 03/27/2008 14:09
uh this is pretty terrible, people play videogames WE ARE PEOPLE STOP SEGREATING they dont say BLACK GAMERS and GAY GAMERS ugh shut up shut up shut up (im female) we actualy want less attention because as soon as the internet finds out i have tits they're like TITS OR GTFO HARRASS
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Tiff at 03/27/2008 14:11
@Fyre Yes yes, I too groaned a bit of regret after I wrote that out, but the whole thing worked a little too well to ignore.
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KittenX at 03/27/2008 14:11
I have to admit when I saw this posted, I was worried and did roll my eyes... oh dear, not another one of these. But after reading it, I have to stand up and applaud you! Excellent post, and my feelings on the matter exactly! Thank you! :D
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Rockvillian at 03/27/2008 14:12
I don't care what kind of gamer anyone is, as long as I have someone to play with who A: doesn't complain/give up when they lose and B: isn't a huge douche when they win.
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Airship Aciddent at 03/27/2008 14:13
The term isn't "girl gamer", it's "attention whore."
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superflossy at 03/27/2008 14:13
eck, those pictures made me want to vomit. i want to punch all those chicks in the face.
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blu3steel at 03/27/2008 14:15
Yeah, let's stop saying "girl gamer" it's retarded.
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Chad Concelmo at 03/27/2008 14:17
I love you, .tiff. Great write-up.

Also, "I HART DONKEY KONG CUNTRY." HA HA HA HA! :)
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Mozgus at 03/27/2008 14:18
Hawt broken leg in first pic.
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liquidninja at 03/27/2008 14:19
My sis' useta be a really hardcore gamer (until she got life) and well this was before Online gaming really took off in consoles and before G4 came state side. So she never had to deal with racist sexists 12 year olds or nerd porn images of her kind.

Don't use listen to Voice Chat or watch TV so much then and should be at peace.
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JohnTheCrow at 03/27/2008 14:19
Whores will be whores, and companies will always market to the lowest common denominator. I don't think these girls are hurting gaming or gamers, the same way that drivers aren't hurt by bimbos in bikinis laying on the hood of a Ferarri in magazines. I can't definitely see how they'd be annoying from a woman's perspective though.
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Vitamin Awesome at 03/27/2008 14:20
I do agree with MaxVest here, It's like any other form of advertisement. Take beer commercials for example, all the ladies are the living definition to the term "Sex Sells." To me a Gaming model and a Gamer that happens to be female are two totally different things. It really is a shame when you have models damaging credibility to women who want to be taken seriously in the gaming culture. Anyone who pwns me in any of the games I play well earn my respect, regardless of whatever they're labeled as, unless they're cocky about it.
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MaxVest at 03/27/2008 14:22
I guess to press that point, who is the target audience? The only people who seem to emerge from this sad state of affairs with dignity in tact are the "intelligent women speakers and writers who strongly represent themselves with words as opposed to images." Otherwise the men seem shallow, and the women who seek the male gaze seem vapid. Is it possible these are also stereotypes that do not adequately reflect a more complex reality?
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24GSandCounting at 03/27/2008 14:32
Perfect example of viralg "Girl Gamer" marketing:

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Char Aznable at 03/27/2008 14:33
This is the most insightful, well-written article I've read on Dtoid in a while. Great job. "Donkey Kong Cuntry" alone was worth the price of admission.

Dividing gamers up into all these sub-genres and allegiances to consoles is fucking stupid. There's no sense of community in the vast majority of today's gamers, aside from the safe haven of Dtoid.

I mean, at the end of the day we're all wasting our lives doing the same thing, right?
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blehman at 03/27/2008 14:34
I must've read the title wrong, because it looks like you're trying to describe "playing" girl gamers...
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Justice at 03/27/2008 14:36
Good artcile, these terms need to be done away with.
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MaximusPaynicus at 03/27/2008 14:36
I suddenly feel the need to hump something. Where's Sterling when we need him?
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DynamicSheep at 03/27/2008 14:37
*fap fap fap* werds *fap fap fap*

Unfortunately, though it was meant for the lulz, the above statement is pretty much the first thing that pops into most gamers' heads. I'm all for doing whatever you want, but it does piss me off when I see some girl doing this and then claiming their really into games, only to later reveal that the last thing they played was "The Sims."

On the other hand, there's a woman from "Destructoid.com" who goes by the screen name ".tiff". This ".tiff" is beautiful, intelligent, articulate AND is a true gamer. Having a girl like her flaunt her shit (Hey! Look at me!) while preaching the values of video games (HEY! LISTEN!) could be a good way to help spread the good word of the video game gospel. This "Destructoid.com" website has quite a few women like this...
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liquidninja at 03/27/2008 14:37
hear hear MaxVest

It's sad but alot of peoples view of reality is shaped by TV and the movies.
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atheistium at 03/27/2008 14:39
can i has u now?
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J4RMZ at 03/27/2008 14:39
With gaming being the microcosm of life that it is, Its always been funny to me that the men and women that use gaming culture to seek attention by showing their bodies off in the ladies case, or by using the anonymity of the Internet to combine like voltron into a fascist, racist, id driven pervert, in the guys case, are the same people that do it in real life.

But in real life they only do it when they are comfortable. Ya know, racist jokes within their little groups of friends. A little nude pic for her boyfriends cellphone.

Slippery slope. All for the lulz.
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pheonix-blood at 03/27/2008 14:42
This is really interesting and well written. However i make no point to hide behind an avatar, there are pictures of me on this website, silly pcitures, cospalying pictures, modleing pictures. i acutally jsut posted a pic of me in the post a pic of yourself thread wearing my new dtoid tshirt, Do i feel like im letting the side down? like im doing it for attention? well no, no i dont, cos deep down thats not why im doing it. I actually jsut am excited to get my dtoid tsihrt.

I dont want to be forced to hide behid a non gender specific avatar, out of fear of offending somone. Im not going to make a big deal out of being female, since i dont see the big deal, yet, at the same time, i dont want others to make a big deal out of me being female. Many on dtoid dont make a big deal. Okay, so on the forum i may get a nice tits comment, but i know, and THEY know i am a gamer and it is all in gest. it is a joke. I am not going to prove myself or my worth to anyone.

I do fel some people are miss representing the femlae community, but at the same time, if all men wanna think women are grrl gamers, then we would argue that men live with the 'all male gamers are nerdy guys who get no sex' sterotype. which also isnt true.

now im just gonna STFUAJPG.
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Orionsaint at 03/27/2008 14:42
Call me crazy but wasn't the final GTAIV supposed to premiere today? March 27th?
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kadosho at 03/27/2008 14:43
This is something thats enlightening to read. Taking a notion of what "attention" the media brings to everyone. And the socially devitants that say "praise me, i r hot" yet still manifesting a personality, that of a puppet.

The seldom few that are humorous, talented, and have an endearing personality. They are the ones that deserve the title of "girl gamers".

I have to admit, from times I've had discussions with female gamers. There is not once they do not get the "hey are you hot?" "its a grrrl!" They ignore, move on. And its only thing thats possible. They are gamers like everyone else. So what about their gender.
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Orionsaint at 03/27/2008 14:43
trailer that is
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vishusdelishus at 03/27/2008 14:44
Where's Aktrez when you need her?
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naia-the-gamer at 03/27/2008 14:51
I almost wish that the more well-spoken females, like Colette are the ones who got more attention than the "grrrrrl gamers." They're role models for women and I think men would take female gamers more seriously instead of focusing on the attention whores who flaunt themselves.

It makes me sad that this movement has become so popular and it makes the rest of female gamers, the ones who just want to play games look bad.
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ceark at 03/27/2008 14:55
great writeup. those captions on those pictures were briliant ^_^
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KamikazeTutor at 03/27/2008 15:03
Donkey Kong? More like DONKEY PUNCH! lululul


Completely agree with your article, great write up.
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