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39% of British parents let kids play adult games photo

Yet more fuel for the argument that parents need to be responsible for their children has surfaced recently, with a new poll from MyVoucherCodes revealing that 39% of parents let their kids play games beyond their age level. 

Surprisingly, a further 25% of parents played the game with their child. The UK site also revealed that 53% of parents polled let their kids watch 18+ movies such as Borat or Saw, while 66% of parents are fine with their snotlings playing explicit music from such wonderful suburban poets as Eminem and Jay Z. 

This is fine of course. If a parent believes their child is mature and intelligent enough to handle more adult-themed content, that should be their choice. However, I would hope that any parent allowing this would be held to account if their little brat stabs someone in the eye, and doesn't rush to blame the videogames that they themselves allowed in the house. 

Seems to me that most parents are absolutely fine with violent videogames ... until they need a scapegoat.

39% of parents let kids play unsuitable computer games [Network World]








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TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:08
TurboKill
I agree on every point. Well articulated Jim.

That last point especially.
TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:13
TurboKill
Mkay..?
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:13
Xzyliac
This is all falling nicely with a trend.

First music was villified: 66% of parents are cool with explicit music.

Then film was villified: 53% of parents are cool with explicit films.

Then videogames are villified: 39% of parents are cool with explicit videogames.
Z0L0's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:14
Z0L0
I'm glad we've got trained researchers conducting these studies and not just some cheap-arse website
TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:15
TurboKill
I was commenting on Jim's opinion.

@X
RenegadePanda's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:15
RenegadePanda
Seems to me that most parents are absolutely fine with violent videogames ... until they need a scapegoat.

Hit the nail on the head.
TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:17
TurboKill
I was commenting on Jim's opinion.

@Xzyliac

Yeah, technology sure is scary.
TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:18
TurboKill
That imcomplete post was a slip. My bad...
TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:20
TurboKill
*Incomplete

jeez, no more psp comments.
Avasyu's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:20
Avasyu
100% right on. I have 4 kids, and a carefully preview what they play.

I am pretty sick of parents and politicians instantly blaming video games instead of their inability to control their children.
Holyetheline's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:21
Holyetheline
My parents fit into this category 15 years ago when I was growing up... There's nothing wrong with that.
Mr Pibb's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:21
Mr Pibb
Borat's a 15 movie, I just checked my copy. Perhaps it was confused with Bruno?

This is fine of course. If a parent believes their child is mature and intelligent enough to handle more adult-themed content, that should be their choice. However, I would hope that any parent allowing this would be held to account if their little brat stabs someone in the eye, and doesn't rush to blame the videogames that they themselves allowed in the house.

Pretty much this. I played MGS when I was about 9 or 10 and one of my aunts bought me GTA2 one Christmas when I was 11 (I had asked for Colin McRae rally 2 but the shop assistant had bullshitted her and said it was pretty much the same but I certainly wasn't going to exchange it) and have played violent games ever since then and it never affected me negatively. It's mainly that people don't want to accept responsibility for their actions so when their child turns out to be a violent little arsehole they blame anything but themselves and the violent games that they used as a babysitter comes to the top of the list.
PappaDukes's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:29
PappaDukes
I consider myself lucky. I grew up in an age of video games where parents didn't give a shit, or hardly even knew what video games were. The news media never reported on any video game related violence, and I could buy games like GTA for my PS1 before I was 18.

I grew up just fine. Never been to prison, never committed a crime of any kind. The only time I ever showed any violence of any kind were when my brother and I would watch football games, then we'd run outside and tackle the shit out of each other.
matty125's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:30
matty125
"Seems to me that most parents are absolutely fine with violent videogames ... until they need a scapegoat."

Exactly. Everything is fine and dandy till shit starts rolling downhill.
Hey, my folks let me watch Faces of Death and other smut videos, and look how I turned out!
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 17:31
Xzyliac
@TurboKill
What I was going for was that controversy blows over but technology is scary. You've seem Terminator right?
Kraid's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 18:12
Kraid
You'see the kids they listen to the rap music , which gives them the brain damage!....Rap music is too blame, clearly.
PenKaizen's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 18:31
PenKaizen
My parents were really strict with me on game and film age ratings, I owned my first 18 rated game at 15 and that was Unreal Tournament 3.
However they are a bit more leniant with my younger brother, though he still can't play 18 rated games. He's 12 and completed AC2 in the space of about 3 days.
Tonglongninja's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 18:46
Tonglongninja
I've never heard of people linking violent video games to violence here, in the land of Aus. I find the whole thing with overseas media kinda amusing, though thats because I don't have to live with it. But hey, with the recent trend in censorship I guess that evens out. My parents always let me play what I wanted... however some things game them reason to pause, my mum wasn't a fan of conkers bfd (I was maybe 12 at the time) at first. That is untill she fell over laughing at Greg.
ender_x's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 19:18
ender_x
Tonglongninja: can you even get the games that this article would be talking about??
cuz l4d2 in aussie is crap.
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 19:19
Xzyliac
@Tonglongninja
I've never heard of people linking violent video games to violence here, in the land of Aus.

Not to claim I know more about your country than you do but if that's the case why do they feel the need to ban everything? Or perhaps because they ban everything there's no panel of discussion on the subject?

Honest question. Why would they ban something they consider non-influential?
Tonglongninja's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 19:54
Tonglongninja
I think the banning is the result of one guy, and an outdated ratings system that didn't put enough forethought into its ratings, It never used to be a problem, because games didn't look realistic enough to have an R rating, its odd. The only thing I've really read about here is the lack of an R rating, and that isn't even mentioned in the mainstream press.

I think that honestly, since there isn't much of a focus on videogames in the media, most non hardcore gamers don't even realize there is no R rating. Most games used to just get rated M-A but because recently (as in this current generation) they have begun to look too real for that to slide, the government has a couple of times actually tried to update the system to include an R-18 rating, but each time attorney general Atkinson blocks it, and only Atkinson. It really is one man imposing his will on the populace (now keep in mind this guy is ancient, may have never played a game in his life, and is also which is the whole problem. See, they aren't banned so much, theres just no rating for them. its truly ridiculous.
Dangsterr's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 20:05
Dangsterr
Seriously, it's not the end of the world if people let their children watch content that's not suitable for their age, it would be the end of the world if they let them watch it, and then bitch that it's too violent for the kids
Tonglongninja's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 20:08
Tonglongninja
Also, South Australia as a state has less than 10% of Aus's population, now we only have six states (and two territories) and you have to live in South Australia to vote for their Attorney General. This guy is also a spokesman for strong christian values, so you get an idea what hes like. I think he's also about 70.

so the most accurate comparison I can think of is some old churchie from america's deep south, finding himself in a position to singlehandedly stop the sick filth that is videogames from having an R rating. Leaving the ratings board unable to give a rating to anything that should fall into the R18+ category, leaving those games in limbo, or slotted into the M-A15+ category in most cases.

I can understand the confusion, its stupid.

but yeah, not a peep about it in the media. they also didn't care about no russian, or sex in mass effect (both of those got through fine). or anything like that. the only one who cares it seems, is atkinson.
Xzyliac's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 20:42
Xzyliac
@Tonglongninja
I guess that makes some sense.
D-503's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 20:46
D-503
Your kids are gunna drink, have sex, and sneak into movies too (going by personal experience), just make sure they know how to keep safe and be responsible and they'll hopefully turn out alright.
AceFlibble's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 21:07
AceFlibble
True story: just two days ago in MW2 (on XBL), I came across a father playing with his son who clearly was not anywhere close to being 18. Both of them were calling other players faggots, homos, poofs, gaylords and the father happily swore indiscriminately throughout.

It genuinely depressed me. People shouldn't be like this, this shouldn't happen. It just shouldn't.
TurboKill's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 21:46
TurboKill
@Xzyliac

I was referring to how (some) people are afraid of gamings realism. Thus said controversies.
Hotline 128's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 21:52
Hotline 128
@Ace Flibble

That is messed up. I agree that it shouldn't happen. Guess this is one of the cases where you could say "like father, like son"...
Starrynight's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/04/2010 22:37
Starrynight
I think it depends on the kids and the parents.

I was playing GTA when I was about 9 years old, watching 18+ rated movies as young as 6. (Probably younger, can't remember exactly)
Same with my cousins, my boyfriend and a few other people I know.

And we all grew up just fine. =)
LazyAza's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/05/2010 00:04
LazyAza
The problem with these statistics is theirs no specific age brackets listed. For all we know that 39% could be about 'kids' aged between 13 and 17 which is like a whatever move on people situation.

Now if it was 39% and the kids are all aged between 6 and 8 or something crazy then that's f***ed up right there.
JustLikeBuck's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/05/2010 03:48
JustLikeBuck
I call bullshit for 2 points. The majority of parents who would often let their kids play Adult games:

1) Don't realise there are adult games - just bad, nasty games for naughty kids.

2) Aren't smart enough to use a website beyond facebook, and BBC news, let alone one that will save them money online - these guys are strict high-street window lickers, therefore wouldn't be part of this poll.

Have this poll on facebook and I'm sure we'd get a much different result.
cap123's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/05/2010 05:28
cap123
my dad would actually take an interest in what games i was playing when i was younger, and decided on a game to game basis what he thought of it. The only time he ever took a game away from being a bit too violent for me was mortal kombat 3, and i was pretty young. He actually talked about it with me openly before doing so as well, go figure. He said i'd get it back some time, we both forgot about it though and i ended up getting it back about 8 years later :P
LsTr Of SmG's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/05/2010 07:57
LsTr Of SmG
The fact that 25% of parents played the games with their child could actually be taken in a positive light as it at least means the parent is there to put the adult content in context.

Hopefully that's the case rather than 'FUCK YAAAARRRR VIOLENCE - I'M SUCH A FUCKIN' COOL PARENT'.

...hopefully.
teke367's Avatar - Comment posted on 01/05/2010 10:28
teke367
Parents should not "allow" their children to play these violent games. Part of growing up is sneaking around finding a way to play these things. If parents allow their kids to play them, then that challenge is gone, and with it an important developmental moment of childhood.

Same thing with internet porn. It isn't bad because kids will see naked people, its bad because they won't need to be resourceful to see naked people. They're going to grow up soft.
kramnella's Avatar - Comment posted on 06/17/2011 02:43
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Agree with LsTr Of SmG at least the parents are there to guide their children while playing. <a href="http://articles.ensogo.com.ph/hotel-deals-how-you-can-avail-the-best/">hotel deals</a>
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